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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is hard work!

For single guys I reckon a bar or club is easier than fab

Discuss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you expect it to be easy because it is a swingers site.

You get out what you put in and can be worth it in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is hard work!

For single guys I reckon a bar or club is easier than fab

Discuss! "

discuss what dont understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard work ? Not really , humphing heavy things about all day is hard work .

The way i see it , first impressions are important whether its with a message or face to face . Some find clubs/bars 'easier' with body language , smiles , expressions etc . Others might not be as confident in that environment so being able to communicate without being nervous or tongue tied is 'easier' for them .

Personally i think its not so different , if your dull or unimaginative or just plain crude its not likely to be endearing , after all we all just like to add some fun to our lives dont we ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I guess the fact alcohol is less like to come in to play here where as at a club or pub people are drinking and having a fun time which in line drops any ihabitions and makes people do things they wouldnt normaly do ie take people home for random shags .

Most women and couples (not all )are here looking for frindship with people they can become swingers with too where as most(not all)men are just looking for a shag nothing more nothing less so totaly diffrent from a club/pub enviroment .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See the message timewasters again. Thats what makes it hard work for decent singles and couples on the site. Makes going to a club a bit more appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you expect it to be easy because it is a swingers site.

You get out what you put in and can be worth it in the end."

'You get out what you put in' pardon the pun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be a member of another site for years and if anywhere in what you had on in your profile or said in chat gave off the impression you were dissilusioned with the scene or the site,it automatically put folks off.

The forums are peppered with "why is it" "why cant i", "what do you have to do" and credit to all who take the time out to offer up little pointers,its what makes this site fab.

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By *l coupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Having said that the fact that the OP treats fab just the same as trying to pull in a pub means theres no hope for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting stuff. Just shows how careful you need to be with text. It is so easily misinterpreted

Just for a bit more Sunday fun (and please don't be offended)

How many people here met (better not say pulled) in a club or bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met to then go on to become swingers?

Or you just want to know who has met someone in a pub or club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard work ? Not really , humphing heavy things about all day is hard work .

The way i see it , first impressions are important whether its with a message or face to face . Some find clubs/bars 'easier' with body language , smiles , expressions etc . Others might not be as confident in that environment so being able to communicate without being nervous or tongue tied is 'easier' for them .

Personally i think its not so different , if your dull or unimaginative or just plain crude its not likely to be endearing , after all we all just like to add some fun to our lives dont we ?

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spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going to make this my last post.

I do take my time to read profiles and write interesting messages ( well u think so )

But it's amazing how often people delete or appear to ignore when a simple no thanks or no Ta ( even less typing ha ha ) would do

Anyway off to see if Andy m is on yet

Have safe fun one and all

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