FabSwingers.com forum: Do Women and Couples Search for Men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Question for the ladies and couples..

I've read alot in the forums about how many messages women and couples get from guys who are probably doing searches to find them.

I was wondering as women and couples have bulging inboxes do you just sift through your mail and chose to reply to who you fancy or do you actually search for what you want instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally answer all mails , however I do research what I want and dismiss the ones I don't want .

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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Nah.

They just toss a coin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bulging inbox. How do I get us one of those????

We reply to everyone even if its just a no thanks.

But then we don't have many to reply to lol

L x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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"Bulging inbox. How do I get us one of those????

We reply to everyone even if its just a no thanks.

But then we don't have many to reply to lol

L x"

That's because you've got men blocked

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Question for the ladies and couples..

I've read alot in the forums about how many messages women and couples get from guys who are probably doing searches to find them.

I was wondering as women and couples have bulging inboxes do you just sift through your mail and chose to reply to who you fancy or do you actually search for what you want instead?"

I reply to all the messages that make sense! Even if a thanks but no thanks...but I ignore the others!

As for searching... I don't particularly use the browsing tool as I find that some profiles don't say much about the owner.

I prefer the forum, the chatroom or even better socials and clubs as you get a quick insight into someone's personality.

Hope that makes sense OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah look myself now and again, using the search facility, shock, even occasionally send messages! mad I know!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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"Yeah look myself now and again, using the search facility, shock, even occasionally send messages! mad I know!

You SEND messages???? How very dare you young lady??!?!??????!!!???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah look myself now and again, using the search facility, shock, even occasionally send messages! mad I know!

You send messages to men? That's shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send messages

Usually from chat on the forum

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I try to reply to all messages unless they are in the form of "hi" or "nice tits".

When looking to play generally we will message a single bloke I like the look of x

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Own search these days

Getting along to socials is even better

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

yeah they do sometimes, ive had a first message from a few.... unfortunately 75% of them have been fake profiles

but aye, a few genuine ones now and again

not enough though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all messages...

Unless it's a nasty message

But no is the answer ...I don't search for guys on here

If someone gets in contact and I like ...I make the effort to strike up a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to have our filters set not to allow single guys to message us. This is purely to minimise the volume of messages we receive from single males who can't take a minute to read our profile and only really look at the pictures.

If and when Bonnie fancies a bit of male company she will go looking. She'll usually have a look at the pictures, read their profile and have a look at verifications. If she likes what she sees she will get intouch for a chat then take it from there. That's just how she likes to do things. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bulging inbox. How do I get us one of those????

We reply to everyone even if its just a no thanks.

But then we don't have many to reply to lol

L x

That's because you've got men blocked

You planted the doubt in my mind so I actually had to check the settings to make sure, but no we don't x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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"Bulging inbox. How do I get us one of those????

We reply to everyone even if its just a no thanks.

But then we don't have many to reply to lol

L x

That's because you've got men blocked

You planted the doubt in my mind so I actually had to check the settings to make sure, but no we don't x

My bad. To be honest I looked and it only said couples so I thought men would be blocked. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bulging inbox. How do I get us one of those????

We reply to everyone even if its just a no thanks.

But then we don't have many to reply to lol

L x

That's because you've got men blocked

You planted the doubt in my mind so I actually had to check the settings to make sure, but no we don't x

My bad. To be honest I looked and it only said couples so I thought men would be blocked. Sorry

Hey it happens

I look at couples profiles and when it says they are looking for women and cpls only I don't even attempt to see if I can message then as I would not anyways. I read profiles and take them in but sometimes these couples do look for single guys, even though they say they don't.

I still wouldn't message but hopefully they will see I looked at their profile and if interested they will get in touch.

Regarding this post, of course cpls search for guys, they don't have to right enough cause they usually get tons of messages but yeah, they do search

here endith the lesson lollllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bulging inbox. How do I get us one of those????

We reply to everyone even if its just a no thanks.

But then we don't have many to reply to lol

L x

That's because you've got men blocked

You planted the doubt in my mind so I actually had to check the settings to make sure, but no we don't x

My bad. To be honest I looked and it only said couples so I thought men would be blocked. Sorry

Hey it happens

I still wouldn't message but hopefully they will see I looked at their profile and if interested they will get in touch.

Regarding this post, of course cpls search for guys, they don't have to right enough cause they usually get tons of messages but yeah, they do search

here endith the lesson lollllll

If anyone looks at us, I will have a look back. And while we are only really looking for couples, there may be the odd exception to that, hence why the no filters.

There was a guy recently, I felt really comfortable chatting with him. But he fucked it by not showing up to a meet in a local coffee shop. No explanation or anything.

People will look at others, even if they're not what their looking for, its a natural thing to do.

And as long as people are respectful and don't start being nasty about things, then its really not a big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I search for guys. I even messaged a few who have said they were surprised to hear from me as they had already messaged me and got no reply. The volume of messages I receive means I might miss someone I would like to chat to just because they got lost amongst the chaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I search for guys. I even messaged a few who have said they were surprised to hear from me as they had already messaged me and got no reply. The volume of messages I receive means I might miss someone I would like to chat to just because they got lost amongst the chaff."

I'm away to check my inbox

If there's a message I bet my heart gives way

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

I'm away to check my inbox

If there's a message I bet my heart gives way

Horsey..... you still with us pal?

Step away from the light!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if only i was one of those guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm away to check my inbox

If there's a message I bet my heart gives way

Horsey..... you still with us pal?

Step away from the light!!

Don't worry as expected theres no mail in my inbox

lollllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if thats what we are looking for at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. And send messages too!

Mind you, the right status update tends to do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someday I'll have a status that says

I'm growing a Beard

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Question for the ladies and couples..

I've read alot in the forums about how many messages women and couples get from guys who are probably doing searches to find them.

I was wondering as women and couples have bulging inboxes do you just sift through your mail and chose to reply to who you fancy or do you actually search for what you want instead?"
both for me .

Im not shy in mailing guys I like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someday I'll have a status that says

I'm growing a Beard

Tease

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