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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing! I don't exactly hold myself in high esteem but I don't think I'm not hot enough for someone, just that I may not be their type and that's fine because I'll be someone else's.

I mean of course Tom Hardy could be interested in a short fat scouser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

It's like the old say "Aim high.You may miss but at least you won't dribble on your foot"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No such thing! I don't exactly hold myself in high esteem but I don't think I'm not hot enough for someone, just that I may not be their type and that's fine because I'll be someone else's.

I mean of course Tom Hardy could be interested in a short fat scouser "
totally agree can't be everyone's cup off tea

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

No never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just drop them a message. If they say no you are no worse off than before you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give it a go if i like someone whats the worst that can happen? And it wont be the first time i have had a pleasant surprise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nice comments ..just sometimes feels like your peeing into the wind lol

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

All the time but you can always dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...

No one should ever feel better or worse than anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope...

No one should ever feel better or worse than anyone "

Very true, you never know unless you try, and when you get your breath back you try again

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Nope...they're loss lol

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Every time I come on

But always hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope...they're loss lol"
lol

You know whenever I reply a polite no thank you

Maybe 5 or 6 times I get a

Your loss

I always reply...doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How will you know unless you ask? They might be looking at you thinking the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always someone out there that is for someone on the site, I do think it's harder for men with the ratio on here but you don't ask you will never know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed if u dont put the work in and dont ask u dont get and if u get a knock back just dust yourself down and move on to the next

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes

But it never stops me saying hello

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Nope im the pinnacle of human evolution

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How will you know unless you ask? They might be looking at you thinking the same! "

unlikely but thanks for the hope lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is always someone out there that is for someone on the site, I do think it's harder for men with the ratio on here but you don't ask you will never know xx"

thats exactly what im trying ...i know there is 200 women to one guy

...suppose all we can do is try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope...

No one should ever feel better or worse than anyone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

Yip constantly

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

Not in the slightest lol. If you don't even try its always gonna be a no! :p

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little

Yip constantly "

You definitely shouldn't

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

No BUT I do look at verifications and if they've only met super hot people I do think "Pfft I ain't following that"

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"No BUT I do look at verifications and if they've only met super hot people I do think "Pfft I ain't following that" "

Says the hot woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

Nope.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"No BUT I do look at verifications and if they've only met super hot people I do think "Pfft I ain't following that" "

Don't think you'd have an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes folk judge to quick on looks. Some of our best meets haven't initially been our type. But the more we chatted and more we got to know them, the more atttactive they became.

Same with folk we though oft! Hot stuff lol personality of a wet fish. No banter and not for us lol

I think sometimes luck plays a part. Just like the old black cabs, gotta catch them when their light is on lol

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

I thought that when I saw miss naughty on here , I took a chance and messaged her though. Shy boys don't get sweeties....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes folk judge to quick on looks. Some of our best meets haven't initially been our type. But the more we chatted and more we got to know them, the more atttactive they became.

Same with folk we though oft! Hot stuff lol personality of a wet fish. No banter and not for us lol

I think sometimes luck plays a part. Just like the old black cabs, gotta catch them when their light is on lol "
exactly correct ....restores faith in fab

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Many a time, don't want to embarrass myself lol

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I often get messages from men I doubt would ever look twice at me in the real world. I see some as very far out of my league.

I also often look at verifications and at times I've been put off because previous meets are slim and pretty or because I'm just not likely to match up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often get messages from men I doubt would ever look twice at me in the real world. I see some as very far out of my league.

I also often look at verifications and at times I've been put off because previous meets are slim and pretty or because I'm just not likely to match up "

im sure you have your pick of the guys ....stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him."

Really?

He obviously likes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always worth saying hello. No ones better than anyone else. She says no theres no harm done. Then say Next! millions of beautiful woman in this world

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

No but there are other things that would put me off someone :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ever think anyone on here is too good or nice looking for you mate, As no one is any better than anyone else we just might not be one person cup of tea, but might be someone else's glass off champagne.

I never take it personally if I get a no thanks messaging a good looking girl/woman and always reply with manners and respect, saying thanks for at least replying.

Nothing wrong with trying as they say God loves a trier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ,have looked at profiles and their veris and thought no chance but have went on to meet the same ppl at socials ect and have got on great ,sometimes you just got to chance your luck see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

PMSL, Nope

We all have our own views and our views of ourselves and what type of person we are and what we are like in company.

But I bet a few do think they are too hot fur me or anyone but hey, what we all think and what would actually happen in reality can be completely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

Don't waste tor time or theirs we get inundated with messages from people who clearly have not read the profile or know they are punching but go for it anyway.

I think if you choose carefully surely you will find the right connection rather than be disappointed and disheartened by being told "away you go your a minger" ... cannot be good for your self esteem or confidence.

Good luck and hope you get laid soon.

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By *cottishsurprise5Couple
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

You may think that but never assume anything! Be brave and give it a bash. Like it was said previously no one is better than anyone on here. X

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I mostly get judged because of the heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him."
do you not want to meet the him because you don't think you stand a chance? Or because he doesn't stand a chance with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him. do you not want to meet the him because you don't think you stand a chance? Or because he doesn't stand a chance with you? "

I don't stand a chance with him, plus I'm not confident enough in my own body to meet someone as hot looking as him.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him. do you not want to meet the him because you don't think you stand a chance? Or because he doesn't stand a chance with you?

I don't stand a chance with him, plus I'm not confident enough in my own body to meet someone as hot looking as him."

Did he message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him. do you not want to meet the him because you don't think you stand a chance? Or because he doesn't stand a chance with you?

I don't stand a chance with him, plus I'm not confident enough in my own body to meet someone as hot looking as him.

Did he message you?"

He did yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think hes hot then go for it! He approached you so hes definitely interested. Hes seen something he likes and will be so focused on that he wont even notice the bits youre worried about! Everybody has bits they dont like, just flaunt the bits you do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little

Don't waste tor time or theirs we get inundated with messages from people who clearly have not read the profile or know they are punching but go for it anyway.

I think if you choose carefully surely you will find the right connection rather than be disappointed and disheartened by being told "away you go your a minger" ... cannot be good for your self esteem or confidence.

Good luck and hope you get laid soon.

"

Some people are charming ... Point and case that looks are not everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want to try being a guy & ginger .... no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

More often than I care to admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its quite strange to hear some women feel that way too.

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By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I was quite taken aback at after 8 one evening when I decided that I'd try my luck with a gorgeous lady. She surprised me by saying that she thought I was out of her league.

I still have to pinch myself each time we've played to make sure it's not a dream.

You just never know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little

Don't waste tor time or theirs we get inundated with messages from people who clearly have not read the profile or know they are punching but go for it anyway.

I think if you choose carefully surely you will find the right connection rather than be disappointed and disheartened by being told "away you go your a minger" ... cannot be good for your self esteem or confidence.

Good luck and hope you get laid soon.

Some people are charming ... Point and case that looks are not everything"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never looked at any pics on here and thought they were out of my league. Have seen really pretty girls and thought oh they're out of my age group or out of my distance range.

I'm sure there are plenty though who think themselves that they are out of my league but I don't dwell on that

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

All the time, but not from the pics, normally from profile text and the Interests section.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him. do you not want to meet the him because you don't think you stand a chance? Or because he doesn't stand a chance with you?

I don't stand a chance with him, plus I'm not confident enough in my own body to meet someone as hot looking as him.

Did he message you?

He did yes "

I'll give you a second chance, go on then ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days it's more likely too young than too hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot "

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday "

Keep going, you'll catch up eventually

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Yes!

I even said "no thanks" to a guy cause of it. However, me and the guy have got chatting and he's a lovely guy but there's still no way I'd meet him. do you not want to meet the him because you don't think you stand a chance? Or because he doesn't stand a chance with you?

I don't stand a chance with him, plus I'm not confident enough in my own body to meet someone as hot looking as him.

Did he message you?

He did yes "

Then he loves what he's seeing

Go for it

Your pics are very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think hes hot then go for it! He approached you so hes definitely interested. Hes seen something he likes and will be so focused on that he wont even notice the bits youre worried about! Everybody has bits they dont like, just flaunt the bits you do x"

Totally agree..

It is human nature to doubt ones self though.. Nothing wrong in that.. It's just part of modesty and humbleness which in itself is an attractive quality in a partner for many.. Key thing really, as always, is to just be yourself and take it as it comes!

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"If you think hes hot then go for it! He approached you so hes definitely interested. Hes seen something he likes and will be so focused on that he wont even notice the bits youre worried about! Everybody has bits they dont like, just flaunt the bits you do x"

Couldn't agree more with this post.

Lushjackie if he has messaged you and you like him why not at least meet for a social?

Some of us Gents don't have a 'type' of Lass we like - we can appreciate a Lass for who she is not just because she is tall/short/blond/brunette etc.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little

Don't waste tor time or theirs we get inundated with messages from people who clearly have not read the profile or know they are punching but go for it anyway.

I think if you choose carefully surely you will find the right connection rather than be disappointed and disheartened by being told "away you go your a minger" ... cannot be good for your self esteem or confidence.

Good luck and hope you get laid soon.

Some people are charming ... Point and case that looks are not everything"

Looks aren't everything as the post you refer to highlights!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday

Keep going, you'll catch up eventually "

Thank god you are getting slower oldie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only one way to find out say hi , no one should ever feel they are not good enough for someone , lots of different people form bonds and friendships have fun and learn there's more to a person than meets the eye and if the other says no so what ,just a quick hello can lead to exploring and having fun life is to short x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday

Keep going, you'll catch up eventually

Thank god you are getting slower oldie "

Be careful, I get a GTI zimmer next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday

Keep going, you'll catch up eventually

Thank god you are getting slower oldie

Be careful, I get a GTI zimmer next week "

Ohhh my how fast does that go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday

Keep going, you'll catch up eventually

Thank god you are getting slower oldie

Be careful, I get a GTI zimmer next week

Ohhh my how fast does that go "

Not sure, haven't made it to 60 yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These days it's more likely too young than too hot

I am getting older as fast as I possibly can....like everyday

Keep going, you'll catch up eventually

Thank god you are getting slower oldie

Be careful, I get a GTI zimmer next week

Ohhh my how fast does that go

Not sure, haven't made it to 60 yet "

Hahaha

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You only live once and some people may surprise you. They may say 'Yes' to that coffee!

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hey OP go for it. I certainly do if i like someone only one's i wouldn't is the profiles with too many rules x

Jenny

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

yup. And then you talk to them like a fellow human and make a connection and meet them. Hasn't happened a lot to me but i have punched above my weight a few times.

Don't put yourself down so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, I think that all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type i like it doesn't mean that guys looks like channing tatum cos personally hes no ma type, but everyone's got a diff type u just have to go for it n see where it leads n i fully believe u can laugh anyone into bed lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"
No!

No one should ever feel they are out of anyones league .

Whats the worst thing that can happen from a simple hello email ?

Just go for it op & have fun with it.

On the flip side there are many who think they are in the high league and look down on others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever look at someones profile and think "i have zero chance of ever getting to meet you as you are clearly out of my league "

it doesnt half sting a little"

All the time ..Ive had this problem since the site began ..

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