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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

youve been a member 7 days

there is hundreds of male profiles to every female profile .

does yours stand out in anyway ?

guys have spent montbs and years , attending social events and engaging in chat in chat rooms and forums before meeting .

personally think you should reset and adjust your expectations .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked at your profile seen ur update saying what your kik name is i would change that, if i was you i would also lower your expectations dramatically the best way to be is expect nothing that way if somthing dose happen then its a bonus and go on chat and make people laugh be polite i would also make a effort to attend a social event so that you can build up your verifications,

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol"

As said above work on your profile, get some public pics, reset your expectations. Fab is not insta-shag!

You've been on here 7 days!

Have you taken the time to get a feel for the place and the people in it??

That, in my opinion is step one! Unless you're desperate for a shag!

And if fab is getting you down after 7 days and you feel the need to post!

Hmmm may be Fab is not the place for you.

Patience is a virtue on Fab little grasshopper.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Wow 7 days and nothing ...best give up if its getting you down "already"

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol"

Go to bars and pubs mate, far easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't get a meet after 7 days I'd maybe just give up to be honest or if you want to hang around then you need a profile overhaul.

Spell check is a good place to start .

Think a little about your profile text too, don't try come across as lecturing. Def lose the headline also.

Look at other guys profiles and see how they are doing things .

It's really very simple. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No meets in 7 days? Definitely give up, every other guy managed within 3!

You've had some great advice above. Please don't be like the majority who post this kind of message and ignore yet continue to wonder why you're having no luck, and get bitter and nasty.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"No meets in 7 days? Definitely give up, every other guy managed within 3!

"

Hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No meets in 7 days? Definitely give up, every other guy managed within 3!

Hours "

I'm surprised it took you 3 hours, you must have been easing yourself in slowly!

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol"

maybe it's your personality then?

lol

this forum post certainly isn't going to help, either are your typos lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"No meets in 7 days? Definitely give up, every other guy managed within 3!

Hours

I'm surprised it took you 3 hours, you must have been easing yourself in slowly! "

I do like to take my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol

maybe it's your personality then?

lol

this forum post certainly isn't going to help, either are your typos lol

"

Why wont the post help ? the guy is only asking for advice since he is new her ,op try to get along to socials drinks nights ect intoduce yourself ,dont be pushy and as someone else said expect nothing and what you get is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen his profile update, don't think he's taken much onboard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol"

If it's getting you down after 7 days, then this isn't the place for you.

Did you really expect to come on here and start jumping bed to bed with different women/ couples.

Have respect for people on here or yourself mate, absolutely reeks of desperation.

Not meaning to offend you.

But this is why women can't be bothered with half the men on here.

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol

maybe it's your personality then?

lol

this forum post certainly isn't going to help, either are your typos lol

Why wont the post help ? the guy is only asking for advice since he is new her ,op try to get along to socials drinks nights ect intoduce yourself ,dont be pushy and as someone else said expect nothing and what you get is a bonus "

use a bit of common sense then, i was going to suggest to him that he should maybe get along to a social or a club by why should i if he can't even work that out for himself ffs it's not rocket science.

and making a forum post about it ffs sorry but that certainly ain't going to help unless someone takes pity on you lol

what is it with people nowadays that they need to be spoon feed every single thing.

oh aye and going by posts from the people in/on the Scottish side of the site/forum in the past that 420 thingy ma bob will not help things on here, most are alkies and pill poppers lol

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

and your 24 years old...

what the hell, you got any mates?

get out and party/mingle more or that not your scene?

oh to be that age again in this day and age lol

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

and that headline... man... lol

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

sorry in a funny mood today.

is no about time this forum had an edit button.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

You've been here 7 days???? Maybe try 'instashag.com'

And the 420 thing won't help either!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Best quit and become a monk then OP

(Only if you look as good as me in orange mind)

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

420 the mark of the bad guys.......or someone that enjoys something outwith the norm. Love the lectures I dont use myself but care not about folk that do seen far worse sights from a whiskey swiller. Op its simple 7 days is nothing there are mostly folk who have no intrest in you interspesed with a few golden nuggets take time and find them or leave and return multiple times. As others do (a bit of re inventing works aparently)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here 7 days???? Maybe try 'instashag.com'

And the 420 thing won't help either!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me what im dping wrong . struggling to find a match i domt consider myself a horror but ita getting me down now lol

maybe it's your personality then?

lol

this forum post certainly isn't going to help, either are your typos lol

Why wont the post help ? the guy is only asking for advice since he is new her ,op try to get along to socials drinks nights ect intoduce yourself ,dont be pushy and as someone else said expect nothing and what you get is a bonus

use a bit of common sense then, i was going to suggest to him that he should maybe get along to a social or a club by why should i if he can't even work that out for himself ffs it's not rocket science.

and making a forum post about it ffs sorry but that certainly ain't going to help unless someone takes pity on you lol

what is it with people nowadays that they need to be spoon feed every single thing.

oh aye and going by posts from the people in/on the Scottish side of the site/forum in the past that 420 thingy ma bob will not help things on here, most are alkies and pill poppers lol"

Get a grip the guy asked for adivice thats all ,and its an open forum so he can use it as he likes just like the rest of us ,op try and take what the more friendlier ppl are saying to you and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here 7 days???? Maybe try 'instashag.com'

And the 420 thing won't help either!!"

What is 420?

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By *he Glorious WestendOneMan
over a year ago

Westend

Is it not cannabis

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

some folk don't seem to realize the power they have at their finger tips, the knowledge available with a simple internet search...

but aye that's what 420 means... .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some folk don't seem to realize the power they have at their finger tips, the knowledge available with a simple internet search...

but aye that's what 420 means... ."

Do you need a hug?

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

naw i need a smoke lol

but a hug would be nice thanks

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By *he Glorious WestendOneMan
over a year ago

Westend

Is a hug a 520

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

no that means I Love You...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naw i need a smoke lol

but a hug would be nice thanks "

You seem a bit grumpy, I coukdnt stroke your hair and sing a wee song if it helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*could

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"naw i need a smoke lol

but a hug would be nice thanks

You seem a bit grumpy, I coukdnt stroke your hair and sing a wee song if it helps?"

Can you sing soft kitty??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naw i need a smoke lol

but a hug would be nice thanks

You seem a bit grumpy, I coukdnt stroke your hair and sing a wee song if it helps?

Can you sing soft kitty?? "

Yes but I change it to bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm saving myself.....Well that's what the stats tell me.

Some naivety from OP but as is per usual, someone new gets put in the stocks and pelted with whatever because he's not something that the majority sees as "normal" or "accepted"

Or insert your own adjectives...

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"I'm saving myself.....Well that's what the stats tell me.

Some naivety from OP but as is per usual, someone new gets put in the stocks and pelted with whatever because he's not something that the majority sees as "normal" or "accepted"

Or insert your own adjectives..."

To be fair he's not commented since the original post so looks like he's forgotten it. Probably all that he smokes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers for that yeah im not wanting to come across something im not . not worried for negativity haha

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