FabSwingers.com forum: First swinging experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What was your first swinging experience and how did it go for you

Mines was many many years ago in the dim past I was only 18 I answered a add in a contact mag and got a invite to a party with a lovely couple they looked after me and got say was a great fun night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman drove from Perth to meet me, we shagged then she left. If was pretty disappointing to be fair, but hasn't put me off.

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Arranged to meet a lady in a hotel having never met before. We drank wine and fucked long and hard twice leaving a soaking wet bed behind. Had a lot of 1:1 and group fun with her for years after

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Assuming that dogging doesn't count, then it would be 4 years ago after we'd just joined here. We went to the Aberdeen club and I played with a single guy, then we joined him and 2 other guys in the pedestal room, then went from there into the dark room and joined in the orgy. A pretty successful night

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

The Blue Velvet parties.

Met the organisers through the Glasgow social years ago.

Those were good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year ago after chatting on here for a week or two I visited a fabbers house for a meet.

It was ok if I'm honest. Had both better and worse meets since!

She is still on here and is a good lass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming that dogging doesn't count, then it would be 4 years ago after we'd just joined here. We went to the Aberdeen club and I played with a single guy, then we joined him and 2 other guys in the pedestal room, then went from there into the dark room and joined in the orgy. A pretty successful night

Talk about in at the deep end

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Talk about in at the deep end

Haha, just a bit! He's had years of experience but I was a newbie. We joined the site, went out dogging twice, then went to the club and haven't looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A visit to the club in Aberdeen that was a bit of a disaster.

Having someone watching and laughing as you have sex is ever so slightly off putting.

Luckily it didn't put me off swinging or the club and it's only improved since then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still to have mine ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was back in the days of Chatlines, where I got chatting to a couple, and aftera brief to & fro, we met in a car park, chatted face to face, and went back to mine. After a bit of getting to know each other, the wife and I repaired to the bedroom for some fun, while hubby stayed in the living room. After a bit, he came through to watch, and while I was otherwise occupied, he stripped off, and had a wank. Not long after,he came up behind me, and tried to push his cock in my arse! That hadn't been part of the deal, so things very quickly fell apart, as neither his mrs nor I were very happy. She didn't know he liked ass or cock, so I reckon that would have been a frosty drive home! I learned a lot that night, and never met them again. It didn't put me off meeting, but it did teach me to set the ground rules after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in Glasgow on 17th March booked in to cjs for my 1st time I am looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Separate room swap in a GC club with a couple we met on Fab who just happened to be staying in the same hotel as us. Straight in at the deep end! Separate room swapping wasn't on our list of to-do's then, especially as our first time, but it may we'll be now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was back in the days of Chatlines, where I got chatting to a couple, and aftera brief to & fro, we met in a car park, chatted face to face, and went back to mine. After a bit of getting to know each other, the wife and I repaired to the bedroom for some fun, while hubby stayed in the living room. After a bit, he came through to watch, and while I was otherwise occupied, he stripped off, and had a wank. Not long after,he came up behind me, and tried to push his cock in my arse! That hadn't been part of the deal, so things very quickly fell apart, as neither his mrs nor I were very happy. She didn't know he liked ass or cock, so I reckon that would have been a frosty drive home! I learned a lot that night, and never met them again. It didn't put me off meeting, but it did teach me to set the ground rules after that."

Fucking hell!

That's a bit of a shocker for a first meet!

Bet you made sure your back was to the wall for a good while when meeting couples after that!

Fair play though,a lot of people would've been put off for life after a first meet like that!

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

Met via another swinging site. I had arranged a first meet in pub socially with couple. It was made clear that it was unlikely to be sex on first meet.

Within a half hour of chatting, I was invited back to thiers, to watch, not swap.

Within a few minutes I was watching and wanking on a chair at the foot of the bed. She asked me over for a BJ, and I soon joined them for a couple of hours of enjoyment.

I really enjoyed it, and since then have been fed up of normal dating and partners who just don't enjoy themselves in bed as much - and keep finding myself back on here for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell!

That's a bit of a shocker for a first meet!

Bet you made sure your back was to the wall for a good while when meeting couples after that!

Fair play though,a lot of people would've been put off for life after a first meet like that!"

That reply made me laugh!

In all y many years since, nothing like it has ever happened again, so it probably means I'm long overdue another "surprise"!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Social, was nervous but it went well and we are still friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get there some day

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Not really sure that it counts as swinging, but I met Jugs on here (both as singles) and I've never looked back or been happier. Can't imagine my life without her now.

Jim

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Talk about in at the deep end

Hey there. It would be nice to see you some time xx

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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago

Aviemore and regularly visit Glasgow

21 years old, chatted to a couple for a good year on here and eventually organised to meet them in a hotel in Inverness.

I was a nervous wreck on the day it was going to happen and I almost didn't go through with it.

Met the husband in the bar and then headed up to their room where his wife was waiting in some gorgeous lingerie, she was absolutely stunning and at that very moment I knew I had hit the jackpot.

It was a fantastic night and they were amazing people, I was totally in awe of how they were obviously madly in love with each other but could still enjoy sex with other people without so much of a hint of jealousy.

It was a really liberating experience and it totally changed my outlook on love and life.

Here I am 6 or so years later in the most amazing relationship with a stunning, funny and intelligent lady that I met at a swingers club. The kind of relationship where we can be totally open about our fantasies and desires.

Unfortunately the couple are no longer on fab and their email address no longer exists, sometimes wish I could get in touch with them again and thank them.

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still trying to get mine

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

"21 years old, chatted to a couple for a good year on here and eventually organised to meet them in a hotel in Inverness.

I was a nervous wreck on the day it was going to happen and I almost didn't go through with it.

Met the husband in the bar and then headed up to their room where his wife was waiting in some gorgeous lingerie, she was absolutely stunning and at that very moment I knew I had hit the jackpot.

It was a really liberating experience and it totally changed my outlook on love and life.

Unfortunately the couple are no longer on fab and their email address no longer exists, sometimes wish I could get in touch with them again and thank them.

D x"

Quality, positive story. Thanks for sharing.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Still waiting for that elusive opportunity to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be the Village hotel Thursday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jonny Foxes, Inverness.

Over a decade ago.

Standing at the bar getting a reuniting and this guy standing next to me asbestos I'd like to have a play with his wife.

Had to give myself a moment or two to process what I'd just heard.

Went outside for a cigarette later and said wife came out and put it a little more bluntly.

An offer I couldn't refuse.

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'll report back when a woman doesn't stand me up again

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ashamed to say mine was a ' fancy a fuck ' message on here years ago .

Status went up and i messaged as was working in the area . She said yeah fuck it why not and so it happened . Ended up having mmf mff mfmf experiences with her over a period of time . That gave me the courage to attend a social arranged on here over in fife . Which in turn led to my first real swinging experience of a party . 4 girls and 5 guys . Stine cold sober as well . Quite an eye opener . Had mostly meets with single ladies since then

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place."

Is that not just pulling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place.

Is that not just pulling? "

No it was an arranged meet, we meet off here.

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place.

Is that not just pulling?

No it was an arranged meet, we meet off here."

So, how would you define "swinging"

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By *azinga84Man
over a year ago

Kilwinning

Via a different site, I drove down to St Helens. I was staying in Carlisle so not quite as far...

Got there and she was in a robe with bra and panties underneath. Walked in the door dropped my coat and we started kissing, before she led me straight to the bedroom and she dropped the robe showing off her tattoos and her wonderful breasts. She had my cock in her mouth before I'd finished introducing myself.

We fucked twice that night and watched some really bad comedy horror as we spooned and drank quite a bit of beer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place.

Is that not just pulling?

No it was an arranged meet, we meet off here.

So, how would you define "swinging""

She was married and he knew what she was upto.

I cant be bothered getting into a debate about the semantics of the word swinging to be honest.

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place.

Is that not just pulling?

No it was an arranged meet, we meet off here.

So, how would you define "swinging"

She was married and he knew what she was upto.

I cant be bothered getting into a debate about the semantics of the word swinging to be honest."

I'm not having a go at you, but to me, that's not swinging, or am I wrong? I'm genuinely asking the question...

What defines "swinging"?....

So if you met her off a different site, dating site for example, that would still be swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met a woman off here in the bar of a glasgow hotel, had a few drinks and a good chat about all sorts of stuff then as she ran her foot up my leg she asked if i wanted to join her upstairs.

It is still one of my best meets and was an ideal introduction to this weird and wonderful place.

Is that not just pulling?

No it was an arranged meet, we meet off here.

So, how would you define "swinging"

She was married and he knew what she was upto.

I cant be bothered getting into a debate about the semantics of the word swinging to be honest.

I'm not having a go at you, but to me, that's not swinging, or am I wrong? I'm genuinely asking the question...

What defines "swinging"?....

So if you met her off a different site, dating site for example, that would still be swinging? "

I dont know.

I met a married woman in a hotel and we fucked a couple of times while her husband knew what what happening.

Maybe they were swinging and I wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What defines "swinging"?....

The Oxford English Dictionary says:

"1.1 Sexually liberated or promiscuous."

I'd say that that leaves the meaning open to personal interpretation.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Great that the fab police are making use there is no un authentic activities

Our first meeting was a sexy seperate room with a great engaged (now married) couples. We were really into each other's partners. But had never swapped before. We thought it wasn't going to happen but then we played a kinky board game and the sex kicked off with JB sucking the guys cock as I touched and kissed his partner. Red hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In St Mary Street hotel. I was 21 she was 29 he was 49 n took pics.. was her bday and she was unbelievable. .. still not matched it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was great had fun then she left went to pub had a few drinks chatted up a burd took her home and had fun with her to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got invited over to a rich Asian's penthouse apartment in Edinburgh - I stayed in Glasgow at the time.

Dressed very sexily (stockings, small lace panties, cheerleader outfit, killer heels) under a large overcoat.

I get on the train and my therapist and her spouse sit across from me. We didn't exchange a word the entire time!

The meet itself was horny and lube-filled and everything you could wish for!

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By *tew1985Man
over a year ago

Near You

My very first meet was from Fab. I had created a profile on here and logged on for a month or so but didn't manage to arrange any meets. After about 3 months of not using the site I logged on and started messeging a VERY local couple. We exchanged less than 10 messeges and then the hubby comes out with " The Mrs is tied to the bed, do you want to come and fuck her". I got myself showered and off I went. True to his word his wife was tied to the bed. 4hrs later the 3 of collapsed in a heap and exhausted. What a night.

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Naked holiday in Cape D Adge

Happend by accident on the beach, very good then on the balcony a couple of mornings . Came home looked it up and 10 odd years later atill here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd been using a worldwide site for camming, I did meet a few people from it,and had sex on cam with a few, but it was single women.Then joined the other big swinging site,where I fingered the female half of a couple against a wall in a social(terrible I know), I knew her man was watching.

I'd say the after party was when I found out I could have sex with another man present and naked(me and two couples).

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By *gag001Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ours was 27 years ago when you had to write letters to arrange a meet! Still having fun with someone we met then!

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