FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a random wee post about fab grievances and for fellow fabbers to air their own.

Shall start it off with the random guys that throw dick pics at you on the first message without asking. It's basically modern day flashing lol. Getting that fed up that I think a message filter will soon be implemented.

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By *unninglinguist88Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Don't know why some guys feel the need to do that wait for the ask guys ffs. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people send a face pic with their first message and then ask for one in return!

Just because you chose to send an unsolicited message does not mean i have to reciprocate and being an arse about it wont change my mind!!

Been waiting to get that off my chest for a while.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I sometimes reply to a message if its a good message. It doesn't mean I'm interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes reply to a message if its a good message. It doesn't mean I'm interested. "

I reply to most messages but just because someone chooses to send a face pic with their first message doesnt mean they are getting one back.

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

"When people send a face pic with their first message and then ask for one in return!

Just because you chose to send an unsolicited message does not mean i have to reciprocate and being an arse about it wont change my mind!!

Been waiting to get that off my chest for a while."

Even worse when they DON'T send a face pic but the message reads "got any face pics?" I usually just say "loads" and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tonight I tell a guy twice that he's not what I'm looking for. Third message 'I've got a good feeling about you' and sends his number. Ffs!!!

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By *akenmytimeMan
over a year ago

kirkintilloch

Lol there relentless al give them that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tonight I tell a guy twice that he's not what I'm looking for. Third message 'I've got a good feeling about you' and sends his number. Ffs!!! "

Haha! That's like the cam girls that are always trying to sucker you in on Kik with their automated response bots,it doesn't matter what you type,they answer with the same "Hey that's great,wanna see me shake my ass on cam?" type messages!

I've taken to telling them I'm into necrophilia when they ask what I'm into,n their bots answer away without batting an eyelid!

Except one time when there was a real live cam girl at the other end,she was like.....OMG!!!! Did you actually just say that?!?! For real!

Cam girls can fuck right off with their unsolicited messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or when you say to someone sorry your not my type and they message back asking what it is!? Like they can morph into it suddenly

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

Or when you politely say no thanks to the "fancy a fuck bbe" messages and they reply "why not?". Do you really wanna know?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I deleted the 'why not?' message recently and then had another saying that I'd met male and female friends of his so why wasn't he suitable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cpls have in big bold letters

NOT MEETING SINGLE GUYS!!

Then have about 10 veris from ...single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys get slated for sending boring 1st messages like 'hi' or 'how's you' but couples and single females are just as bad !

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Some couples are a holes, had one couple have a go at me out of the blue because I'm married, fek knows what they thought they were doing but I don't think they or he liked the reply I gave them to the smart arsed message they sent. Told them exactly what I'd do with the pair of them and was quickly blocked lol

So much for the name they use eh mr and mrs whogivesafuck or whatever the pair of you are called. Could tell from their profile they thought they were a little bit special, aye special feking needs.

pair twats lol

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

"Single guys get slated for sending boring 1st messages like 'hi' or 'how's you' but couples and single females are just as bad !"

I'd have to agree with this, I hate seeing single guys get a bad rep when couples and women are also guilty of putting in no effort, its like pulling teeth at times. I mean what are you meant to respond with when all someone says is lol, yes and no in a conversation? All my favourite people here are single men so far, you go guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some couples are a holes, had one couple have a go at me out of the blue because I'm married, fek knows what they thought they were doing but I don't think they or he liked the reply I gave them to the smart arsed message they sent. Told them exactly what I'd do with the pair of them and was quickly blocked lol

So much for the name they use eh mr and mrs whogivesafuck or whatever the pair of you are called. Could tell from their profile they thought they were a little bit special, aye special feking needs.

pair twats lol

Just for clarity, we aren't the couple he is talking about!

Mr and mrs who gives a fuck= twats.

Mrandmrsexploring = great couple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly photos. Why in gods name (and many others) would you put a photo on that shows no effort. No smile, 5 o'clock shadow and more chins than a Chinese telephone book?

c'mon noo people. A wee bit of selfie effort please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugly photos. Why in gods name (and many others) would you put a photo on that shows no effort. No smile, 5 o'clock shadow and more chins than a Chinese telephone book?

c'mon noo people. A wee bit of selfie effort please? "

Hey! That's my best look!

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Just for clarity, we aren't the couple he is talking about!

Mr and mrs who gives a fuck= twats.

Mrandmrsexploring = great couple!!

lol na i canny mind their bloody profile name maybe mrandmrsfucksalot or something from Leven, pretty sure they are still on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ?

Do Couples who seek Couples and Females,pollute their profiles with solely Female pics.?

Surely the Female plays an equal part and not exempt from seeing the Male half pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that send really dark face pics or they have the light right behind them so you can't see their face properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who ask for a face pic on their first meesage, too me that signals a pic collector and time waster right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you receive the same message a few days apart from the same profile and it's identical. Copy and paste messages is like Groundhog Day

Or when they say great profile but haven't even looked :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ?

Do Couples who seek Couples and Females,pollute their profiles with solely Female pics.?

Surely the Female plays an equal part and not exempt from seeing the Male half pics?

That puzzled us as well.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

When they send face pics so small you can't see them.

Pics of cars! Really I don't care what you drive I have a car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the same person keeps looking at your profile over and over again, but doesn't even wink! It's not like I am going to get any less ugly between views! Probably the opposite, in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like."

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Or when they say great profile but haven't even looked :D"

Yep. Keep getting guys under 25 messaging and saying they love our profile. Yet they clearly haven't read it as it says I won't reply to guys under 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission."

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent a cock pic on here and never will. It's up to the girl if she wants to take it further from a first message that includes a dick.

I just don't understand it why guys do it. I'm sure its the sort of meet she is after if she replies

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?"

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

The only ones I don't like is when a single guy has pics that are 20% him and 80% the lady he's with. As he's on as a single man, it's him I want to see, not just a glimpse of his cock or a tiny part of the top of his head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

of course, I didnt actually mean 'you' it was a collective 'you' lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

of course, I didnt actually mean 'you' it was a collective 'you' lol"

No worries

I do feel sorry for single guys sometimes, they do have it really hard on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

of course, I didnt actually mean 'you' it was a collective 'you' lol

No worries

I do feel sorry for single guys sometimes, they do have it really hard on here "

@hard

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

of course, I didnt actually mean 'you' it was a collective 'you' lol

No worries

I do feel sorry for single guys sometimes, they do have it really hard on here

@hard"

My ears pricked up @ hard

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

of course, I didnt actually mean 'you' it was a collective 'you' lol

No worries

I do feel sorry for single guys sometimes, they do have it really hard on here

@hard

My ears pricked up @ hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate and for any reading this. If you have a black shadow ad your avater I do not even open your mail. It's not hard to use a torso pic boxer bum pic anythigh you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate and for any reading this. If you have a black shadow ad your avater I do not even open your mail. It's not hard to use a torso pic boxer bum pic anythigh you wish.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

Sometimes it's less than 20%

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

"My pet hate and for any reading this. If you have a black shadow ad your avater I do not even open your mail. It's not hard to use a torso pic boxer bum pic anythigh you wish.

As a rule I completely agree with this, however one of the hottest funniest guys I've ever come across on here came from a shadow profile, very recently, so I'm all for giving them a chance even though they are lazy bastards for not having a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when people tell me that singles(primarily single men), should not have anyone else in their pics.I see couples with others in their pics..nobody seems to think thats an issue.

anyway, I'll dictate what I do on my profile within the site rules, and others can fuck off/block whatever ya like.

I think it's more that people wonder if you have that person's permission to use photos of them. We have other people in our pics with their permission.

can you prove that? lol...what makes it more allowable that you have other people in your profile than that of a single man posting similar?

I didn't say it did, I was just trying to give you a reason as to why people might say that to you. I also didn't say it was more allowable for couples.

Sometimes it's less than 20%

42 percentages are made up

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By *lockworkcoloursCouple
over a year ago

Fife

Not a dig at anyone in particular, but the "Disclaimer" people put on their profile not giving permission to use images is

a) already covered by this site's Terms of Use and;

b) not really enforceable, unless you WANT to go to court with your photos and claim intellectual property...

I understand no one wants their private photos splashed around the internet without their consent, but in the digital age this will always be a risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a dig at anyone in particular, but the "Disclaimer" people put on their profile not giving permission to use images is

a) already covered by this site's Terms of Use and;

b) not really enforceable, unless you WANT to go to court with your photos and claim intellectual property...

I understand no one wants their private photos splashed around the internet without their consent, but in the digital age this will always be a risk. "

am an anal logue robot

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"My pet hate and for any reading this. If you have a black shadow ad your avater I do not even open your mail. It's not hard to use a torso pic boxer bum pic anythigh you wish.

I don't use a profile pic and I have good reasons for the choice, but it ain't laziness. It means that if I approach someone I have to include photos and work harder on my messages - knowing that 8 times out of 10 they won't even be opened.

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

It might have been mentioned above and I've missed it... but people not realising or understanding we're a couple and no matter how hot you or your parter are, we play equally as a couple...

Oh, and people who repeat things because they've not read the message thread properly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate is people that direct in non directing rooms or ones that keep on asking and asking for meet even when they have been politely told its a no thank you no need for it. being polite costs nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might have been mentioned above and I've missed it... but people not realising or understanding we're a couple and no matter how hot you or your parter are, we play equally as a couple...

Oh, and people who repeat things because they've not read the message thread properly!

fancy a shag..i never read what u said...twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love fab and all these wonderful forums my life my world my everything na but in all honesty each to there own delete, block, read, don't read, dick pic or no pic we're all on here for the same reason to grow old together

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

People who say "Don't just send a one-liner." then don't so much as say "No thanks." when sent considered, articulate and perhaps even witty messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just love fab and all these wonderful forums my life my world my everything na but in all honesty each to there own delete, block, read, don't read, dick pic or no pic we're all on here for the same reason to grow old together

aww shug...will u still bj me when yer 80?...or spitroast my flappy arse gams when am 90?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww shug...will u still bj me when yer 80?...or spitroast my flappy arse gams when am 90?"

you might have to douche for me..it gets difficult with age..I dont mind you using your tongue..I've been eating mainly liquids anyway...no Chewy bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random friends invites

Really grinds my gears

That and guys with umpteen profiles

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