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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a general observation of mine that to be able to message the majority of woman you need to be around 30 years old. Im a few weeks off hitting 28 myself.

I have what I call a curse, a blessing to others. I basically stopped aging at around 23/24 and therefore look "young". Meant to be good but personally I don't like it. It has put some woman off in the past, which of course I understand.

So I'm curious if you have an age range what it is and why? If it would ever change? Have you ever made any exceptions or would you make any? How strict are you around it, maybe pull a guy at 28 out of fab but on fab its 32 and up?

I know obviously levels of maturity come into it. Through our 20s you get a wife range of maturity.

Every time I have a birthday I look forward to seeing who I can now message, looking forward to 30 lol.

We're all adults, if your still attracted and can hold a decent conversation together isn't age just a number?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's a general observation of mine that to be able to message the majority of woman you need to be around 30 years old. Im a few weeks off hitting 28 myself.

I have what I call a curse, a blessing to others. I basically stopped aging at around 23/24 and therefore look "young". Meant to be good but personally I don't like it. It has put some woman off in the past, which of course I understand.

So I'm curious if you have an age range what it is and why? If it would ever change? Have you ever made any exceptions or would you make any? How strict are you around it, maybe pull a guy at 28 out of fab but on fab its 32 and up?

I know obviously levels of maturity come into it. Through our 20s you get a wife range of maturity.

Every time I have a birthday I look forward to seeing who I can now message, looking forward to 30 lol.

We're all adults, if your still attracted and can hold a decent conversation together isn't age just a number? "

If age is just a number then why would you have an upper age range of 50?

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

When I was on my single profile my preference was men in their 20s.

I also know many women on here are the same so it's all about finding them

Jugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a general observation of mine that to be able to message the majority of woman you need to be around 30 years old. Im a few weeks off hitting 28 myself.

I have what I call a curse, a blessing to others. I basically stopped aging at around 23/24 and therefore look "young". Meant to be good but personally I don't like it. It has put some woman off in the past, which of course I understand.

So I'm curious if you have an age range what it is and why? If it would ever change? Have you ever made any exceptions or would you make any? How strict are you around it, maybe pull a guy at 28 out of fab but on fab its 32 and up?

I know obviously levels of maturity come into it. Through our 20s you get a wife range of maturity.

Every time I have a birthday I look forward to seeing who I can now message, looking forward to 30 lol.

We're all adults, if your still attracted and can hold a decent conversation together isn't age just a number?

If age is just a number then why would you have an upper age range of 50?"

Why wouldn't it be? Not that's a regular thing lol. If I didn't have a wide age range it would ironic.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's a general observation of mine that to be able to message the majority of woman you need to be around 30 years old. Im a few weeks off hitting 28 myself.

I have what I call a curse, a blessing to others. I basically stopped aging at around 23/24 and therefore look "young". Meant to be good but personally I don't like it. It has put some woman off in the past, which of course I understand.

So I'm curious if you have an age range what it is and why? If it would ever change? Have you ever made any exceptions or would you make any? How strict are you around it, maybe pull a guy at 28 out of fab but on fab its 32 and up?

I know obviously levels of maturity come into it. Through our 20s you get a wife range of maturity.

Every time I have a birthday I look forward to seeing who I can now message, looking forward to 30 lol.

We're all adults, if your still attracted and can hold a decent conversation together isn't age just a number?

If age is just a number then why would you have an upper age range of 50?

Why wouldn't it be? Not that's a regular thing lol. If I didn't have a wide age range it would ironic. "

Why not 60 or 70 if it's just a number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 44

Age range is 34-46

Have been with younger but not really that much in common conversation wise

Won't go younger than 30 at a very hard push

Older just havnt found anyone I'm attracted to that's older?

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

For me it's primarily to do with someone being close to my oldest child's age. Definitely not looking to meet someone born in the same decade, & probably a minimum of 10-15 years older.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men. I can help that. Plenty like younger though, just tick "I match their age range" when you do a search!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer older men. I can help that. Plenty like younger though, just tick "I match their age range" when you do a search! "

you like older as long as not older than 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer older men. I can help that. Plenty like younger though, just tick "I match their age range" when you do a search!

you like older as long as not older than 45 "

We all have our limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer older men. I can help that. Plenty like younger though, just tick "I match their age range" when you do a search!

you like older as long as not older than 45

We all have our limits "

indeed we do, some in age, others in size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer older men. I can help that. Plenty like younger though, just tick "I match their age range" when you do a search!

you like older as long as not older than 45

We all have our limits "

bloody heck you have long toes, just noticed just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 44

Age range is 34-46

Have been with younger but not really that much in common conversation wise

Won't go younger than 30 at a very hard push

Older just havnt found anyone I'm attracted to that's older?"

Pretty much the same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's primarily to do with someone being close to my oldest child's age. Definitely not looking to meet someone born in the same decade, & probably a minimum of 10-15 years older.

R "

And this also. my oldest is almost 19 and the thought of fun around that age feels so wrong to me

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By *anderer1988Man
over a year ago

NEWTON STEWART

Its frustrating to get a message back saying sorry too young although age range is starting at 18? Im also late 20s so if 18 is too young why not filter it. However i do like to message the older lady x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Its frustrating to get a message back saying sorry too young although age range is starting at 18? Im also late 20s so if 18 is too young why not filter it. However i do like to message the older lady x"

Sometimes people don't set a age range because they are organising something and need to be contacted by people of all ages!

At least you got a message back with an explanation!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Its frustrating to get a message back saying sorry too young although age range is starting at 18? Im also late 20s so if 18 is too young why not filter it. However i do like to message the older lady x

Sometimes people don't set a age range because they are organising something and need to be contacted by people of all ages!

At least you got a message back with an explanation! "

Yip. I arrange a pub quiz so don't have filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer older men. I can help that. Plenty like younger though, just tick "I match their age range" when you do a search! "

Of course I do that lol!

Common sense does apply

Wasn't complaining just an observation.

I've messaged you a few time and don't even think you read it lol x

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I have been chatting with a young man of 26. He gave me unnecessary cheek today, probably thought he was funny.

He's blocked now!

I have a son for that kind of moody, petulant chat.

My lowest age was 33, I changed it 3 days ago to encompass younger men....incase I was missing something. Think I'll be putting it back up to 33.

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