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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I actually can't believe this is happen. A friend of ours has had someone set up a fake Facebook profile and message one of their family telling them about them being in a sex club at the weekend. I am utterly disgusted at this. This is meant to be fun. To have a problem with someone is fine but to invoke their family is disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now that is well below the belt pardon the pun , just curious to know how the person who set up the false facebook account knew .

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

My ex was a weasly bastard.

He used to do things like that to me when we split up.

He set up an account numerous times as guys and women to see what I was doing and who I was out with at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a post few weeks back about another female who had family members contacted and pics sent to them of her profile. Disgusting behaviour to do this to anyone.

Musicmaid x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doesn't matter how tight your setting are either... If people want to be horrible they'll find a way

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How shit!is the person ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are strange. Sadly it's just part of life these days.

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By *ermahornMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's really quite scary!

From what I gather from similar post on here, tighter revenge porn laws mean the police take this kinda thing really seriously and that the person responsible could be in bit of bother and possibly end up on the sex offenders register.

Hopefully once people realise the consequences of their actions it will stop these shits dong it in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh how I hark back to putting 10p in the phone box,replying to a box no,or using the secret handshake to do thing's that were to be private,technology has its advantages but it also the end of privacy

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By *avid0894Man
over a year ago

Paisley

My ex found out. Apparently I'm disgusting and degrading for swinging and don't have any feelings towards woman.

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It really is pathetic ,no matter what peoples issues are with each other keep it here .When it leaves the scene to involve those out with it gets messy and hurtful .And to do it to someone you may not even know is worse .Today it has really made me think of the whole picture and if it really is worth the hassle that comes with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate hearing about things like this, makes you doubt fab and makes people put their guard up,and only stick to people they have meet before it's hard enough for people to meet without some jelous or bitter idiot making it harder, as i have always said treat people the way you want to be treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to my on my old profile

Took my pics and put them in the internet

Caused me loads of problems. Some people just want to fuck you up and ruin your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the amount of guys fishing for the sympathy vote in this thread

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I actually can't believe this is happen. A friend of ours has had someone set up a fake Facebook profile and message one of their family telling them about them being in a sex club at the weekend. I am utterly disgusted at this. This is meant to be fun. To have a problem with someone is fine but to invoke their family is disgusting "

I take it the person who done it was also at the party?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Loving the amount of guys fishing for the sympathy vote in this thread "

Don't think people are looking for sympathy, just sharing their own experiences.

I've had a fake profile set up using one of my pics. Fortunately someone told me about it and it was taken down.

People should be careful and aware of what can happen. You just don't expect it from people who share the same interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually can't believe this is happen. A friend of ours has had someone set up a fake Facebook profile and message one of their family telling them about them being in a sex club at the weekend. I am utterly disgusted at this. This is meant to be fun. To have a problem with someone is fine but to invoke their family is disgusting "

The people who do these things will eventually get what's coming to them.

if not, I'm sure someone will help to make sure they do

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By *avid0894Man
over a year ago

Paisley

I would be happy to be quite open about being on Fab. I know it may not sound too popular as people want to be as discreet as possible.

It annoys me when people say bad things about the site without ever experiencing it.

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I actually can't believe this is happen. A friend of ours has had someone set up a fake Facebook profile and message one of their family telling them about them being in a sex club at the weekend. I am utterly disgusted at this. This is meant to be fun. To have a problem with someone is fine but to invoke their family is disgusting

I take it the person who done it was also at the party?"

That's the thing. Don't know

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I actually can't believe this is happen. A friend of ours has had someone set up a fake Facebook profile and message one of their family telling them about them being in a sex club at the weekend. I am utterly disgusted at this. This is meant to be fun. To have a problem with someone is fine but to invoke their family is disgusting

The people who do these things will eventually get what's coming to them.

if not, I'm sure someone will help to make sure they do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you willfully submit any personal details, pictures or information to the internet, you have to accept that your privacy could be compromised forever.

Especially on sites such as this.

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By *he ODBMan
over a year ago

glasgow

And this is why my profile states require a bit of discretion. Twisted little fucks around everywhere. I've no problem admitting what I get up to but making family members or friends embarrassed ain't high on my list of priorities. Of course I get accused of playing away. I forgot swinging is totally normal and mainstream these days /s

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Once you willfully submit any personal details, pictures or information to the internet, you have to accept that your privacy could be compromised forever.

Especially on sites such as this.

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There is no personal details needed to be on this site no names etc. Facebook yes but not this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bad experience about three years back on my old profile. Jealous guy set up a fake couples profile with the crappiest pics going in order to lead me a merry dance because he was jealous I'd been with someone he was obsessed about.

Threats of " i know where you live " etc

I'm still here tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex has hacked my iTunes and iCloud about three times in the past three years, taken stuff off and plastered it all over a site called xnxx, xhamster and even Twitter. In a way it's my own fault for not having changed my passwords and reminder questions to more secure ones.

Breakups can bring the worst out in people and so can jealousy. Sounds like your friend has been the victim of the latter OP. Sorry to hear, thankfully with new laws recently passed this type of carry on does have a punishment waiting. Punishment doesn't help the victim but hopefully will make the arseholes think twice before doing it.

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

Says a lot about being open and honest about the lifestyle and way you want to live your life.

If you are happy with it, embrace it. It's the secrecy that causes the pain.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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If you are happy with it, embrace it. It's the secrecy that causes the pain."

Sorry but I disagree with this comment!

What 'I' do in 'my' bedroom or else where for that matter is 'my' business! That I am a swinger or not.

Why should you be all public about your sex life just because you are a swinger?!

Vanilla people don't advertise or give accounts on their sex life... why should swingers!

And it's not secrecy as such in my opinion, it's privacy!

And most people swingers or not are private about their sex life.

Anyway that's my opinion.

Hugs again OP xx

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate

A friend of mine had this done to her, she had to get the police involved as a letter was put through her door, she has her suspicions about who it is so hopefully police will find out who it was for definite and they will be dealt with.

My daughter and immediate family know I goto the clubs as I've nothing to hide from them. Xx

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By *unseekers87Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

This is why we are still apprehensive about going along to cjs

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"

If you are happy with it, embrace it. It's the secrecy that causes the pain.

Sorry but I disagree with this comment!

What 'I' do in 'my' bedroom or else where for that matter is 'my' business! That I am a swinger or not.

Why should you be all public about your sex life just because you are a swinger?!

Vanilla people don't advertise or give accounts on their sex life... why should swingers!

And it's not secrecy as such in my opinion, it's privacy!

And most people swingers or not are private about their sex life.

Anyway that's my opinion.

Hugs again OP xx

"

I never said anything about giving details. I simply said embrace the lifestyle without secrecy e.g.. If you have a poly, non monogamous, open relationship or are a swinger is just the same as stating you are straight, bi, gay.

The issue is that the "secret" gets out. If you are at ease with your lifestyle choice no need to hide it and in doing that takes the power away from those "exposing" your "secret"... if you follow me.

Just another opinion, But please know I am not saying to give out your sexual antics just like you don't should about it when you have monogamous sex.

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"My ex has hacked my iTunes and iCloud about three times in the past three years, taken stuff off and plastered it all over a site called xnxx, xhamster and even Twitter. In a way it's my own fault for not having changed my passwords and reminder questions to more secure ones.

Breakups can bring the worst out in people and so can jealousy. Sounds like your friend has been the victim of the latter OP. Sorry to hear, thankfully with new laws recently passed this type of carry on does have a punishment waiting. Punishment doesn't help the victim but hopefully will make the arseholes think twice before doing it."

I wish this was the case. Sadly no break up just some asshole out for kicks

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

If you are happy with it, embrace it. It's the secrecy that causes the pain.

Sorry but I disagree with this comment!

What 'I' do in 'my' bedroom or else where for that matter is 'my' business! That I am a swinger or not.

Why should you be all public about your sex life just because you are a swinger?!

Vanilla people don't advertise or give accounts on their sex life... why should swingers!

And it's not secrecy as such in my opinion, it's privacy!

And most people swingers or not are private about their sex life.

Anyway that's my opinion.

Hugs again OP xx

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By *haostimeMan
over a year ago

north Glasgow

Heart goes out to you there, some bloody lowlifes out there.

The only thing isyou could complain to fb , and possibly get the ip address, but run risk of it becoming more public, or trace location where message was sent from (will give you details withing 1 square mile) if you want to know how it's done pm me

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