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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless."
might not be much point but they are a good starting point I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people dont like them but i think a wink is a good way to show your interested and if you get a wink back then message.

Would much prefer a wink to a how are you or what are you up to message.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Some people dont like them but i think a wink is a good way to show your interested and if you get a wink back then message.

Would much prefer a wink to a how are you or what are you up to message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of the guy that winks...

I wink back

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I still wink at folk if I'm interested. thw occasional wink back so must still work sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless."

Is it not easier to look at a list of winks than to wade through a deluge of messages? (I wouldn't know about either, personally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I like the look of the guy that winks...

I wink back

"

You only accept winks from site supporters..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only verified can contact me

I don't meet unverified guys so no point?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless."

I don't look at winks. I'd rather have a message. I read my messages and reply even if it's thanks but no thanks.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Some people dont like them but i think a wink is a good way to show your interested and if you get a wink back then message.

Would much prefer a wink to a how are you or what are you up to message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty pointless if you're a guy sending them,or maybe not as a few ladies have said they'll wink back if they like the look of the winker.

I've had a couple of meets that started from a lass sending me a wink......n the end result was a lot more satisfying than a wank!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only verified can contact me

I don't meet unverified guys so no point?"

I'm verified but tried to wink you and it said I couldn't because I wasn't a site supporter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well no clue?

But cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are much maligned. Saves hassle and should just be treated as an initial ice breaker surely.

I hate being tagged lazy if I don't send a tome.

I can do that after contact/ interest has been established

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I still like a wink and to wink back before any messsges are sent.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Only verified can contact me

I don't meet unverified guys so no point?

I'm verified but tried to wink you and it said I couldn't because I wasn't a site supporter."
sometimes its down to age preferences too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless.

Is it not easier to look at a list of winks than to wade through a deluge of messages? (I wouldn't know about either, personally)."

Just stick on some suspenders and you will soon get a few!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless.

Is it not easier to look at a list of winks than to wade through a deluge of messages? (I wouldn't know about either, personally).

Just stick on some suspenders and you will soon get a few!!"

I'm not sure I've got the legs for that!

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I use it as a form of ice-breaker, and I suspect others do too.

I also now take the time to send people a thank you message for Winks, even if they don't meet what I'm after.

Mandy

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am a serial winker. Sometimes i even do it at work. I once done it on the bus

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I am a serial winker. Sometimes i even do it at work. I once done it on the bus "

You wink at everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site supporters are different to verified members though surely?

I send out winks, they rarely attract any attention but its a nice wee way of acknowledging someone's profile and pics.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I am a serial winker. Sometimes i even do it at work. I once done it on the bus

You wink at everyone "

Maybe it's an involuntary twitch or that's their excuse if somebody complains

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I am a serial winker. Sometimes i even do it at work. I once done it on the bus

You wink at everyone

Maybe it's an involuntary twitch or that's their excuse if somebody complains "

No one complains when she winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a serial winker. Sometimes i even do it at work. I once done it on the bus

You wink at everyone

Maybe it's an involuntary twitch or that's their excuse if somebody complains "

Are you suggesting winking tourettes?????

No no no,

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By *ibBethCouple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I like the wink. As others have said its an ice breaker an if we get winks back, we usually message

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

If I get a wink and like the look of the wink-er I will message them x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Nothing wrong with winks ..can be a good icebreaker ..always happy to receive them

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Some people dont like them but i think a wink is a good way to show your interested and if you get a wink back then message.

Would much prefer a wink to a how are you or what are you up to message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Evening Room...My name is Phil and I am a Winker !!!!!!...lol

Seriously though I think the use of the Wink here is a compliment to those you wink at and also at time a nice icebreaker...I wink at profiles I like.

If I actually receive an unsolicited Wink here(and it has actually happened believe it or not...lol)and I am interested in their profile I would at the very least return the Wink or even send a message thanking them for Wink.

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Love winks, on here and in the flesh.. wink away!

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

I like a wink, let's me check out a profile without another meaningless "hi" message in the inbox. I sometimes get wink happy myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people dont like them but i think a wink is a good way to show your interested and if you get a wink back then message.

Would much prefer a wink to a how are you or what are you up to message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rY5whysdxo

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I am a serial winker. Sometimes i even do it at work. I once done it on the bus

You wink at everyone "

Not to me she doesn't

Can't remember my last wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any point to winks?

I've read quite a few posts and it seems alot of women don't read messages so I'd imagine winks are totally pointless."

They are one of the many tools of the site... it's good to have options in my view so I like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people dont like them but i think a wink is a good way to show your interested and if you get a wink back then message.

Would much prefer a wink to a how are

you or what are you up to message."

Totally agree get fed up with the unimaginative hellos a wink is enough to set the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyelids are sore from winking, I'm getting double vision. Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"My eyelids are sore from winking, I'm getting double vision. Lol"
isnt that w*****g?...ops no I got it wrong you go blind from doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been recieving lots of winks since i joined i sent a polite message back and usually end up getting chatting so i think they work well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eyelids are sore from winking, I'm getting double vision. Lolisnt that w*****g?...ops no I got it wrong you go blind from doing that "

Who was that , please come let me put my seeing hands on your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not worry if my seeing hands wander all over your body I'm just getting a feel for the situation. I may have to ask you to move around a bit all in the interest of me seeing you understand.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do not worry if my seeing hands wander all over your body I'm just getting a feel for the situation. I may have to ask you to move around a bit all in the interest of me seeing you understand. "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have winked at loads of folk, left it for a bit as an "icebreaker" then sent a message. Most messages read and deleted, plenty left unread.

Winks are pointless imo

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I like a wink, let's me check out a profile without another meaningless "hi" message in the inbox. I sometimes get wink happy myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll wink back if I like the look of a winker so they are a good icebreaker

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'll wink back if I like the look of a winker so they are a good icebreaker "

Snap. They made the first "move" though, so the wink back is an indication that they should initiate the conversation.

However as previously stated, I do drop a message to someone thanking them for the Wink, if they don't match what I'm looking for, or are lacing something (Facial pics for example).

Mandy

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Been sending winks again this morning

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