FabSwingers.com forum: Domination

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm quite liking the idea of being dominated but, not having been dominated before, am not sure how I would react.

Kind of worried about bursting into giggles, or being made to feel really small and starting to cry.

Anyone have any experiences they could share?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a good experienced domme is the best advice I could give you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did someone call?????? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to domination you probably need to have an idea of what you want to get out of it. I have dominated a few guys, not claiming to be an expert here. It can be a lot of fun if you know what you are doing otherwise it can be a disaster.

I met one guy who I shan't name, but he had no idea what he was doing. He ended up licking my shoes and saying he wanted me to slap him in the face. It was just wierd. I ended up just asking him to leave.

On the other hand I have met a couple of guys on here and it's been brilliant. Just sat myself on their face and whispered things into their ear and that seemed to work wonders.

There was one guy i did some very dirty things with, but we both knew each other well and knew each others limits. I think that was probably the most success I have had with dominating x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ha ha, that's what i'm most concerned about, being servile sounds good to me but I wouldn't want to come across as an idiot!

shoes....... Slap in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, think the first thing you should do is a wee list of your limits deffinate no no's that are not to happen. Once you have that then look for a good Domme remember always have a safe word and a signal but remember that trust is a big thing in bdsm once you have that with your Domme then the fun will begin ...

tc n have fun sublime xxx

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By *lirtyCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Just remember there are all sorts of domination, do your research first would be my advice!!! Get on the internet, trawl the sites and look at the vids available. The things you laugh at are probably not for you.

And remember it's all about trust. There are alot of selfish people out there who will put their needs first.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

Off to hit the books as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could have just 5 mins with the domme in the new Bruno movie at the part when he attends the swingers party. My idea of heaven.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"I'm quite liking the idea of being dominated but, not having been dominated before, am not sure how I would react.

Kind of worried about bursting into giggles, or being made to feel really small and starting to cry.

Anyone have any experiences they could share?

There's quite a few BDSM clubs in the central belt. They're often on the lookout for fresh meat

Get yourself a memorable safe word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh aye! I should have said, come to Violate!! It's in glasgow, first saturday of the month. Lots of fun, naked ladies and corsets galore. I like it! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would echo what everyone else has said, dont accept the first guy or gal that wants to be your dom/me without having even met you - chances are they dont know what they're talking about. Look into some good uk bdsm websites (lots of US ones are full of crap!)

Trust is the most important thing, do everything safely as you would anyway, communication is the most important thing. Some people like to just play dom/sub in play sessions others want the whole 24/7 mindset. Know what you want from it and remember a good dom will never make you feel stupid or make you do something you regret.

Most importantly, remember the sub is always the one in control at the end of the day - safe words and actions are the best bit of advice to listen to

Good luck and enjoy.

Busty n Lusty xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks again everyone

Good advise and I will definately consider some of the sites and clubs!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"Oh aye! I should have said, come to Violate!! It's in glasgow, first saturday of the month. Lots of fun, naked ladies and corsets galore. I like it! xx"

Violate's a busy club and, as you say, has lots of fun, naked ladies and corsets galore - it's not, however, particularly newbie friendly. It's not wholly Violate's fault. The current venue would be ideal for about half the usual attendance. It simply doesn't have the space to facilitate the aspirations of newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its no 4 me an wat annoys me is when it go's on in chat theres a time an place 4 it an it aint in chat..so plz keep in 4 ur own pvt use xxx

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

there are a few clubs -violate being the most popular . tho bussy it is a good cub and if you go dont stand in the corner with your jaw on the floor just talk to folk and you might get ideas of what you want to try . you might be asked to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd wanted to be dominated..... I'd have stayed married! lol

Mr.C xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not trying to fly a huge flag for Violate, and it could be I was more welcomed because I was female but I have found it to be very stimulating.

I have been both dominated and dominated other people. It's a safe environment as there are bouncers around and i found the fact that I was (sorta) at someones mercy in front of a room full of strangers rather exciting.

Even if you didn't want to take part you might get some ideas! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do dom/sub very well...... would deck the bloke if he tried lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think with the sub/dom thing its finding someone you are comfortable with and someone you trust.....there has to be a sexual chemisty there also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't do dom/sub very well...... would deck the bloke if he tried lmao

**** Pops open the dictionary to check " DOM " *****

Laine

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