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"The OP knows my opinion on this but I will add that I like to know what a Dom has to offer not what he's gonna take from me 'if I let' him! I am always wary of 'Doms' that say 'I'. Respect, Trust, learning about the other person to know the limits and how to challenge them can only make the experience better and for me worthwhile." | |||
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"The OP knows my opinion on this but I will add that I like to know what a Dom has to offer not what he's gonna take from me 'if I let' him! I am always wary of 'Doms' that say 'I'. Respect, Trust, learning about the other person to know the limits and how to challenge them can only make the experience better and for me worthwhile." This 100% agree% | |||
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"The vibe from you is key. Posts like this won't help you because it deminishes your position. " Precisely. | |||
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"I totally agree with Mrs married adventures most guys/ girls that shout off their mouth about being a dom are nothing more than wannabes it comes from a connection a bond that's built up trust and RESPECT understanding of bdsm, it's a stong passionate thing to explore and needs to be handled with care and a true understanding of each other needs,not all about the physical side but also how to mentally stimulate each others minds.... there are lots of bdsm groups meet ups and info good luck " | |||
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"I totally agree with Mrs married adventures most guys/ girls that shout off their mouth about being a dom are nothing more than wannabes it comes from a connection a bond that's built up trust and RESPECT understanding of bdsm, it's a stong passionate thing to explore and needs to be handled with care and a true understanding of each other needs,not all about the physical side but also how to mentally stimulate each others minds.... there are lots of bdsm groups meet ups and info good luck " Totally agree. Im getting into bdsm a lot recently and the title "dom" doesnt mean that ur incharge. One word from ur sub and its all over I learned at one very quick. | |||
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"I totally agree with Mrs married adventures most guys/ girls that shout off their mouth about being a dom are nothing more than wannabes it comes from a connection a bond that's built up trust and RESPECT understanding of bdsm, it's a stong passionate thing to explore and needs to be handled with care and a true understanding of each other needs,not all about the physical side but also how to mentally stimulate each others minds.... there are lots of bdsm groups meet ups and info good luck Totally agree. Im getting into bdsm a lot recently and the title "dom" doesnt mean that ur incharge. One word from ur sub and its all over I learned at one very quick. " | |||
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"I've always been of the opinion that if someone shouts about being a "dom" then they very rarely are........ " This K x | |||
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"I totally agree with Mrs married adventures most guys/ girls that shout off their mouth about being a dom are nothing more than wannabes it comes from a connection a bond that's built up trust and RESPECT understanding of bdsm, it's a stong passionate thing to explore and needs to be handled with care and a true understanding of each other needs,not all about the physical side but also how to mentally stimulate each others minds.... there are lots of bdsm groups meet ups and info good luck " Totally agree. Im getting into bdsm a lot recently and the title "dom" doesnt mean that ur incharge. One word from ur sub and its all over I learned at one very quick. | |||
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"The vibe from you is key. Posts like this won't help you because it deminishes your position. " | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. " Fiona. And that turns the Dominant in me 'ON' | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. " This And I would add that to me when somebody uses this kind of phrase as an 'opening' line I feel that any hole is a goal and it's all about them using the woman. Now in an established arrangement I liked being 'used' but it's on my terms Add that to your current status OP and it's doubly off putting | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. Fiona. And that turns the Dominant in me 'ON' " Max Mental picture of you squaring up to the OP And in the red corner Madame Max | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. Fiona. And that turns the Dominant in me 'ON' Max Mental picture of you squaring up to the OP And in the red corner Madame Max " Lol MrsD OP looking nervous in his blue shorts hehe | |||
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"We are always looking for another dom type to join us in our play. But true experienced doms on here just don't seem to exist. " | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. Fiona. And that turns the Dominant in me 'ON' " Did I forget to say I'm a bratty sub! | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. Fiona. And that turns the Dominant in me 'ON' Did I forget to say I'm a bratty sub! " Mmmmmmm | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. This And I would add that to me when somebody uses this kind of phrase as an 'opening' line I feel that any hole is a goal and it's all about them using the woman. Now in an established arrangement I liked being 'used' but it's on my terms Add that to your current status OP and it's doubly off putting " I like that you say that it's 'on your terms'. When I played with a Dom it was a gradual build up. He didn't just start tying me up and flogging me. It was a slow process to build trust and learn my boundaries and for him to push them. For guys on here to say they want to humiliate or inflict pain gives no respect or insight as to what the sub wants. We all like different things and need to be treated differently. A good Dom can play with the sub for hours and take them to sub space. A totally amazing feeling to experience. Just a shame good Doms/Dommes are hard to find. | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. This And I would add that to me when somebody uses this kind of phrase as an 'opening' line I feel that any hole is a goal and it's all about them using the woman. Now in an established arrangement I liked being 'used' but it's on my terms Add that to your current status OP and it's doubly off putting I like that you say that it's 'on your terms'. When I played with a Dom it was a gradual build up. He didn't just start tying me up and flogging me. It was a slow process to build trust and learn my boundaries and for him to push them. For guys on here to say they want to humiliate or inflict pain gives no respect or insight as to what the sub wants. We all like different things and need to be treated differently. A good Dom can play with the sub for hours and take them to sub space. A totally amazing feeling to experience. Just a shame good Doms/Dommes are hard to find. " Have got to know a person a little to have a starting point Then trust builds as you explore together | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. This And I would add that to me when somebody uses this kind of phrase as an 'opening' line I feel that any hole is a goal and it's all about them using the woman. Now in an established arrangement I liked being 'used' but it's on my terms Add that to your current status OP and it's doubly off putting I like that you say that it's 'on your terms'. When I played with a Dom it was a gradual build up. He didn't just start tying me up and flogging me. It was a slow process to build trust and learn my boundaries and for him to push them. For guys on here to say they want to humiliate or inflict pain gives no respect or insight as to what the sub wants. We all like different things and need to be treated differently. A good Dom can play with the sub for hours and take them to sub space. A totally amazing feeling to experience. Just a shame good Doms/Dommes are hard to find. " Very hard to find! I get a few first messages with 'am gonna tie you up, flog, spank you etc... and you gonna like it!' Aye right! I had a scar on my butt for 6 months because of a bad (unintentional but still) whip stroke! Yes, with my dark skin, break the pigment and get a scar! I don't play with a Dom without having a chat about that. Same with bruising! Some people are ok with visible bruises and deep ones others not so. Same like spanking or paddling. I had sciatica for a couple days because I was not spanked or may be paddled in the right place! I have learnt from all that! 'I am a Dom' should also be 'I am responsible for my sub's physical and mental well-being'! It's not just 'am gonna get my cake, eat it and go home'. In my opinion anyway. | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. This And I would add that to me when somebody uses this kind of phrase as an 'opening' line I feel that any hole is a goal and it's all about them using the woman. Now in an established arrangement I liked being 'used' but it's on my terms Add that to your current status OP and it's doubly off putting I like that you say that it's 'on your terms'. When I played with a Dom it was a gradual build up. He didn't just start tying me up and flogging me. It was a slow process to build trust and learn my boundaries and for him to push them. For guys on here to say they want to humiliate or inflict pain gives no respect or insight as to what the sub wants. We all like different things and need to be treated differently. A good Dom can play with the sub for hours and take them to sub space. A totally amazing feeling to experience. Just a shame good Doms/Dommes are hard to find. Very hard to find! I get a few first messages with 'am gonna tie you up, flog, spank you etc... and you gonna like it!' Aye right! I had a scar on my butt for 6 months because of a bad (unintentional but still) whip stroke! Yes, with my dark skin, break the pigment and get a scar! I don't play with a Dom without having a chat about that. Same with bruising! Some people are ok with visible bruises and deep ones others not so. Same like spanking or paddling. I had sciatica for a couple days because I was not spanked or may be paddled in the right place! I have learnt from all that! 'I am a Dom' should also be 'I am responsible for my sub's physical and mental well-being'! It's not just 'am gonna get my cake, eat it and go home'. In my opinion anyway. " Always this | |||
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" As above if a Dom says he wants to do x, y and z then. I'm instantly put off. This And I would add that to me when somebody uses this kind of phrase as an 'opening' line I feel that any hole is a goal and it's all about them using the woman. Now in an established arrangement I liked being 'used' but it's on my terms Add that to your current status OP and it's doubly off putting I like that you say that it's 'on your terms'. When I played with a Dom it was a gradual build up. He didn't just start tying me up and flogging me. It was a slow process to build trust and learn my boundaries and for him to push them. For guys on here to say they want to humiliate or inflict pain gives no respect or insight as to what the sub wants. We all like different things and need to be treated differently. A good Dom can play with the sub for hours and take them to sub space. A totally amazing feeling to experience. Just a shame good Doms/Dommes are hard to find. Very hard to find! I get a few first messages with 'am gonna tie you up, flog, spank you etc... and you gonna like it!' Aye right! I had a scar on my butt for 6 months because of a bad (unintentional but still) whip stroke! Yes, with my dark skin, break the pigment and get a scar! I don't play with a Dom without having a chat about that. Same with bruising! Some people are ok with visible bruises and deep ones others not so. Same like spanking or paddling. I had sciatica for a couple days because I was not spanked or may be paddled in the right place! I have learnt from all that! 'I am a Dom' should also be 'I am responsible for my sub's physical and mental well-being'! It's not just 'am gonna get my cake, eat it and go home'. In my opinion anyway. Always this " Absolutely 'THIS' | |||
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"Totally agree with Maxx. I trusted the Dom I played with implicitly. I knew he was always keeping a watch on me to ensure I was ok. Think that's why I find it difficult to find someone else with that experience. " Fingers crossed you do Fiona | |||
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"Right so im looking to be someones master !! Tie them up, humiliate them dp them treat them if there being good, punish them if there not. But i get the vibe most girls arent into this on fab. Am i correct or is just the right girls not getting in touch !! " I wouldn't go near you with someone else's! I've not read your profile... deliberately mostly because I wanted to respond from my first impression of your post but I'm guessing you're young, at least ten years my junior. Your wording screams inexperience and lacking in the knowledge of what makes a D/s relationship work on any level. It's not about most girls not being into this on fab, there's a massive percentage of women looking for a dominant male but you don't just suddenly become someone's Master. Getting to know a woman with a view to her submitting to you takes a whole lot more trust than you are capable of at the moment. If you're really serious then do some homework and learn about the dynamics involved. I'm off to read your profile now. Just for my own amusement. | |||
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