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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do so many single guys think it's fine to address a couple as if the female is single? it shows no respect and ruins it for decent guys....we are sure this is the main reason why couples leave ....

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"why do so many single guys think it's fine to address a couple as if the female is single? it shows no respect and ruins it for decent guys....we are sure this is the main reason why couples leave ...."
hi there well said

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

I find the vast majority of single guys are respectful to be fair. Just the odd idiot, same can be said for couples and single women too though in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually because it's the chick that has the final say

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Scott) love the single guy msg starting with, hey babe you're gorgeous (we have no public pics!! Never mind a face pic) followed by how great they are in bed, and what they'll do to me, so, since I (Scott) read the msg he must mean me! So I'll ask if he wants me to suck his cock, he'll reply yeah babe, I'll ask if he wants to stick it up my ass, he'll reply yeah babe if that's what you like. Then I'll ask why he has straight on his profile if he's obviously bi? As it's me he's speaking with

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

But I think it makes the decent guys stand out

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian


"I (Scott) love the single guy msg starting with, hey babe you're gorgeous (we have no public pics!! Never mind a face pic) followed by how great they are in bed, and what they'll do to me, so, since I (Scott) read the msg he must mean me! So I'll ask if he wants me to suck his cock, he'll reply yeah babe, I'll ask if he wants to stick it up my ass, he'll reply yeah babe if that's what you like. Then I'll ask why he has straight on his profile if he's obviously bi? As it's me he's speaking with "

Pmsl .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This frustrates us so much too - they'd stand much more of a chance if things developing further if they addressed us as a couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do so many single guys think it's fine to address a couple as if the female is single? it shows no respect and ruins it for decent guys....we are sure this is the main reason why couples leave ...."

Amen to that. Respect and courteous behaviour costs nothing.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Probably the same reason most cpls only want a single fem

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

personally tend to address couples as a ouple and it usually is quite clear who youre chatting to. andd in fairness most will say . but like everything on here tbere are exceptions . best ignored and move on

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By *eekingSinCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"why do so many single guys think it's fine to address a couple as if the female is single? it shows no respect and ruins it for decent guys...."

Just use it as a filter

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I sometimes have a bit of a laugh at the 'hi babe you're gorgeous' messages. I occasionally reply with 'you're not his type' or 'which one of us are you addressing?'

Very occasionally we get a message directed at him, usually it's a random request like the guy who wanted to drive up from the midlands so I could kick him in the balls while he filmed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples profiles just have pics of the female though so maybe that's where it comes from.

Some of the messages are horrendous right enough. "I would love to lick your arse" seemed to be the message of choice before we blocked single guys.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Our favorite message to date was basically, I heard your man was in hospital meaning you're free to come and play with us.

Subtle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have total respect for couples and would always address them as a couple plus would always approach them as a couple, would never try and sleeze on the girl out of total respect for the guy

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Our favorite message to date was basically, I heard your man was in hospital meaning you're free to come and play with us.

Subtle. "

The male of a couple once had a go at me because I couldn't confirm dates to meet until I found out what day my cousin's funeral was. Apparently I couldn't have been that upset if I was still meeting

I've rarely seen C angry, but that was one of those times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do so many single guys think it's fine to address a couple as if the female is single? it shows no respect and ruins it for decent guys....we are sure this is the main reason why couples leave ...."

To be honest I hate it when guys do that, especially in the chat room, ffs, it does my head it. Cpls are here as couples and are here to play as such so treat them with the respect they deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr) do most of our messaging. But i always address both parties in a couple. Yeah i might well want to fuck his wife. But its not going to get me or the mrs very far if we just piss everyone off. At the end of the day if a guy wont even talk to me why would i let him near my queen.

We get a lot of messages directed just at mrs. I like to have a little fun with those.

To be fair the majority of people on here are respectful. But it only takes a few bad apples to ruin it for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to open a conversation with a couple with hey guys and then whatever i am going to say might not be the best approach but has worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to open a conversation with a couple with hey guys and then whatever i am going to say might not be the best approach but has worked for me "

Always gets a better response from us

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's kinda weird but it's the opposite for us when it's single guys messaging us. They tend to adress my other half (male) when we get messages from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's kinda weird but it's the opposite for us when it's single guys messaging us. They tend to adress my other half (male) when we get messages from them."

Must be an east coast west coast thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do meet with single guys but only ones that talk to both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do so many single guys think it's fine to address a couple as if the female is single? it shows no respect and ruins it for decent guys....we are sure this is the main reason why couples leave .... hi there well said "

Totally agree happens to us all the time

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

As a single guy i have to say that the majority of times its the female who replies when its a couple. Thats not to say i dont talk to the male half. I like to talk to both and always ask how the other person is when talking to a couple.

Maybe im just strange but the male half is a person too and sometimes its nice to talk to them as it gives me more insight into what they are looking for as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy on here if you want to meet a couple surely you have to chat to the couple? I am straight and would only be looking to play with the female but i expect the guy to be there having fun as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I wouldn't even message a couple if it says they're not looking for single guys.

If its a couples profile then I treat it as such

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

We get this all the time. I just tend to ignore it but the mr gets annoyed & replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I have got to show this to Craig, he'll want to use this one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had any bother from any single males that have messaged, they have all been very polite and never rude etc

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I have never had any bother from any single males that have messaged, they have all been very polite and never rude etc"

Same x

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