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"Heather, I'm totally in agreement with you on this one.. Its not a new thing though.... there has been a mass exodus of peeps from here recently because of all the back biting... I know of one or two regulars have commented to myself about it all and are ready to pack in the site... " thinking in the same really, being a single guy on here this site is very hard, i no i am one. | |||
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"I've been on htis site for a number of years Marti and it used to be a great place.... Too much bitching and back stabbing now" ano what can we do about it | |||
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"Heather, I'm totally in agreement with you on this one.. Its not a new thing though.... there has been a mass exodus of peeps from here recently because of all the back biting... I know of one or two regulars have commented to myself about it all and are ready to pack in the site... " Yeah ive had it to the he said she said scenarios and all a load of crap i have thought about giving it all up but i have many friends here who support me and i thank them for that... so to those who cause the shit Up Yours im going no where Too many decent people being drawn into to many others business and forming opinions when they know nothing about the person too...for some they need to stop listening to gossip and form their own opinions rather than following the leaders . | |||
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"Heather, I'm totally in agreement with you on this one.. Its not a new thing though.... there has been a mass exodus of peeps from here recently because of all the back biting... I know of one or two regulars have commented to myself about it all and are ready to pack in the site... Yeah ive had it to the he said she said scenarios and all a load of crap i have thought about giving it all up but i have many friends here who support me and i thank them for that... so to those who cause the shit Up Yours im going no where Too many decent people being drawn into to many others business and forming opinions when they know nothing about the person too...for some they need to stop listening to gossip and form their own opinions rather than following the leaders ." wouldnt no about this not met any 1 yet, have been taking my time on this - but the longer i leave it think the harder it gets. confused iam | |||
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"well we are coming from the other end of the spectrum in that we are totally oblivious to any backstabbing or bitchiness! where does this basckstabbing take place?! in chat? " usually forum from what i seen | |||
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"well we are coming from the other end of the spectrum in that we are totally oblivious to any backstabbing or bitchiness! where does this basckstabbing take place?! in chat? " i'm the same as you. I come in to chat, catch up on the forums and attend the odd social from time to time. When I close the page on my pc then I stop thinking about Fab, it's not the be all and end all in my life. I have a home and family to occupy me. Anyone who spreads rumours and shit about other people don't deserve the fun, laughter and friendships this website can bring. | |||
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"well we are coming from the other end of the spectrum in that we are totally oblivious to any backstabbing or bitchiness! where does this basckstabbing take place?! in chat? " Mostly on the forum from what I see or messages to others about us (one of our friends was messaged by an angry bloke we had politely declined - he left shortly after but he seems to pop back from time to time) Mostly it seems to be about single blokes or new couples joining the site and diving in without reading. We have had abuse because people have not read our profile and made a request for a meet (usually something like 'I'm near you, fancy a fuck on Saturday night at your place?') to which we reply No because we cannot accommodate, don't do single males and prefer a social meet first. Then we get abuse and accusation of being prick-teasers or time wasters. Now I will be the first to admit we have not had a lot of meets from the site but we are very busy people with little spare time and this is supposed to be fun. As for accusation of a clique, no; there is certainly a group of close friends and when they get together they catch up big style (I have never heard women talk so fast but on our single social (Aberdeen) that we went to we were never excluded. People chatted and were polite and I appreciated the effort that went into the organisation (and the raffle. I won a bottle of rum. WooHoo). We never went to the club afterward because we are big fearties but I am sure that if we did go we would not have been excluded at all. True, people did keep to themselves a little but they are with their friends and it forced us to stop hiding in a corner and make a move to chat to people. As I saw it we were moving into their world, I am not arrogant enough to think that people would flock to be near me as I entered the room. Right. Enough said. I'll go back to being very quiet and sit in the corner again. Andy | |||
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"No offence Heather... but what a load of pish... there has been bitching and back stabbing for years on here.. the chat rooms and the fucked up whispers, the snidy comments between warring fractions, socials where the tables of people were glowering at each other, fems arguing and bitching over guys and fighting over the newbie hotties, couples fighting over not getting invites to functions, guys bitching about other guys if they perceive they get more meets, people fighting in the forums, people bitching about the mods, people bitching about people being the kings and queens of the rooms/forums, people being bullied in the forums, belittled in chat by best friends of a single fem........ the above has all gone on and there are very FEW people not guilty of it..... I have certainly done it... but I fucking admit it. divas stropping and leaving the site are/were some of the worst offenders so to read some of the above is a nonsense. I will say...... Lil, I have never ever heard you do it... I say that not because you are a MOD, it is because you and Larry never did. I don't kiss MOD ass. so people at least be honest .... there is an issue.. the socials have died a death because of fighting in some cases. my 2p worth..... ps... I repeat I have done it.... so have 75/80/85/90% of the regulars xx" *Applaud* .....Never a truer statement made in a fab forum IMO ...(always feel I need to clarify that before someone points it out that it is my opinion). This is not a new thing nor will it be something that doesnt happen in the future. There will be alot of people sitting reading this and bitching to their friends about what has been written, which makes them the same! The best course of action is not to get involved in anything that doesnt concern you, have fun when you choose and with whom you choose. xxxx | |||
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"No offence Heather... but what a load of pish... there has been bitching and back stabbing for years on here.. the chat rooms and the fucked up whispers, the snidy comments between warring fractions, socials where the tables of people were glowering at each other, fems arguing and bitching over guys and fighting over the newbie hotties, couples fighting over not getting invites to functions, guys bitching about other guys if they perceive they get more meets, people fighting in the forums, people bitching about the mods, people bitching about people being the kings and queens of the rooms/forums, people being bullied in the forums, belittled in chat by best friends of a single fem........ the above has all gone on and there are very FEW people not guilty of it..... I have certainly done it... but I fucking admit it. divas stropping and leaving the site are/were some of the worst offenders so to read some of the above is a nonsense. I will say...... Lil, I have never ever heard you do it... I say that not because you are a MOD, it is because you and Larry never did. I don't kiss MOD ass. so people at least be honest .... there is an issue.. the socials have died a death because of fighting in some cases. my 2p worth..... ps... I repeat I have done it.... so have 75/80/85/90% of the regulars xx" WELL SAID VIEW... In over the past 5 years ive been on here this is exactly what has been happening. However. the daunting thing is,it will NEVER change. Buboo x | |||
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"people get over involved in each other lives.... people make assumptions about things they dont know.... heads n tails get added on.....such a shame sometimes....i do think thou forum posts like this dont really help matters at times...." Agreed, as an example of this, when you message someone quite new to the site and they reply, "ohh i've heard about you,you have a bad reputation on here",3 weeks i think they were on here and they hit you with that pish, it kinda confirms, backstabbing and bitching is alive and well on here!! | |||
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"I agree with you, Rugby. Everyone here seems to recognise that it goes on and that there is/were regular spats for whatever reason. Could we not all step in if we see it happening and kill a thread before it takes legs? " To be honest, when members have politely said to others that they should keep it away from the forums/ chat or that they think someone is OTT, most of the time it is taken better than when a mod asks. | |||
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