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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Chatting to Jim about Ann Summers night and jokingly he said why cant we come (pardon the innuendo). Thought Why cant men come along too, well apart from the obvious risk of it turning into an orgy lol. So decided to see what like minded people think

Anybody had any? Been to any? Interested in one?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Briliant idea

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

It is eh! maybe something we might need to gt organised. Research purposes

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I once tried to be an Ann Summers rep. I wanted to do parties for men who were maybe too shy to go into a shop to buy lingerie/toys for their partners. The company refused point blank, telling me it would be illegal.

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Bit sexist eh! we think it would be good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the reps get caught letting men attend they get sacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it would be a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually illegal and part of a reps contract that men can't attend.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's actually illegal and part of a reps contract that men can't attend. "

This makes me sad (- see my sad face) because I think it really is a good idea.

Maybe some way to emulate the same thing without it actually being an Anne Summers party? Obviously also avoiding whichever aspect of it is illegal.

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I agree... would be interested to know why it's illegal...

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

There is no way it would be illegal, against company policy maybe but not illegal.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"There is no way it would be illegal, against company policy maybe but not illegal."

From what little information I found apparently partners present means ladies more shy so spend less . I'd also imagine some toys , whips and restraints may be overused at a party with everyone

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Illegal! No way thats crazy. New business opportunity here lol.

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Will need to have a look out for the DS at the party in case we get busted lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"There is no way it would be illegal, against company policy maybe but not illegal."

exactly this

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

I think the rep/host should be allowed to decide who attends the party and I suspect it would increase sales if it was couples.

One of their reasons against men attending is for the safety of the rep. It's bollocks though - d*unk woman are pretty scary sometimes. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's actually illegal and part of a reps contract that men can't attend. "

Some golf Clubs were hounded for not allowing lady members lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a crazy rule ... i understand having guys there might make some of the wonen uncomfortable and then not participate as much / buy as much etc

But its not like its a public party open to all ... the host chooses who attends and surely would know what geoup of people they could put together without spoiling the fun ... seems like they missed a trick by outlawing it tbh

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Would probably have to stay couples only party so people not uncomfortable with single males although we wouldnt mind lol. A couples meet with a theme

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Seems a crazy rule ... i understand having guys there might make some of the wonen uncomfortable and then not participate as much / buy as much etc

But its not like its a public party open to all ... the host chooses who attends and surely would know what geoup of people they could put together without spoiling the fun ... seems like they missed a trick by outlawing it tbh "

We are defo far more filthy in a situation like an anne summers night. Maybe the men there would calm us down lol. Its all just fun thats why couple reps would be a great idea

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Seems a crazy rule ... i understand having guys there might make some of the wonen uncomfortable and then not participate as much / buy as much etc

But its not like its a public party open to all ... the host chooses who attends and surely would know what geoup of people they could put together without spoiling the fun ... seems like they missed a trick by outlawing it tbh "

My guess is that it's more about image: they just don't want to be seen to be involved with full on sex parties. They'll have had the potential tabloid headlines in the forefront of their minds when creating these rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hardly like they are running a family brand though

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Its hardly like they are running a family brand though "

You're not wrong there, but I think they're making a calculation of where they sit in terms of general acceptability. Two stereotypes:

* a group of girly girls sits in a living room sipping wine and tittering while they peruse sex toys to enhance their monogamous sex lives: generally socially acceptable with a hint of risqué. Kaching.

* a sex obsessed group of men and women have a wild sex party using toys and sexual equipment supplied by Anne Summers: not generally acceptable and a bit of a reputation risk.

But that's all guessing. I could easily be wrong.

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Its hardly like they are running a family brand though

You're not wrong there, but I think they're making a calculation of where they sit in terms of general acceptability. Two stereotypes:

* a group of girly girls sits in a living room sipping wine and tittering while they peruse sex toys to enhance their monogamous sex lives: generally socially acceptable with a hint of risqué. Kaching.

* a sex obsessed group of men and women have a wild sex party using toys and sexual equipment supplied by Anne Summers: not generally acceptable and a bit of a reputation risk.

But that's all guessing. I could easily be wrong."

Yeah that sounds about right definetly a reputation risk. still not socially acceptable practice for a brand to connect itself to. huge market though

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Huge market but maybe one for other sex toy providers (not sure if I can name them) as Anne Summers seems to want to position itself as very accessible to everyone. They are happy to be on the high street etc...

others that also do more wide ranging toys might be more willing to?

Hope that makes sense?

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Huge market but maybe one for other sex toy providers (not sure if I can name them) as Anne Summers seems to want to position itself as very accessible to everyone. They are happy to be on the high street etc...

others that also do more wide ranging toys might be more willing to?

Hope that makes sense? "

Sure does. Well we've definetly peaked our interest in a party. Putting out a call to organisers out there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ann Summers ? ....is that not an out of date sex shop ..?

I would presume in relation to sexy lingerie Women would purchase elsewhere ..

However ...It would seem a good idea for couples alike

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By *un4two16Couple
over a year ago

livingston

Sounds amazing may need to organise something......

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Keep us in mind for invite list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'll keep bumping this as I'm definitely thinking this is a great opportunity

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We r definetly in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are other companies tgat provide these kind of parties but where couples are welcome.

We looked into it for the social we hosted last year but the rep never got back to us.

I can't recall the name but when I get home I'll have a look and see if I can find it.

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By *ouise and jamieCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Pretty sure lovehoney do parties similar to Ann summers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to one it was before I joined this site it was such a great laugh and at end of the night I managed to get lucky with a lady obv' she just teased first of all wearing nothing but a sexy nurse outfit we got to talking to laughing then before you know it we were in the bedroom so yeah guys at a ann summers party is a good idea as it is a great laugh

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Cheers guys

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

worth a look. thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reps have a contract with the company that doesn't allow men to be present. I think that people are confusing criminality with a breach of a contract.

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By *urglas OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

bump away - mind us if u sort something

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"The reps have a contract with the company that doesn't allow men to be present. I think that people are confusing criminality with a breach of a contract. "

I think you're right. I actually said that Ann Summers told me it would be illegal, not that I believed it. They said that mixed groups would be organising an orgy and menrioned "immoral earnings". Even though I had said parties for men to shop for their partners.

It was also a depressingly long time ago and likely a different moral perspective.

I doubt if a party organised through here would end up anything other than an orgy, though. Hopefully.

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

Don't you just love the presumptive language!

Totally based on something that 'might happen.

What's to say a group of women don't get it on having an all female orgy?

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

Maybe start with a private party where you all bring along the toys/outfits you already own & show off the benefits etc put in orders & buy new toys for the next party.

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