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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Probably not a good idea

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Go for it!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

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how long have you been apart?

Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

I'm stuck what to do.

Sex with her is amazing but I can't help thinking there's an evil twist to her plan lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I have no idea why folk want to live out their lives through cyberland.......you are the person being asked decide yourself.

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

how long have you been apart?

Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol"

We split October last year and have kept on terms for my kids sake

We have slept together since we split up but now for a while so this is completely out of the blue

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"I have no idea why folk want to live out their lives through cyberland.......you are the person being asked decide yourself."

I will decide for myself!

I'm askin for advice as I'm sure there's many a man been in my position

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

Change to a couples profile quickly and see if you can get a MFF

Or I'd say no she's an ex for a reason .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

how long have you been apart?

Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol

We split October last year and have kept on terms for my kids sake

We have slept together since we split up but now for a while so this is completely out of the blue"
well if uve already slept with her since parting im sure you will do again only you can decide

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

Change to a couples profile quickly and see if you can get a MFF

Or I'd say no she's an ex for a reason ."

I would love her to join me on fab

I wouldn't know how to go about asking her without offending though lol

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

how long have you been apart?

Just be careful its not a trap or you could soon have 2 children lol

We split October last year and have kept on terms for my kids sake

We have slept together since we split up but now for a while so this is completely out of the bluewell if uve already slept with her since parting im sure you will do again only you can decide

It's been a while though and we are supposed to be moving on

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

To be blunt, I'm sure there's good reason you both split up... If that reasoning still stands, then stay separate.... Otherwise you should get back together

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"To be blunt, I'm sure there's good reason you both split up... If that reasoning still stands, then stay separate.... Otherwise you should get back together

I don't want to be with her and I'm not sure how her feelings stand......... But the sex is great and I'm a weak man lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Noooooooooooo

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

You're going to do it any way regardless of what any of us say so just have at it.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Is a quick leg over with her worth the potential drama and additional child maintenance if she fell pregnant ??

Personally I'd steer well clear of the situation as prefer a stress free life . Be there as a father to your child but draw a firm line in the sand between you and your EX .Time to think with the big brain .

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"Is a quick leg over with her worth the potential drama and additional child maintenance if she fell pregnant ??

What your saying is exactly what I've been thinkin all afternoon.

Although my little brain keeps telling me to wrap up then get her to fuck lol

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

I'm going to ponder it over for an hour or 2, weigh up the pros n cons

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

Have a wank and make sure you are thinking with a clear head.

I'd say no and im sure aftrr you deal with yourself, you'll think the same!

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By *ockylochMan
over a year ago

Alexandria

Go for it......she probably would go on fab with you....just word it good....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Woah.

Woman's sneaky tricks alert.

She probably Deffo wants to get back with you... i can just imagine her laid there after "oh isn't it a shame it's the last time ever... hold me...."

Just go round and ask her what it's all about first.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I say 'never go back!'

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

you cant move forward if you keep looking back .

move on

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

Iv been lookin at all your advice, some mixed reactions from the blokes but all the ladies seem to agree on stayin away.

Nobody knows a female better than a female so on that evidence I will be having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just say yous need to be carefull. Hookinh up after splitting up normally ends up with one person getting g attached again and arguments happening because yous both want different things. If there's kids then you don't want her becoming mad and not letting you see them

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By *ly_bi_guyMan
over a year ago

fife

Tell her to bolt,she's an extra for a reason

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"I would just say yous need to be carefull. Hookinh up after splitting up normally ends up with one person getting g attached again and arguments happening because yous both want different things. If there's kids then you don't want her becoming mad and not letting you see them"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Iv been lookin at all your advice, some mixed reactions from the blokes but all the ladies seem to agree on stayin away.

Nobody knows a female better than a female so on that evidence I will be having a wank

You really shouldn't need to have it pointed out to you tbh

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"Iv been lookin at all your advice, some mixed reactions from the blokes but all the ladies seem to agree on stayin away.

Nobody knows a female better than a female so on that evidence I will be having a wank

You really shouldn't need to have it pointed out to you tbh"

As I stated before, I'm a weak man

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Put your child's welfare before your own needs. It's hard when your parents split up, yoyoing just makes it harder for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pm me her number I'll meet her and explain to her, how you can't keep meeting her, am sure she will understand. Hehe and if she is a good girl I'll see she is well looked after too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex is an ex for a reason. I personally think she's not moving on if she's allowing you to have sex with her and all that becomes is jail bait when you meet someone and she gets jealous and she messages your new bow with the juicy gossip. Seen it many times and it always ends in disaster. I'd say politely message back and decline and explain a friendship with her is more important than sex as kids are involved x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea why folk want to live out their lives through cyberland.......you are the person being asked decide yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea why folk want to live out their lives through cyberland.......you are the person being asked decide yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a wank and make sure you are thinking with a clear head.

I'd say no and im sure aftrr you deal with yourself, you'll think the same!"

I would say this is probably the most brutally honest and well put answer !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stay away, stay well away. ive been burned with an ex due to the sex being that good, just got even messier

as good as it was, its always better in your head

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Pump her.dump her and get her a taxi after she's made your supper lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pump her.dump her and get her a taxi after she's made your supper lol"

yeh, and listen to her shout R*PE with the evidence inside her

either make up and get back together, or break up permanent

there are kids on the sideline.

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

"Pump her.dump her and get her a taxi after she's made your supper lol

yeh, and listen to her shout R*PE with the evidence inside her

either make up and get back together, or break up permanent

there are kids on the sideline. "

What evidence ??there's also a whole thread dedicated to this poor mans dilemma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there's an evil twist! She's female hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think an ex is an ex for a reason. Sex is just a physical thing so why dredge up old feelings just for that?

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By *lder for funxxxMan
over a year ago

glasgow

man up,think with your head not your cock and why she is your ex in the first place.

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

Stay clear fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex and also mother of my child contacted me this morning offering me 1 last time, no strings attached sex.

What should I do?

The catch is, she wants to stay the night

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that's fkd up...Wiiiiiide berth

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And where will your child be? Who will be looking after him/her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although my little brain keeps telling me to wrap up then get her to fuck lol"

Given you said you managed to be on good terms up til now for the sake of the kid you already have I think this is the worst comment on the full thread and it was made by the OP

You already know you cant "get her to fuck" you have a kid together this is something you cant just walk away from

Why would you risk that good relationship you have now and the stable environment it provides for your child just to get your end away ... seriously disappointing

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

"Have a wank and make sure you are thinking with a clear head.

I'd say no and im sure aftrr you deal with yourself, you'll think the same!

I would say this is probably the most brutally honest and well put answer !"

Haha cheers buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"man up,think with your head not your cock and why she is your ex in the first place."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your Ex ,,is an Ex ..for a reason ..

Tell her NAW

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

If you've any intention of getting back together, then fine. If not, then leave well alone, or it will come back to bite you in the ass. Remember, you have a kid and if you fuck your ex about, then .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you then ???

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

She came to mine at 6pm

We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.

We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.

She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"She came to mine at 6pm

We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.

We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.

She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go"

(sigh)

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"She came to mine at 6pm

We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.

We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.

She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go

Temptation was too much for me

(sigh)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people bother asking for advice when they have already picked the stupid option?

Is it to try validate their actions?

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By *ickeyo85 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

"Why do people bother asking for advice when they have already picked the stupid option?

Is it to try validate their actions?

I was asking for advice because I had full intentions of taking all advice on board, which I did.

I had no intensions of entertaining my ex last night until I received a couple intreguing texts from her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way, if you want to put her right off just show her this post.

She'll call you all the twats under the sun and never trouble you for sex again....

Strap on a pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people bother asking for advice when they have already picked the stupid option?

Is it to try validate their actions?

I was asking for advice because I had full intentions of taking all advice on board, which I did.

I had no intensions of entertaining my ex last night until I received a couple intreguing texts from her "

90% of the advice said dont touch it with a barge pole and you did thr opposite ... makes no difference to our lives your only kidding yourself on

Lets hope you are more mature about the aftermath than the "intriguing texts" for your kids sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stuck what to do.

Sex with her is amazing but I can't help thinking there's an evil twist to her plan lol"
she's a big girl, she asked you for sex . Go bang her senseless but I'd either double bag or jump off at the bridge. Just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She came to mine at 6pm

We got our kid settled in his bed for the night then we fucked on the couch for the rest of the night.

We also fucked this morning and she left at 9am.

She has been textin me most of the with a kind of pals act on the go"
cue the oops ...our kids getting a wee brother/sister soon

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

So the point of this thread was what, bragging? Tbh all you've really achieved here is to add yourself to people's no list.

But as long as you got your end away who cares about the consequences, right?

Next time perhaps just keep these things to yourself.

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