FabSwingers.com forum: Aberdeen

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought I'd post a forum specific to Aberdeen and see if anyone would like to meet up individually or as a group. I've been on here a wee while now and I'm stilll not having much luck so hope someone can come to me instead. Post below if your from nearby and interested or also private message me x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If you're thinking of planning a social I'd be interested depending on date

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Yeah, I'd be interested in attending a social too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also In Aberdeen myself , the scene seems a bit quiet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah it does seem to be pretty poor. I'd definitely be up for social or anything else if we could get enough interest. If other people are interested write below and we could sort something out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay a bit away but always love a social no matter were if I'd be allowed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well as this post is going down like a tonne of lead doesn't look like anyone in Aberdeen is interested :O

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Maybe try posting it the meets section?

As Aberdeen's so quiet I think there would be quite a lot of interest in a social.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'd say there's definitely a big enough scene in Aberdeen. I attended a social in October that had about 25/30 people there, and when it was open the club was usually busy.

I do hear a lot that Aberdeen is a village though, this may be an issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah you definitely could be right it's such a small place I imagine a lot of people are worried they may know people etc. But if that many people came out before they must just be hiding :O

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Yeah you definitely could be right it's such a small place I imagine a lot of people are worried they may know people etc. But if that many people came out before they must just be hiding :O"

Why not pick a day, pop up a post and see how many are interested? Might get more than you think. I have a friend in Aberdeen who's not long joined, sure I could persuade her to come along

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

And if you do, mention it in your status as only 1% of users are on the forum

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

i would be interested in a social , someone would have to put me up for the night tho

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well looks like we have a few people interested. We have got a start. Now just see if anyone else is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well looks like we have a few people interested. We have got a start. Now just see if anyone else is interested"
if you aren't just looking to open up the social to people from Aberdeen I can ask a few people I know see if they would be interested mate

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm in for a social.

Was at a great one in October. It's always nice to make new friends

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'd certainly be interested in getting involved in an organised Aberdeen scene for genuine folks. Never quite sure who is really looking for fun in here to be honest!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

So that's 8 of us so far..... if we all happen to be free on the night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh I like a good night out, like some of the others I was also at the 1 in October and had a great night (honest my knickers weren't in my handbag all night

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Keep us posted if you're organising something OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending when it is, I could be interested

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

That's like 10 people in 2 days guys!! This thing's getting out of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's like 10 people in 2 days guys!! This thing's getting out of control.

Damn I like a bit of control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to come along to something but probably won't be able to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Things are getting exciting!! Haha at this rate we will have to book a venue to fill us all

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By *urxxMan
over a year ago

montrose

I'd be up for a social in Aberdeen for sure...dates permitted ..

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By *indsurferdudeMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If I'm home count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to come along to something but probably won't be able to."

Why wouldn't you be able to? A social is open to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any idea on dates xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, I missed the last social in October due to work and would be well up for it ... Aberdeen has a lot of potential ... let's get this arranged xx

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By *wingleWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'd certainly be up for this, any ideas on where and when?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in for sure - first time for everything, right?

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

I think the OP was looking to see if there'd be any interest, we could arrange amongst ourselves a suitable date. Not sure whether the OP is still checking this thread or not though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'm not long joined too and a social sounds like a great idea for Aberdeen! Id be up for it if it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm free when ever anyone else fancies it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would also be interested in an Aberdeen social! Was thinking about organising 1 myself but kids make it hard for me to get time but willing to lend a hand organising if need b xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, sounds like a great night...

If this doesn't go ahead, I'll have to look at organising as there are clearly numbers interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely be interested. What about a daytime social? I'm married (I'm honest, so please don't judge!!) and, as a result, find evenings to be almost impossible to meet.

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

We would be interested

Will keep an eye out for the dates everyone is thinking about

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following post. Never been to a social from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hi. I was at the october one. Was a great laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is shaping up well and I'm happy to do both day or night however most will agree that there isn't really anywhere we can all meet up other than a bar I'd imagine so night is probably better

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"This is shaping up well and I'm happy to do both day or night however most will agree that there isn't really anywhere we can all meet up other than a bar I'd imagine so night is probably better "

OP, a previous poster offered to help organise

I'd be happy to help also, never organised one before but if anyone knows what they're doing then just let me know what you need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha I'm not too sure on what I'm doing myself but I'm sure we could manage. Just need numbers and set a date I guess. Anyone have preference on date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be up for it if we got a babysitter organised

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

April or May might be an idea. Bit warmer and it gives us time to get something organised

Just a thought..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for this as well

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

Well April is fine with us ... to get ball rolling what about 29th of April ???

Xxxx

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Well April is fine with us ... to get ball rolling what about 29th of April ???

Xxxx

That works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well April is fine with us ... to get ball rolling what about 29th of April ???

Xxxx

That works for me!

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sounds good to me just after my birthday

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Well looks like we have a few people interested. We have got a start. Now just see if anyone else is interestedif you aren't just looking to open up the social to people from Aberdeen I can ask a few people I know see if they would be interested mate"

People from anywhere can attend a social

as far as I know. You say you can ask some of you mates? I think that's cool as long as they are members of fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People from anywhere can attend a social

as far as I know. You say you can ask some of you mates? I think that's cool as long as they are members of fab?

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thanks and yeah they are members of fab will say to all of them x

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

People from anywhere can attend a social

as far as I know. You say you can ask some of you mates? I think that's cool as long as they are members of fab?

thanks and yeah they are members of fab will say to all of them x

Cool

just thought I should check

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If it's just drinks in a pub it's not hard to organise - get numbers, book a table, job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People from anywhere can attend a social

as far as I know. You say you can ask some of you mates? I think that's cool as long as they are members of fab?

thanks and yeah they are members of fab will say to all of them x

Cool

just thought I should check

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totally x

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"If it's just drinks in a pub it's not hard to organise - get numbers, book a table, job done

Haha....I know

I've organised loads of party's and dinners but I felt like there might be some sort of secret code when organising a swinger social....

..... I'm new here and clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's just drinks in a pub it's not hard to organise - get numbers, book a table, job done

Haha....I know

I've organised loads of party's and dinners but I felt like there might be some sort of secret code when organising a swinger social....

..... I'm new here and clueless

X"
well your doing a decent job of helping so far x

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

But would be nice to have it even on the social ie not 20 guys to 2 woman

Just saying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But would be nice to have it even on the social ie not 20 guys to 2 woman

Just saying lol

Xx"
aww you have to have evenish numbers it will be girls I am inviting to it

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"But would be nice to have it even on the social ie not 20 guys to 2 woman

Just saying lol

Xx"

Oh definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww no way, I won't make the 29th April it's my youngests birthday. Any other date would have been fine haha Nevermind, always next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So 29th April? Is that set in stone like? B good to accommodate everyone especially the ladies like previous post! Must b doable! 22nd April maybe? Why April ? There's all of March like as well. Any though on location? Halo might be good as Saturday night should get a desent sized booth as never too busy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So 29th April? Is that set in stone like? B good to accommodate everyone especially the ladies like previous post! Must b doable! 22nd April maybe? Why April ? There's all of March like as well. Any though on location? Halo might be good as Saturday night should get a desent sized booth as never too busy?"
I don't think the 29th was a set date think it was just an idea for everyone to go on mate

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"But would be nice to have it even on the social ie not 20 guys to 2 woman

Just saying lol

Xx"

I've found that the vast majority of single guys won't turn up. I organised a social a couple of weeks ago. Out of 42 people putting their name down only 26 gave me a contact number, and out of 12 guys only 2 showed up.

Don't book a table for the number of people who've said they'll come as you will get no shows, so for example if 30 say they're coming book for 20/25.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Aww no way, I won't make the 29th April it's my youngests birthday. Any other date would have been fine haha Nevermind, always next time

How about we try for the 22nd and see how many can make that? I'd prefer a date where as many women as possible can make it

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"But would be nice to have it even on the social ie not 20 guys to 2 woman

Just saying lol

Don't book a table for the number of people who've said they'll come as you will get no shows, so for example if 30 say they're coming book for 20/25."

Yeah, good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can manage the 22nd no bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22nd of April ??????

Looking forward to meeting everyone and reviving the scene since the club closed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I would be up for a social.

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

22nd should be ok

It was nerve wracking turning up last time when I knew nobody so not surprised single guys don't show but fingers crossed everyone does

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"22nd of April ??????

Looking forward to meeting everyone and reviving the scene since the club closed xx"

We miss the club too

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

22nd April also works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah 22nd works for me too )

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

22nd ok for us too

We just said 29th to get ball rolling and maybe to help some will have been paid at end of the month being Aberdeen not that cheep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22nd is good for me it's my birthday weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey guys can I join in please,would love to come!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be away on 22nd but 29th is my birthday so could have a cake

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Hey guys can I join in please,would love to come!!"

Of course! I'll see you there! .....when we decide on a venue

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"I'll be away on 22nd but 29th is my birthday so could have a cake

Aw that's a shame...we can toast you in your absence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool so we have a date now we need a good venue? Any thoughts?

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Cool so we have a date now we need a good venue? Any thoughts?"

I was thinking about this but we don't know how many people...there also may be places that anyone local may want to avoid? ..... any suggestions anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cool so we have a date now we need a good venue? Any thoughts?

I was thinking about this but we don't know how many people...there also may be places that anyone local may want to avoid? ..... any suggestions anyone?

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glad we have a date and I can celebrate my birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's true. As its a Saturday night most places will be pretty busy....what about slains? or halo is sometimes quieter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I would manage 22nd but don't want to turn up myself lol xx

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Think I would manage 22nd but don't want to turn up myself lol xx "

I don't either, I'd be happy to go along with you?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I would manage 22nd but don't want to turn up myself lol xx "

I'll easy turn up with you if you want? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily meet up for a few drinks before it with anyone who fancied it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I would manage 22nd but don't want to turn up myself lol xx

I don't either, I'd be happy to go along with you?

Sounds like a plan

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Think I would manage 22nd but don't want to turn up myself lol xx

I don't either, I'd be happy to go along with you?

Sounds like a plan

x "

It's a date!

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

Well count us in what ever date

Will let everyone battle out what location lol

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi - we'd try to make it too, it'd be good to meet a few of you guys socially x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I would manage 22nd but don't want to turn up myself lol xx

I don't either, I'd be happy to go along with you?

Sounds like a plan

It's a date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right. So is the plan the 22nd March?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Saturday 22nd April...at the minute. As far as I know lol

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"No Saturday 22nd April...at the minute. As far as I know lol"

Yeah 22nd of April

we don't have a venue yet but it would be good if everyone could say if there's anywhere central they wouldn't want to have the social and then we can see what's left and get somewhere booked?

I've been advised also not to post the venue on here (when we have one) but get you all to pm for details?

Also....sorry OP for taking over your thread but I'm not sure checking this too regularly......so just let me know if you want your thread back

Looking forward to meeting you all

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"No Saturday 22nd April...at the minute. As far as I know lol

Yeah 22nd of April

we don't have a venue yet but it would be good if everyone could say if there's anywhere central they wouldn't want to have the social and then we can see what's left and get somewhere booked?

I've been advised also not to post the venue on here (when we have one) but get you all to pm for details?

Also....sorry OP for taking over your thread but I'm not sure checking this too regularly......so just let me know if you want your thread back

Looking forward to meeting you all

Any help you need just shout x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good night folks, I'll catch up with you at the next one as away 22nd x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd be up this if there are still spaces. Good chance to return to the city for the weekend and meet some old and new friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No Saturday 22nd April...at the minute. As far as I know lol

Yeah 22nd of April

we don't have a venue yet but it would be good if everyone could say if there's anywhere central they wouldn't want to have the social and then we can see what's left and get somewhere booked?

I've been advised also not to post the venue on here (when we have one) but get you all to pm for details?

Also....sorry OP for taking over your thread but I'm not sure checking this too regularly......so just let me know if you want your thread back

Looking forward to meeting you all

You are very good at this haha maybe you can continue to organise things as I seem to always miss what everyone is saying

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By *wingleWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

22nd good for me too, looks like we have a plan!

So what's the story with recognising members at a social? I'm not fussed about turning up by myself but I don't want to end up attaching myself to some random office night out and giving them all totally the wrong idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22nd good for me too, looks like we have a plan!

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totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22nd good for me too, looks like we have a plan!

I could turn up with you if you like? Maybe meet for a few drinks first. X"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I have a small teddy that I've put on the table before so people know which it is, as well as providing my face pic so they know who to look for.

Meeting for a drink beforehand is a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teddy on the table is a great idea! Yeah drinks first sounds great....ease the nerves a bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a social like this sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22nd is good for us too!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great as I was away for the last one, can always meet one or two people for a drink before hand so we don't arrive on our own with a collection of teddies

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds great as I was away for the last one, can always meet one or two people for a drink before hand so we don't arrive on our own with a collection of teddies

Well if ur going then I'm not hehe *jokes*

At least we will both know someone. Meet u b4 for a wee bit of Dutch courage if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to help with organising.

As for venue it depends whether people want a private function, which obviously has costs and would require the sale of tickets.

Or a private area of somewhere which is what was done last time (and while not a huge space was actually quite nice).

As the organiser of the last one I messaged everyone on the day who'do confirmed with a face pic and description of outfit, but having a teddy or such like somewhere visible is a great idea.

Also sometimes having a theme/dress code can help identify those.

And I'm happy to meet people socially before the day so they'll have a familiar face on the night, any excuse for coffee and cake

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over a year ago

"Happy to help with organising.

As for venue it depends whether people want a private function, which obviously has costs and would require the sale of tickets.

Or a private area of somewhere which is what was done last time (and while not a huge space was actually quite nice).

As the organiser of the last one I messaged everyone on the day who'do confirmed with a face pic and description of outfit, but having a teddy or such like somewhere visible is a great idea.

Also sometimes having a theme/dress code can help identify those.

And I'm happy to meet people socially before the day so they'll have a familiar face on the night, any excuse for coffee and cake

I've not been on a social from this site but organised others from another place. We normally just reserved tables and pretended we were on a birthday/work night out. Nobody ever batted an eyelid and folk were none the wiser

Happy with whatever is decided and will go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to meet for a pre drink as well, il be on my own anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd def be up for a drink in pub first for sure..but I'm not doing any fancy/theme dressing up lol no chance. Just book a few tables somewhere I think n yeah then it just looks likes a works night out )

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Can I pencil my name in please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd def be up for a drink in pub first for sure..but I'm not doing any fancy/theme dressing up lol no chance. Just book a few tables somewhere I think n yeah then it just looks likes a works night out ) "

Ones previously have been black and white and cocktail party rather than full on fancy dress lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds great as I was away for the last one, can always meet one or two people for a drink before hand so we don't arrive on our own with a collection of teddies

Well if ur going then I'm not hehe *jokes*

At least we will both know someone. Meet u b4 for a wee bit of Dutch courage if you want

x "

Sounds good and might help a few fabbers nerves before hand x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thread had slipped onto page 2 so this should put back on page 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be there on 18th March until 25th March so would be very keen for a Scottish social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a small teddy that I've put on the table before so people know which it is, as well as providing my face pic so they know who to look for.

Meeting for a drink beforehand is a good idea

My booby buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will be there on 18th March until 25th March so would be very keen for a Scottish social "

The social that's being planned is April if you were still about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger, I would have gone back by then,

at this rate without any Scottish fun with couples or a bonnie lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there. Pretty new to this all and was really interested in attending this social. Would that be ok if I came along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumping post up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to help with organising.

As for venue it depends whether people want a private function, which obviously has costs and would require the sale of tickets.

Or a private area of somewhere which is what was done last time (and while not a huge space was actually quite nice).

As the organiser of the last one I messaged everyone on the day who'do confirmed with a face pic and description of outfit, but having a teddy or such like somewhere visible is a great idea.

Also sometimes having a theme/dress code can help identify those.

And I'm happy to meet people socially before the day so they'll have a familiar face on the night, any excuse for coffee and cake

I do love coffee and cake. Think I need a trip in to Aberdeen this week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep this post up top )

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Making sure we stay on page one

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

So it's confirmed for 22nd April, yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup far as I know! Saturday 22nd April. Think we just all need to agree somewhere to meet n numbers etc

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Yup far as I know! Saturday 22nd April. Think we just all need to agree somewhere to meet n numbers etc"

You'll never get everyone to agree where to meet. The organiser should collect everyone's details, work out numbers and book somewhere, then text the location to everyone on the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I don't think anyone has taken charge of organising anything per say it's just kinda developed as the thread has had quite a bit of interest. Think someone was asking was there anywhere people didn't want to go. So in terms of location nothings really developed since then.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"See I don't think anyone has taken charge of organising anything per say it's just kinda developed as the thread has had quite a bit of interest. Think someone was asking was there anywhere people didn't want to go. So in terms of location nothings really developed since then. "

Ok, but I don't think advertising the location on the forum is the way to go. I have never been to any social or party that's done that, it's not how I do it either. But each to their own.

Someone at some point will need to take charge and organise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's risky to post location in public forum so needs to be done privately by text etc

Does someone want to start organising??? A couple of folk have said they would so bash on lol

I don't go out in town very often and have this in my calendar so hope it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope this goes ahead but want to get to socials and meet more people. Plus gives me an excuse to get up to Aberdeen for a night or two

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Apologies, I haven't posted in here for a while. It will definitely go ahead and I won't post the venue in here. I'll post a comment when a venue has been booked and anyone wanting to go can pm me for details. Any help would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww now things will get done! Good to see you back )))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies, I haven't posted in here for a while. It will definitely go ahead and I won't post the venue in here. I'll post a comment when a venue has been booked and anyone wanting to go can pm me for details. Any help would be appreciated

X"
Aw glad to hear it's still going ahead

if I lived in Aberdeen I would have gave a hand organising

looking forward to attending!

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By *oanonmyboneMan
over a year ago

maybe close

Keen to head along for the social for a good night and meet some of you

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

You will have to unblock single males ??could you put my name down please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

I can't message you as I took my pics off profile

You're going to need to change profile settings if you're organising this - I know it will be a pain in the ass that you will get unwanted mail

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Count me in please not been at a social in Aberdeen for years.

Squirts xxx

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"You will have to unblock single males ??could you put my name down please "

I haven't blocked single males, it's because you have no photos. I'll message anyone privately who can't message me so they can get past my filters

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Hiya

I can't message you as I took my pics off profile

You're going to need to change profile settings if you're organising this - I know it will be a pain in the ass that you will get unwanted mail

Xx "

Haha, yeah I know, I'll remove my filters whenever there's a venue booked but I'll pm you so you can message me in the meantime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

I can't message you as I took my pics off profile

You're going to need to change profile settings if you're organising this - I know it will be a pain in the ass that you will get unwanted mail

Haha, yeah I know, I'll remove my filters whenever there's a venue booked but I'll pm you so you can message me in the meantime.

Ehm - you won't get past my filters hehe. I will clear females x

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Hiya

I can't message you as I took my pics off profile

You're going to need to change profile settings if you're organising this - I know it will be a pain in the ass that you will get unwanted mail

Haha, yeah I know, I'll remove my filters whenever there's a venue booked but I'll pm you so you can message me in the meantime.

Ehm - you won't get past my filters hehe. I will clear females x "

Haha...bloody filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey everyone this is looking good, theres nothing here in aberdeen it sucks

so id defs be up for a meet if youd have me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back too page 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll come along if I can get away xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump to the top x

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By *picymorgansCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Will be watching out for dates...

The Spicys

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

Think date is set for 22nd of April

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

al be there. could also help organise. being a private function would be so much better in my opinion depending on numbers! also ive got a few venues in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should be able to make it! Never been to a social

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"We should be able to make it! Never been to a social

I haven't either, looking forward to it though. Should be a good laugh if nothing else

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

Hope there are some tasty men going as hubby never kets me wear anything under lol

So whats the dress code ?? Short hubby hopes

I do to as do love a sexy woman now and again

Xxxxx

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By *omefun4twoCouple
over a year ago

oldmeldrum

Should be a great night.... never been to one so adds even more to the unknown

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to this as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see us going really hard to find sum1 to babysit 4 kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump again

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put us down for this please

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By *entlegiantthatsmeMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

I'd love to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to come "

Well if you're going then I'm not lol xxx

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By *ralluv3rMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I am in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am interested x

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Has a date been set yet as i would need to book a hotel

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Has a date been set yet as i would need to book a hotel

Yes, Saturday the 22nd of April for sure. Sorry I haven't posted for a while. It is definitely going ahead

see you all there!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Also...... as expected there seems to be less single females than men showing an interest. I've never been to a group social myself and am meeting up beforehand with a lovely lady from the thread. If any other single females would like to come but don't want to arrive alone, please pm me and we can sort something out

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Thanks Jemima, looking forward to it! I'll most likely be coming with my friend, don't think C will be attending

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Thanks Jemima, looking forward to it! I'll most likely be coming with my friend, don't think C will be attending

That's a shame...but great that you're coming

Looking forward to it. Pm me if you want to meet beforehand for a drink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Jemima, looking forward to it! I'll most likely be coming with my friend, don't think C will be attending

That's a shame C won't be coming along, I'll need to get down to one of your own Socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also...... as expected there seems to be less single females than men showing an interest. I've never been to a group social myself and am meeting up beforehand with a lovely lady from the thread. If any other single females would like to come but don't want to arrive alone, please pm me and we can sort something out

I'm the same I'm happy to meet anyone for a social either leading up to the social or on the day so no one had the daunting task of walking in alone.

How's the venue hunt going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great news that it's all coming together and looking forward to a good blether

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

I'm the same I'm happy to meet anyone for a social either leading up to the social or on the day so no one had the daunting task of walking in alone.

How's the venue hunt going?"

The venue will definitely be city centre for anyone making arrangements and travelling etc. I'll post on the day or the day before and anyone still interested in coming can pm me for the venue details. Looking forward to meeting you all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same I'm happy to meet anyone for a social either leading up to the social or on the day so no one had the daunting task of walking in alone.

How's the venue hunt going?

Haso a venue been booked? If you need a hand or some ideas let me know as it took some planning last time.

Also I did a charity "bitch" raffle last time that worked a treat as an ice breaker and was absolutely hilarious. I'd be happy to help out with similar again if folk wanted x

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