FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking Newbies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I finally snapped tonight and blocked newbies having had just a dozen dick picks too many!!!

Does anybody know how long you have to be a member before you're no longer considered a newbie? Thanks peeps!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a month or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week

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By *onniemMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

Still feel like one

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think it's a week. It takes a week before you can post in the forum.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd say you're a Newbie until you have your first In-Person Verification.

But that is just my opinion.

Mandy

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone was a newbie at one point.

I don't mind them at all. We've all got to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have

Don't meet anyone that's not verified no point

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

According to the system it's 5 days, a week before you can post in the forum. I find blocking the newbies a handy tool as the vast majority are fakes or people just having a nosy after a few drinks, especially at the weekend

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Its 5 days ONLY

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"According to the system it's 5 days, a week before you can post in the forum. I find blocking the newbies a handy tool as the vast majority are fakes or people just having a nosy after a few drinks, especially at the weekend "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you ladies and you're so right about the fakes and the tipsy ones

I know we all started off somewhere but by jings it's been hard work this weekend with them!!!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Us guys dont need to block them we dont get bombarded with crap lol but can understand why women do ..i would if i was a fem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure you'd soon get fed up of getting inundated by pix of vag's displayed as if no other lady in the world has one

Just getting weary of the dick pix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure you'd soon get fed up of getting inundated by pix of vag's displayed as if no other lady in the world has one

Just getting weary of the dick pix

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I'm pretty sure you'd soon get fed up of getting inundated by pix of vag's displayed as if no other lady in the world has one

Just getting weary of the dick pix

Most probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As somebody who has to peer up said vag's for a living believe me you soon get very very bored with them

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

What if you are a returning newbie?

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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

There is an option to tick in a search for new in the last 5 days

But I think newbie is a pretty broad term for a range of early mistakes

For me it was probably a good few months and a few trips to cj's before I learned the ropes

And my fab friends will tell you I still have a habit of putting my foot in lol

Hence why I don't comment in the forum to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us guys dont need to block them we dont get bombarded with crap lol but can understand why women do ..i would if i was a fem

Agreed

Some of us guys, hardly get any messages and if we do, we don't open if for a few days so that every time we log in, we can see a new message waiting, so I've been told by a few guys

Right I'm away to check the 287 messages I've had this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I may have just got rid of my newbie status.

It's annoying when you are genuine and always intend on attaching face pics to anyone you try to contact.

I will always send a face pic when messaging!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Us guys dont need to block them we dont get bombarded with crap lol but can understand why women do ..i would if i was a fem

Agreed

Some of us guys, hardly get any messages and if we do, we don't open if for a few days so that every time we log in, we can see a new message waiting, so I've been told by a few guys

Right I'm away to check the 287 messages I've had this morning

Maybe we should start a fab buddy system. Just so nobody feels left out and unloved

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By *oon-lightWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Everyone was a newbie at one point.

I don't mind them at all. We've all got to start somewhere. "

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By *oon-lightWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

We all have been new to start with !!! so at least one chance would be fair at the end of the day to a newbie folks that's how we got our first verification some one gave us the chance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe the superior airs and graces on this strand ... Most newbies are such because the site is overwhelmingly male, and almost a caste system operates. That's my take, and yes, I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody got to have a starting point even dickheads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us guys dont need to block them we dont get bombarded with crap lol but can understand why women do ..i would if i was a fem

Agreed

Some of us guys, hardly get any messages and if we do, we don't open if for a few days so that every time we log in, we can see a new message waiting, so I've been told by a few guys

Right I'm away to check the 287 messages I've had this morning

Maybe we should start a fab buddy system. Just so nobody feels left out and unloved

Will you be my fab buddy?

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

i find the vast majority of members that start a dialogue, then dissapear from the site in mid convo are newbies...

hence their blocked..

the genuine members will stick around and message once they been on long enough to pass the filters.... the ones who dont/wont?..... well, i dinna really care if this displeases them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everybody got to have a starting point even dickheads "

We should have a newbies filter, then a dickheads filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a dickhead filter. It's called the block button.

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I finally snapped tonight and blocked newbies having had just a dozen dick picks too many!!!

Does anybody know how long you have to be a member before you're no longer considered a newbie? Thanks peeps!! "

7 days lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us guys dont need to block them we dont get bombarded with crap lol but can understand why women do ..i would if i was a fem

You'd be surprised

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"i find the vast majority of members that start a dialogue, then dissapear from the site in mid convo are newbies...

hence their blocked..

the genuine members will stick around and message once they been on long enough to pass the filters.... the ones who dont/wont?..... well, i dinna really care if this displeases them

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All valid points. Don't think there's a caste system at all. I'm just fed up of guys disappearing mid conversation too.

Yesterday I watched a guy view my profile 3 times all with different profile names only a few hours old. Why? Idiot. That's why I put it on in the first place.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Was thinking of this thread when we got a message last night from a new couple. Pics on the profile looked a bit suspect so we followed our usual policy of leaving it for a bit before we decided to reply and sure enough they're gone this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All valid points. Don't think there's a caste system at all. I'm just fed up of guys disappearing mid conversation too.

Yesterday I watched a guy view my profile 3 times all with different profile names only a few hours old. Why? Idiot. That's why I put it on in the first place. "

Just your age range stops me

sometimes the genuine ones just cant catch a break lolx x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All valid points. Don't think there's a caste system at all. I'm just fed up of guys disappearing mid conversation too.

Yesterday I watched a guy view my profile 3 times all with different profile names only a few hours old. Why? Idiot. That's why I put it on in the first place.

Just your age range stops me

sometimes the genuine ones just cant catch a break lolx x"

The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All valid points. Don't think there's a caste system at all. I'm just fed up of guys disappearing mid conversation too.

Yesterday I watched a guy view my profile 3 times all with different profile names only a few hours old. Why? Idiot. That's why I put it on in the first place.

Just your age range stops me

sometimes the genuine ones just cant catch a break lolx x

The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

I'm out your age range at the other end, and while I'm sure there are women on here of my age, they are mostly sidelined getting hip replacements!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Av got a tendancy that even if newbie even views mu profile i block them then check so see if there virifyed of put pics up in couple of day's had run in with stalker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

I'm out your age range at the other end, and while I'm sure there are women on here of my age, they are mostly sidelined getting hip replacements!"

Hip replacements?

ya cheeky young whippersnapper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have a newbi section where a newbi got to meet a newbi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

I'm out your age range at the other end, and while I'm sure there are women on here of my age, they are mostly sidelined getting hip replacements!"

Older the fiddle the better the tune. Except I cannae play the fiddle due to elbow surgery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy with just getting a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

I'm out your age range at the other end, and while I'm sure there are women on here of my age, they are mostly sidelined getting hip replacements!

Older the fiddle the better the tune. Except I cannae play the fiddle due to elbow surgery

You leave the fiddling to me.

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Id be happy with just getting a message

The old captain?

Message what that then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

I'm out your age range at the other end, and while I'm sure there are women on here of my age, they are mostly sidelined getting hip replacements!

Older the fiddle the better the tune. Except I cannae play the fiddle due to elbow surgery

You leave the fiddling to me.

You just fiddle away then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

I'm out your age range at the other end, and while I'm sure there are women on here of my age, they are mostly sidelined getting hip replacements!

Older the fiddle the better the tune. Except I cannae play the fiddle due to elbow surgery

You leave the fiddling to me.

You just fiddle away then!!!"

I don't do solo fiddle!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hear Nicola Benedettis on tour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear Nicola Benedettis on tour

Ooft! Ah wid,tae!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe she would too lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All valid points. Don't think there's a caste system at all. I'm just fed up of guys disappearing mid conversation too.

Yesterday I watched a guy view my profile 3 times all with different profile names only a few hours old. Why? Idiot. That's why I put it on in the first place.

Just your age range stops me

sometimes the genuine ones just cant catch a break lolx x

The age filter matters to me. I prefer guys around my own age. I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty lads and lassies nearer your own age to play with

Haha sadly not, just the ones that vanish the next day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Block the newbies then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block the newbies then lol "

If only i were a few years older

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And not bi

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