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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a wee question .do guys bother about lumpy bits fat bellys ..celulite on a woman .just asking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well for me no as long as I've clicked with that person no one is perfect and it's our imperfections that make us unique always be proud of your body no matter what if someone doesn't like it then that's there lose in my eyes

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By *ab and funCouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"well for me no as long as I've clicked with that person no one is perfect and it's our imperfections that make us unique always be proud of your body no matter what if someone doesn't like it then that's there lose in my eyes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's more important we all get on, as we ain't exactly perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think it matters as long as you hit it off and there is a spark then weight doesn't matter

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Just a wee question .do guys bother about lumpy bits fat bellys ..celulite on a woman .just asking ."

Had some mail and its no problem when they ask for a meet .Whole different story when you decline lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys do. Many will say they dont, but most do. The few that dont mind are rare. Many will talk the talk to appear high and mighty. Guys that do mind you can put into several categories including shallow or just know their own taste / preference. Depends how you take their view

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"Just a wee question .do guys bother about lumpy bits fat bellys ..celulite on a woman .just asking .

Had some mail and its no problem when they ask for a meet .Whole different story when you decline lol . "

Normally they don't mind, but yeah as soon as yiu say no to the. Your a fat bitch lol makes me chuckle

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Im the one with the problems over my body image not the guys.

None of the guys ive ever met ever said anything to me so Ive got to presume they were okay with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who can say they are perfect. We all have things about us we think someone else might not like. Be proud of who you are and trust me a woman with imperfections in her mind, make her perfect in mine.

If a potential meet considers you not their type etc their loss, I can assure you for every one that thinks that way there are numerous amounts who don't.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm carrying a spare tyre and I'm paranoid about it, but I've found that our meets don't seem to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a wee question .do guys bother about lumpy bits fat bellys ..celulite on a woman .just asking .

Had some mail and its no problem when they ask for a meet .Whole different story when you decline lol . "
not all guys I'm always respectful even if I'm declined lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im the one with the problems over my body image not the guys.

None of the guys ive ever met ever said anything to me so Ive got to presume they were okay with it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who can say they are perfect. We all have things about us we think someone else might not like. Be proud of who you are and trust me a woman with imperfections in her mind, make her perfect in mine.

If a potential meet considers you not their type etc their loss, I can assure you for every one that thinks that way there are numerous amounts who don't."
well said mate I agree with you completely

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Who can say they are perfect. We all have things about us we think someone else might not like. Be proud of who you are and trust me a woman with imperfections in her mind, make her perfect in mine.

If a potential meet considers you not their type etc their loss, I can assure you for every one that thinks that way there are numerous amounts who don't."
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe so...But apparently I look great in a low light. 3 guesses who said that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im the one with the problems over my body image not the guys.

None of the guys ive ever met ever said anything to me so Ive got to presume they were okay with it "

You do it for me girl as you know.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im the one with the problems over my body image not the guys.

None of the guys ive ever met ever said anything to me so Ive got to presume they were okay with it

You do it for me girl as you know. "

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Some do some dont none mind it as much as other females though imo. Fems are far more superficial in my experience

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll


"Guys do. Many will say they dont, but most do. The few that dont mind are rare. Many will talk the talk to appear high and mighty. Guys that do mind you can put into several categories including shallow or just know their own taste / preference. Depends how you take their view"

So what is that opinion based on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am self conscious about carrying a stone extra in weight and wish my thighs were slimmer ..I don't get criticism from guys but I am always self critical and very keen to lose this extra stone asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I actually prefer a women to have some lumps and bumps over skin and bones!! I do think a lot a guys out there are so shall about this and actually take the piss out of guys for going with the larger lady but at end of the day everyone likes something different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am self conscious about carrying a stone extra in weight and wish my thighs were slimmer ..I don't get criticism from guys but I am always self critical and very keen to lose this extra stone asap"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think it just boils down to how you feel about yourself, confidence shines through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost weight a few years ago and have since put it back on.

Recently I've been doing the whole self loathing thing because of it.

But now I've decided that actually, theres more to me than my weight. I might not always like myself (who does?), but I'm going to stop with the hate.

I have a wonderful husband who loves me no matter what, 3 kids that I'm proud of, and life aint so bad.

So what if I need to lose some weight, I will, but i'll enjoy life in the meantime.

We all need to learn to love ourselves, we are who we are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, some don't.

In the same way some women prefer a ripped hunk.

In the end the body doesn't define the person, and that's whats interesting

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think we are our own worst crtics. Everyone has preferences though. For some that may mean it rules out people over a certain weight or even under it. In the same way people might prefer taller men.

On here thats often condemned and in general most people claim to have no issues with it.

There is also the theory that the prospect of sex renders preferences mute!

Who knows what people really think, however I can say no one has run for the hills at the sight of my wobbly bits yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the same but for you women?

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I lost weight a few years ago and have since put it back on.

Recently I've been doing the whole self loathing thing because of it.

But now I've decided that actually, theres more to me than my weight. I might not always like myself (who does?), but I'm going to stop with the hate.

I have a wonderful husband who loves me no matter what, 3 kids that I'm proud of, and life aint so bad.

So what if I need to lose some weight, I will, but i'll enjoy life in the meantime.

We all need to learn to love ourselves, we are who we are x"

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Not an issue for me

I'm no bronzed Adonis by any means

Amazes me that some find me attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No guy is seriously going to come on this thread and say yes are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No guy is seriously going to come on this thread and say yes are they?

"

Haha true.

I struggle to find a guy on here who I think would appreciate my body cos most are just looking for a hole lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the same but for you women? "

It doesn't bother me either way. I'm more about how we converse with each other. If I can talk to someone and feel comfortable with them then it doesn't matter to me what size they are.

Although if he's taller than me, thats always a bonus

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am self conscious about this too but guys I've meet thankfully have been fine, well to my knowledge lol

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same I hate my flabby bits specially my stomach very self conscious about it but it is part of me and if guys don't like it then that's their choice, I try not let it bother me as much as it used to, however the way some guys talk about it makes it difficult. Hate guys that ask you what size you are in clothes or refer to lager ladies as BBW just my person opinion on it xx

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

if you don't like it why don't you do something about it?

if you can that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same I hate my flabby bits specially my stomach very self conscious about it but it is part of me and if guys don't like it then that's their choice, I try not let it bother me as much as it used to, however the way some guys talk about it makes it difficult. Hate guys that ask you what size you are in clothes or refer to lager ladies as BBW just my person opinion on it xx"
yeah I hate the term BBW as well. Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are. If you are a nice person with personality then that makes up for a lot of the attraction in my eyes but then I'm not shallow like others out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have terrible hangups about my body. I have finally found a diet that's working for me and I've lost 17lbs so I'm hoping this will encourage body confidence again. Guys have always been kind to me/about me but it's the old story 'you've got to like yourself first'

If guys don't like it, they will move.

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

well done, good work, keep it up


"Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are."

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"well done, good work, keep it up

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

"

The thing i find with those weight discussions is that not everyone has the same understanding of the terms healthy and overweight.

Not every overweight person is unhealthy!?

I have been overweight according to the bmi red/amber/green thingy but was still be able to run for an hour?

Perso, I don't follow the bmi!

I feel too skinny and unhealthy if I follow it.

I prefer to have a weight... i am... happy with and feel confident with and healthy with.

The bmi thingy can say what it wants... the way I feel in my body and head is the main thing.

As for other people... couldn't care less, who finds what attractive!

I am me! For me! Not others!

You can't be everyone's cuppa! and that's fair enough;-)

Hope this makes sense to someone lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"well done, good work, keep it up

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

The thing i find with those weight discussions is that not everyone has the same understanding of the terms healthy and overweight.

Not every overweight person is unhealthy!?

I have been overweight according to the bmi red/amber/green thingy but was still be able to run for an hour?

Perso, I don't follow the bmi!

I feel too skinny and unhealthy if I follow it.

I prefer to have a weight... i am... happy with and feel confident with and healthy with.

The bmi thingy can say what it wants... the way I feel in my body and head is the main thing.

As for other people... couldn't care less, who finds what attractive!

I am me! For me! Not others!

You can't be everyone's cuppa! and that's fair enough;-)

Hope this makes sense to someone lol

"

BMI is ridiculously outdated, I pay it no attention whatsoever

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

it makes sense to me lol

in the long term it's not healthy for you and will take it's toll, you can be fit and a little overweight but that's not the kind of overweight i'm talking about.

it's a growing problem that needs to be addressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well done, good work, keep it up

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

The thing i find with those weight discussions is that not everyone has the same understanding of the terms healthy and overweight.

Not every overweight person is unhealthy!?

I have been overweight according to the bmi red/amber/green thingy but was still be able to run for an hour?

Perso, I don't follow the bmi!

I feel too skinny and unhealthy if I follow it.

I prefer to have a weight... i am... happy with and feel confident with and healthy with.

The bmi thingy can say what it wants... the way I feel in my body and head is the main thing.

As for other people... couldn't care less, who finds what attractive!

I am me! For me! Not others!

You can't be everyone's cuppa! and that's fair enough;-)

Hope this makes sense to someone lol

"

Makes perfect sense and spot on. BMI thingy is the Malnutrition universal screening tool that is referred to as individuals must scores. Just got useless info if you are ever doing a pub quiz xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

"
yeah but I think you will find that not everyone is stick thin or washboard perfect body. Actually most people aren't and certainly shouldn't be made to feel worse about size or weight because someone else doesn't like it!! The way I see it is all about your own opinion and happiness so if your happy whether size 0 or a size 28 then that's all that matters imo

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"well done, good work, keep it up

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

The thing i find with those weight discussions is that not everyone has the same understanding of the terms healthy and overweight.

Not every overweight person is unhealthy!?

I have been overweight according to the bmi red/amber/green thingy but was still be able to run for an hour?

Perso, I don't follow the bmi!

I feel too skinny and unhealthy if I follow it.

I prefer to have a weight... i am... happy with and feel confident with and healthy with.

The bmi thingy can say what it wants... the way I feel in my body and head is the main thing.

As for other people... couldn't care less, who finds what attractive!

I am me! For me! Not others!

You can't be everyone's cuppa! and that's fair enough;-)

Hope this makes sense to someone lol

Makes perfect sense and spot on. BMI thingy is the Malnutrition universal screening tool that is referred to as individuals must scores. Just got useless info if you are ever doing a pub quiz xx"

Lol

And agreed V.

But GPs still get their wee chart out though! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well done, good work, keep it up

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

The thing i find with those weight discussions is that not everyone has the same understanding of the terms healthy and overweight.

Not every overweight person is unhealthy!?

I have been overweight according to the bmi red/amber/green thingy but was still be able to run for an hour?

Perso, I don't follow the bmi!

I feel too skinny and unhealthy if I follow it.

I prefer to have a weight... i am... happy with and feel confident with and healthy with.

The bmi thingy can say what it wants... the way I feel in my body and head is the main thing.

As for other people... couldn't care less, who finds what attractive!

I am me! For me! Not others!

You can't be everyone's cuppa! and that's fair enough;-)

Hope this makes sense to someone lol

BMI is ridiculously outdated, I pay it no attention whatsoever"

I am overweight on the BMI chart .

It

It is as has been mentioned very outdated

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"well done, good work, keep it up

Exactly why does it matter what size your clothes are.

it matter's because it's not healthy to be overweight and most people don't find it attractive.

The thing i find with those weight discussions is that not everyone has the same understanding of the terms healthy and overweight.

Not every overweight person is unhealthy!?

I have been overweight according to the bmi red/amber/green thingy but was still be able to run for an hour?

Perso, I don't follow the bmi!

I feel too skinny and unhealthy if I follow it.

I prefer to have a weight... i am... happy with and feel confident with and healthy with.

The bmi thingy can say what it wants... the way I feel in my body and head is the main thing.

As for other people... couldn't care less, who finds what attractive!

I am me! For me! Not others!

You can't be everyone's cuppa! and that's fair enough;-)

Hope this makes sense to someone lol

BMI is ridiculously outdated, I pay it no attention whatsoever

I am overweight on the BMI chart .

It

It is as has been mentioned very outdated "

Omg well going by your pic if you are overweight I'm never getting weighed! Incidentally I can't view any more of your pics just for weight clarification purposes when are you likely to be unhiding your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bmi doesn't take in consideration muscle mass, ass muscle is denser than fat..I am obese on my bmi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Omg well going by your pic if you are overweight I'm never getting weighed! Incidentally I can't view any more of your pics just for weight clarification purposes when are you likely to be unhiding your profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it makes sense to me lol

in the long term it's not healthy for you and will take it's toll, you can be fit and a little overweight but that's not the kind of overweight i'm talking about.

it's a growing problem that needs to be addressed. "

I never had issues with my weight until after having kids. Now its a constant battle.

I'm losing that battle just now, and ironically am doing a sport and fitness course at college.

I have more important things to worry about at the moment that my weight.

Oh and going by bmi charts I should probably be dead,but shit happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a wee beer belly and I don't care it's mine, bought and paid for over the years lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a wee beer belly and I don't care it's mine, bought and paid for over the years lol "
Amen brother!!

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By *ibBethCouple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I was ill all the time when i was the correct bmi for my so called height bla bla. But now being a fab size im healthier less ill like more than half the amout. I put looks in peoples eyes an personality thats whats im attracted to on men an woman. ( beth) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No guy is seriously going to come on this thread and say yes are they?

Haha true.

I struggle to find a guy on here who I think would appreciate my body cos most are just looking for a hole lol "
yeah I would if it was something I thought was a major thing, then yes definitely and I appreciate everyone for the way they look no one's perfect and has no right to judge anyone else on there appearance. My ex before I joined this was a size 26 and was an amazing girl on the inside and out I'd rather click with someone than let's just put it this way any holes a goal not for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same I hate my flabby bits specially my stomach very self conscious about it but it is part of me and if guys don't like it then that's their choice, I try not let it bother me as much as it used to, however the way some guys talk about it makes it difficult. Hate guys that ask you what size you are in clothes or refer to lager ladies as BBW just my person opinion on it xx"
hey you look amazing and the fact you have an amazing personality and a genuine girl makes you even more sexy don't ever forget it xx

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol"

Personally I find this a bit offensive. You're entitled to your view and I'm a bigger girl so I'll enjoy the men that enjoy that

What I'd like to challenge is the Chippendales comment. They don't turn me on because they are that body type. I've worked with the Dream Boys and trust me some were attractive but SO not because of how they solely looked. Personality/charisma/vibe whatever you want to call it but that is far more important than a picture perfect image.

If you want my ideal of naked men then I'd re-create the Full Monty... real men being sexy for being them...

In fact I think I've requested that for my Birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol"
not everyone is vein mate or up there own arse to think they are better than anyone else, as they think there something they ain't don't take that the wrong as not aimed at you just people in general. It's all about being respectful and having manners to a lot of people words can hurt just my opinion

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol

Personally I find this a bit offensive. You're entitled to your view and I'm a bigger girl so I'll enjoy the men that enjoy that

What I'd like to challenge is the Chippendales comment. They don't turn me on because they are that body type. I've worked with the Dream Boys and trust me some were attractive but SO not because of how they solely looked. Personality/charisma/vibe whatever you want to call it but that is far more important than a picture perfect image.

If you want my ideal of naked men then I'd re-create the Full Monty... real men being sexy for being them...

In fact I think I've requested that for my Birthday "

Agreed

particularly the full monty bit

And in my life I have met some physically attractive men... and women but the personality going with it was far from being attractive!

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol

Personally I find this a bit offensive. You're entitled to your view and I'm a bigger girl so I'll enjoy the men that enjoy that

What I'd like to challenge is the Chippendales comment. They don't turn me on because they are that body type. I've worked with the Dream Boys and trust me some were attractive but SO not because of how they solely looked. Personality/charisma/vibe whatever you want to call it but that is far more important than a picture perfect image.

If you want my ideal of naked men then I'd re-create the Full Monty... real men being sexy for being them...

In fact I think I've requested that for my Birthday

Agreed

particularly the full monty bit

And in my life I have met some physically attractive men... and women but the personality going with it was far from being attractive! "

Well Max I made it clear to some who I wanted as part of the Full Monty... so maybe you should be there to see it. Even better is it a charity do we can organise ?!?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol

Personally I find this a bit offensive. You're entitled to your view and I'm a bigger girl so I'll enjoy the men that enjoy that

What I'd like to challenge is the Chippendales comment. They don't turn me on because they are that body type. I've worked with the Dream Boys and trust me some were attractive but SO not because of how they solely looked. Personality/charisma/vibe whatever you want to call it but that is far more important than a picture perfect image.

If you want my ideal of naked men then I'd re-create the Full Monty... real men being sexy for being them...

In fact I think I've requested that for my Birthday

Agreed

particularly the full monty bit

And in my life I have met some physically attractive men... and women but the personality going with it was far from being attractive!

Well Max I made it clear to some who I wanted as part of the Full Monty... so maybe you should be there to see it. Even better is it a charity do we can organise ?!? "

Sounds like a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you women bother about beer guts and the ever increasing man belly epidemic? lol

fat bits are not attractive, if you can see past them fair enough but let's be honest and think about what you like to look at.

suppose there are some men that appreciate the larger women the rest just want a fuck.

funny though i mean how many women would turn out for the chippendales if they were all over weight and couldn't even see their own dicks when standing up straight and looking down lol

Personally I find this a bit offensive. You're entitled to your view and I'm a bigger girl so I'll enjoy the men that enjoy that

What I'd like to challenge is the Chippendales comment. They don't turn me on because they are that body type. I've worked with the Dream Boys and trust me some were attractive but SO not because of how they solely looked. Personality/charisma/vibe whatever you want to call it but that is far more important than a picture perfect image.

If you want my ideal of naked men then I'd re-create the Full Monty... real men being sexy for being them...

In fact I think I've requested that for my Birthday

Agreed

particularly the full monty bit

And in my life I have met some physically attractive men... and women but the personality going with it was far from being attractive!

Well Max I made it clear to some who I wanted as part of the Full Monty... so maybe you should be there to see it. Even better is it a charity do we can organise ?!? "
awww do tell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here weight doesn't bother me as long as they have a good sense of humour it's more wats in the inside. All woman are different who cares wat ppl think if ladies are bigger and if men say no thanks fuck them u don't need them u should love wat u have.my Mrs is a curvy woman in my eyes she's sexy as fuck might not be in sum other ppls eyes but who cares end of day as long as ur happy with urself have fun and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally...

Im only going to bed with someone that I'm physicality attracted to..guys on the larger side I'm not

But then again neither is slim or the bodybuilder type

Yes personality is a major factor but at the end of the day...I need to be physically attracted to someone 1st

I'm not skinny it's up to men to decide wether or not their attracted to me

Great if they are...if they ain't...I'm not gonna lose any sleep over it.

My hubby fancies the pants off me still so ..that's really all that I care about

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over a year ago


"Same I hate my flabby bits specially my stomach very self conscious about it but it is part of me and if guys don't like it then that's their choice, I try not let it bother me as much as it used to, however the way some guys talk about it makes it difficult. Hate guys that ask you what size you are in clothes or refer to lager ladies as BBW just my person opinion on it xxhey you look amazing and the fact you have an amazing personality and a genuine girl makes you even more sexy don't ever forget it xx "

Too kind Mr hahah Thank god for my personality then xx

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Same I hate my flabby bits specially my stomach very self conscious about it but it is part of me and if guys don't like it then that's their choice, I try not let it bother me as much as it used to, however the way some guys talk about it makes it difficult. Hate guys that ask you what size you are in clothes or refer to lager ladies as BBW just my person opinion on it xxhey you look amazing and the fact you have an amazing personality and a genuine girl makes you even more sexy don't ever forget it xx

Too kind Mr hahah Thank god for my personality then xx"

You look gorgeous... sitting doon lol xx

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just teasing... Felicity you look gorgeous and you have a great personality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely total turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about the same but for you women? "
men get away with it more I think .as long as its not like 20 stone I'm fine

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over a year ago


"Same I hate my flabby bits specially my stomach very self conscious about it but it is part of me and if guys don't like it then that's their choice, I try not let it bother me as much as it used to, however the way some guys talk about it makes it difficult. Hate guys that ask you what size you are in clothes or refer to lager ladies as BBW just my person opinion on it xxhey you look amazing and the fact you have an amazing personality and a genuine girl makes you even more sexy don't ever forget it xx

Too kind Mr hahah Thank god for my personality then xx

You look gorgeous... sitting doon lol xx"

Hahaha I'm a shy lass that's why I sat doon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just teasing... Felicity you look gorgeous and you have a great personality xx "

Thank you and you do too with sexy smooth legs xx

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Does it matter? If you are really happy with yourself then that should be enough

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are all attracted to different types here. I think curves are sexy. I don't find people too large attractive. Personally aside...but each to their own huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have any problems when people meet us. I (B) have the problem with my body image. I would be happy if I were 3 stone lighter, but it's not going to happen any time soon, and unless I win the lottery I think I'm stuck with certain lumps and bumps in the wrong place.

C doesn't object and that's the important person that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a wee question .do guys bother about lumpy bits fat bellys ..celulite on a woman .just asking ."
Guys will shag a buttonhole in a fur coat regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a total gym bunny myself. Don't eat sweets or fatty foods ever. Only salad and a diet water now and then .

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm in my 40s, have a 'Dad bod', not particularly tall, quite hairy, going grey and bald.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea. But I don't let it bother me.

Likewise, I've met lots of ladies, young, old, slim, large, big boobs, small boobs, mum tums, 6 packs. It's never bothered me.

Those few I've played with - it's been because I like them. It's not been because of their body. It's because I actually like them and for some reason they liked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure there's many people 100% happy with their bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't particularly bother me as long as it's not overly excessive, I love a woman with the fuller figure curves in all the right places, also love the smaller but again not to small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the skin your in xx

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Need to be happy in your head before you can address any issues you have with your body. I'm a big man. Almost Always have been. I'm not designed to be slim or even medium build. To be healthy,need to loose a bit. But will do it in my time and my pace. If you don't like me because I'm big, your lose

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met many a dull photogenic (probably just as impressed by me, of course) and just as many unconventionally attractives.

I have absolutely no idea what makes people click and I'm happy to remain clueless in anticipation.

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