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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock

Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Personal choice.

Stops loads of unwanted messages.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?"

Social meets... They changed their minds... Lots of different reasons.

Who cares. I'm sure for every profile like that there's another 10 that are looking for single guys

K x

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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?

Social meets... They changed their minds... Lots of different reasons.

Who cares. I'm sure for every profile like that there's another 10 that are looking for single guys

K x"

On this site, a ratio or 10 to 1?

And I care, as do most guys, it significantly reduces the chance of fun.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Because they may have had meets with single guys in the past, hence the verifications. Then get fucked around by a few of them and decide not to bother with them for a while and block them.

Speaking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they may have had meets with single guys in the past, hence the verifications. Then get fucked around by a few of them and decide not to bother with them for a while and block them.

Speaking from experience "

Exactly that!

For a good while I had no single men but lots of veri's from them because I also meet people socially.

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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock


"Because they may have had meets with single guys in the past, hence the verifications. Then get fucked around by a few of them and decide not to bother with them for a while and block them.

Speaking from experience "

That may be the case, but I'm sure there's been plenty of folk on here that's been messed about by couples too, as I have. Regarding the singles veris, sometimes we're talking a few days ago.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?

Social meets... They changed their minds... Lots of different reasons.

Who cares. I'm sure for every profile like that there's another 10 that are looking for single guys

K x

On this site, a ratio or 10 to 1?

And I care, as do most guys, it significantly reduces the chance of fun."

We have lots of veris from single guys... All of them social. If someone is not interested in single guys then the chance was never there. Maybe concentrate on the profiles that are interested in single guys

Good luck

K x

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

Because they don't want to trawl through hundreds of messages every day from single guys and would rather search for them themselves. Simple.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?"

It is about their preference and the way they want to run their profile on here.

I have on my profile that I am not looking for couples but I have verifs from couples.

That is simply because I prefer meeting couples face to face at socials and clubs.

Same I have a age range and I go to a club and meet someone I click with who's out of the range!

That's the way I like it!

Personally I think they are better things to do than trying to match people's profile text to their verifs.

Focus on profiles that are looking for single guys.

Get to socials, clubs to meet people there too.

Good luck OP

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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?

Social meets... They changed their minds... Lots of different reasons.

Who cares. I'm sure for every profile like that there's another 10 that are looking for single guys

K x

On this site, a ratio or 10 to 1?

And I care, as do most guys, it significantly reduces the chance of fun.

We have lots of veris from single guys... All of them social. If someone is not interested in single guys then the chance was never there. Maybe concentrate on the profiles that are interested in single guys

Good luck

K x"

Thanks,think I'll need it, sometimes I feel I'm in the wrong Just for being a guy.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?

Social meets... They changed their minds... Lots of different reasons.

Who cares. I'm sure for every profile like that there's another 10 that are looking for single guys

K x

On this site, a ratio or 10 to 1?

And I care, as do most guys, it significantly reduces the chance of fun.

We have lots of veris from single guys... All of them social. If someone is not interested in single guys then the chance was never there. Maybe concentrate on the profiles that are interested in single guys

Good luck

K x

Thanks,think I'll need it, sometimes I feel I'm in the wrong Just for being a guy. "

I do think single guys get it hard on here due to a small minority who spoil it. I also know loads of single guys who do really well on here which I think is down to attitude and how they put themselves accross. Stick with it

K x

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newton Stewart


"Because they may have had meets with single guys in the past, hence the verifications. Then get fucked around by a few of them and decide not to bother with them for a while and block them.

Speaking from experience "

So true! Time and again we've shown interest in a selected single guy, corresponded, got a good rapport going and then when we've arranged a meet they've disappeared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they may have had meets with single guys in the past, hence the verifications. Then get fucked around by a few of them and decide not to bother with them for a while and block them.

Speaking from experience

That may be the case, but I'm sure there's been plenty of folk on here that's been messed about by couples too, as I have. Regarding the singles veris, sometimes we're talking a few days ago."

Then do what the couples are doing and block incoming mesages and do the search yourself

You appear to be under the impression that if you could just get past this filter then because they met single guys before, you are a sure thing

You are not getting a hard time for being a guy ... your sulking and feeling sorry for yourself because you are a guy and making it harder by Not just focusing on the profiles that do want messages fron single guys

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?

Social meets... They changed their minds... Lots of different reasons.

Who cares. I'm sure for every profile like that there's another 10 that are looking for single guys

K x

On this site, a ratio or 10 to 1?

And I care, as do most guys, it significantly reduces the chance of fun."
think your wrong most guys accept that a profile wants no contact from single males. And it reduces nothing you just have to accept they dont want you or should they just lie down and take one for the team

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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock

'should they just lie down and take one for the team'

That's not what I was meaning, but you knew that.

I was only wondering why the mixed message. I know some have met single guys, but now they're looking for other experiences, I get that. But to say they're not looking and at the same time displaying verifications about meets that have happened a couple of days or even hours ago seems confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what is not confusing .., its actually crystal clear that if the profile owner wants you they will find you

A message filter blocking you wether that be sex, age , relationship status, newbie, whatever

Stop loaning that people have filtered you out and go find the ones that havent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about choice ,we have met guys and will probably do so again but we do find most guys who say they are single are lying so usually do our own search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*moaning

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?"

Think it's more a case of couples will seek out and find single guys they are interested in and don't want to be bombarded with messages from them

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"But to say they're not looking and at the same time displaying verifications about meets that have happened a couple of days or even hours ago seems confusing. "

What's confusing? They found a single guy they clicked with and met him and displayed a verif! Big deal! I kinda want to say, none of your business OP.

All you need to respect and accept is the 'not looking for single guy'!

My opinion anyway

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Because they can

Instead of worrying about it, set your search for people who ARE looking for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at profiles and see the obligatory 'not looking for single guys' but on their verifications there's a list as long as your arm of veris from single guys?

What's that all about?"
So they have decided they no longer are looking for single guys, whats the problem you have with that????

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh....then there is the fact that couples have met a few single guys and meet them regularly and don't need any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh....then there is the fact that couples have met a few single guys and meet them regularly and don't need any more "

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

So my original answer kinda s_ands OP as there are 1000s of different reasons. Just don't stress about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us its because its just not worth the hassle.

Everytime I have agreed to a mmf with the Mrs and we take our filters off our inbox fills up with all the usual shit.

Think most of Wales has messaged to tell us there up for a meet.

I know there are loads of single guys out there, Weve met them at socials and clubs but its so hard to filter them out on here.

Best advice I can give you OP is get along to some socials and make some friends. Then when a Single lady, Couple or whatever you are looking for are looking for a single man they will know your ok and possibly get in contact with you.

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By *uilty_pleasuresCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Personal choice.

Stops loads of unwanted messages. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of good single guys out there that was meant to say.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Every other week there is a post of this nature!

Why are you bothering reading the verifications if they state No Single Guys?

The blokes that do well on here do so for a reason, never hear them moan or complain they just do their thing and reap the rewards, the others..... well !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of what the profile states, if they want to meet single guys that is the choice of the couple or single person and should be respected end of. Asking why and moaning about it won't change their mind. Look for profiles that are looking for singles and you should have more luck with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once again that sense of entitlement rears its ugly head. I'm here, so how dare anybody not want me. It's not an attractive quality. Everyone here has the right to choose who they want or don't want to meet. You'd enjoy it all a lot more OP if you recognised that fact.

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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock


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Once again that sense of entitlement rears its ugly head. I'm here, so how dare anybody not want me. It's not an attractive quality. Everyone here has the right to choose who they want or don't want to meet. You'd enjoy it all a lot more OP if you recognised that fact. "

Sense of entitlement?

Really?

I made an observation about a number of contradictory (imo) profiles and according to some I think I'm God's gift.

Others put forward some interesting points and advice, which was all I asked for, what's wrong with that?

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By *rgoodnbad OP   Man
over a year ago

greenock


"With us its because its just not worth the hassle.

Everytime I have agreed to a mmf with the Mrs and we take our filters off our inbox fills up with all the usual shit.

Think most of Wales has messaged to tell us there up for a meet.

I know there are loads of single guys out there, Weve met them at socials and clubs but its so hard to filter them out on here.

Best advice I can give you OP is get along to some socials and make some friends. Then when a Single lady, Couple or whatever you are looking for are looking for a single man they will know your ok and possibly get in contact with you."

Thanks for that

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