FabSwingers.com forum: Female vote?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honest answers.

I've been here several years now and we all know that face pictures are important and woman like them with a first message.

I've found from my experiences woman like the exact opposite and avoid giving you one for a long as possible. You show your, she likes you, you chat, you ask for hers she never replies again. Would argue its a semi-common occurance. Fair enough some people like very private lives but least state it on your profile or tell the guy once he's sent his.

So ladies have you ever done that or anything similar and if so why? Not to sound like an ass but its kinda double standards.

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Most likely your chatting to blokes lol

If I don't like the look of someone I won't send back but I will also say so,

If I like them I send my picture in response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy that hasn't read my profile and is not what I'm looking for sends me a face pic ...no...I don't return 1

If a guy Iv been chatting to then sends a face pic...I do also .. whether I'm attracted to him or not...I would never just block for that reason

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

I never send face pics first as I don't as a rule play with someone I know in civvy life. People are judgemental and in the type of work I've been involved in for more years than I care to think about, people are really gossipy

I will send a pic eventually but never right away and absolutely never when demanded

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could be some men, for some reason men think other men won't notice that... kinda stupid.

I understand not sending one back if you don't fancy the guy or being polite just sending one back but saying no thanks but if I've sent mine and shes oh your really hot and I ask for one back in the next message (or I even generally wait 3/4 messages after to ask unless its been sent already) then you just get pied. No nice. I know its hard being a woman on here but make a male profile and try and even get a message read never mind replied too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just being ignorant the then

Wouldn't waste my time thinking about it

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

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"Honest answers.

I've been here several years now and we all know that face pictures are important and woman like them with a first message.

So ladies have you ever done that or anything similar and if so why? Not to sound like an ass but its kinda double standards.

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as stated on my profile if I make the first contact I will attach face pic and I expect the same from anyone contacting me, if I'm interested in them I will reply with a pic if not I'll politely tell them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ignorance and arrogance are two things that really wind me up badly.

Mind a lot of it on here sadly. Understandable why but annoying all the same.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Never had that problem to be honest ..never had someone refuse while chatting to send facepic when time was right .. i must be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i am asked, I send one. Just polite

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