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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do they have to make swinging seem seedy in the news papers. I get that the young guy is missing and he was on this site but he met his current partner on another site and dating site of which isn't mentioned. So they'll publicly humiliate this one ! Why? Aw aye cuz it's the worst paper and articles are probably written by a 12 year old.

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By *ackan1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know I see it also. Now a lot of people will be joining fab and doing research.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I don't buy newspapers! Full of shite!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not fair for the poor lad or his gf.

But I think We should have an heir of superiority about us.

Whether we like it or not, we live in a sexually conservative world. The tabloids write about this because your average punter isn't brave enough. Not because they are disgusted or outraged. They are turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not fair for the poor lad or his gf.

But I think We should have an heir of superiority about us.

Whether we like it or not, we live in a sexually conservative world. The tabloids write about this because your average punter isn't brave enough. Not because they are disgusted or outraged. They are turned on "

perhaps its more about selling papers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is. And emotional responses sell papers... our emotional response should be pride. We are brave enough to live out our sexual fantasies.

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Of course it is. And emotional responses sell papers... our emotional response should be pride. We are brave enough to live out our sexual fantasies. "

But im not brave enough to have family members or colleagues scrolling through here and finding me.... so into hiding I go for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I see it also. Now a lot of people will be joining fab and doing research.

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Time to hide all face pics again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course it is. And emotional responses sell papers... our emotional response should be pride. We are brave enough to live out our sexual fantasies.

But im not brave enough to have family members or colleagues scrolling through here and finding me.... so into hiding I go for a while "

I came across my fathers profile on adult friend finder once.

I assure that was not a pleasant experience. But we are what we are and attraction to our desires come from the chemicals in our brains. As long as it's legal and doesn't harm others why should it matter what we do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers Pride!

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Of course it is. And emotional responses sell papers... our emotional response should be pride. We are brave enough to live out our sexual fantasies.

But im not brave enough to have family members or colleagues scrolling through here and finding me.... so into hiding I go for a while

I came across my fathers profile on adult friend finder once.

I assure that was not a pleasant experience. But we are what we are and attraction to our desires come from the chemicals in our brains. As long as it's legal and doesn't harm others why should it matter what we do x

"

Well I'd hate for my dad to see my profile or ugly mug pic....

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By *onest gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"One of the reasons I don't buy newspapers! Full of shite!!!"

Tabloid propaganda never read papers or watch the news As they only tell you what they want you too believe and most people usually believe the papers or TV

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Not once did the article I read in the daily record say a bad word regarding swinging.

Also by mentioning the site might make someone come forward with information regarding his whereabouts.

Hope they find him safe and well.

Anyway fuck the haters swinging is awesome

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll be fleeing from fab in their droves !

Personally I don't buy papers , or watch tv unless it's a Independant platform exposing the establishment , keeps my mind clear ready for the revolution lol

I'm a liar infact , I watch Geordie shore for a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not once did the article I read in the daily record say a bad word regarding swinging.

Also by mentioning the site might make someone come forward with information regarding his whereabouts.

Hope they find him safe and well.

Anyway fuck the haters swinging is awesome

D "

Agree with all of your comments!they did not paint it in a bad light, brief factual mention of it, more important to family he is found x

However I would be mortified if my family found out :/

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course it is. And emotional responses sell papers... our emotional response should be pride. We are brave enough to live out our sexual fantasies.

But im not brave enough to have family members or colleagues scrolling through here and finding me.... so into hiding I go for a while

I came across my fathers profile on adult friend finder once.

I assure that was not a pleasant experience. But we are what we are and attraction to our desires come from the chemicals in our brains. As long as it's legal and doesn't harm others why should it matter what we do x

Well I'd hate for my dad to see my profile or ugly mug pic.... "

I strongly agree neither do I but if he does lol sheet happens

I'm certainly not ashamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as bad publicity..... maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not once did the article I read in the daily record say a bad word regarding swinging.

Also by mentioning the site might make someone come forward with information regarding his whereabouts.

Hope they find him safe and well.

Anyway fuck the haters swinging is awesome

D "

They don't need to paint it in a bad light it's still frowned upon my grandparents think it's in the same line as pedophiles. That's just the perception of others.

Listen closely to the vanilla chit chat about it.. you'll soon see. Especially 70+ age groups. I find it mildly amusing the perspective of other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sun online used the word SEEDY

But this is a paper who helped cover up the truth about the Hillsborough disaster

Scumbags

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Let others judge.

Brave of his gf to admit it, the most important thing is the search for this missing guy so the police need to follow every lead.

Haters gonna hate, there are still so many misconceptions and judgements about this lifestyle

I hope they find him safe

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I know some of corries family and reading the article pissed me off but in all fairness the daily mail didn't say anything negative about the site.

What pissed me off is that unless they're using the site to follow a positive line of enquiry then there's 100% no need to mention that aspect of his life - they've just done it because people will go "oooooh" and "ahhhhh" as swinging isn't the norm to most people/isn't something they'd hear about in their day to day lives.

That being said I 100% agree that if it's found the last thing he was doing was meeting someone off here (which I'm not saying it was) then the newspaper article might prompt them to talk to the police if he's mentioned anything to them that may have caused concern.

His mums known about his involvement in the site since early on and has had access to all his dating profiles etc so it's not like it's something seedy that they didn't know about, to me she's been really good about the whole thing in coming out and saying that he's a young lad and liked to enjoy himself which is why he was on the site

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I know some of corries family and reading the article pissed me off but in all fairness the daily mail didn't say anything negative about the site.

What pissed me off is that unless they're using the site to follow a positive line of enquiry then there's 100% no need to mention that aspect of his life - they've just done it because people will go "oooooh" and "ahhhhh" as swinging isn't the norm to most people/isn't something they'd hear about in their day to day lives.

That being said I 100% agree that if it's found the last thing he was doing was meeting someone off here (which I'm not saying it was) then the newspaper article might prompt them to talk to the police if he's mentioned anything to them that may have caused concern.

His mums known about his involvement in the site since early on and has had access to all his dating profiles etc so it's not like it's something seedy that they didn't know about, to me she's been really good about the whole thing in coming out and saying that he's a young lad and liked to enjoy himself which is why he was on the site

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Hope his family are doing as well as they can

It's such a stigma around the word swinging. Particularly young people (I hate to sound like I'm generalising!) have so much access to sex. How different is using this site to the way some people use Facebook, snapchat etc.

I mean freshers week has had a reputation for as long as time for being a promiscuous time for some... 18-30s etc etc... most people enjoy and are curious about sex

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hardly the first time the sites made the press

Mind a few years back a masquerade ball was being planned in a big hotel . Papers had it as if we would be banging the life out each other in every corrider and hall lol .

Load of shite anyway hope the guys found safe and well

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

There'll be LOADS of new members joining! Fresh meat! lol... No publicity is bad publicity...

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I haven't read the article. But, if it helps a family find their missing son I couldn't care less who knows about Fab. One day hopefully he will sit with his mum again and laugh about it.

I wish his family well and hope he returns safely to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The S*n is a SHIT RAG that peddles lies and is run by scum , so I say FUCK THEM they can suck my fat cock

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By *onest gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ightfall79Man
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

DR have this as the front page story today and reads a tad disrespectful in my eyes.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there


"Not once did the article I read in the daily record say a bad word regarding swinging.

Also by mentioning the site might make someone come forward with information regarding his whereabouts.

Hope they find him safe and well.

Anyway fuck the haters swinging is awesome

D "

I love this view on it...

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived on that base for seven years, the lad wasn't in the same squadron as I was but we have friends incommon.

I just hope to God he isn't listed on here as anything other than straight. Not because I'm a homophobe or an arsehole but because I know that he will have became a joke within the services. It's 2017 but youl still be surprised at the stigma present.

Hope the lad is found, for his families sake if not for his own. It's a very story which is made even worse that a site like this is one of the only reasons that anyone is taking any notice of his disappearance.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I lived on that base for seven years, the lad wasn't in the same squadron as I was but we have friends incommon.

I just hope to God he isn't listed on here as anything other than straight. Not because I'm a homophobe or an arsehole but because I know that he will have became a joke within the services. It's 2017 but youl still be surprised at the stigma present.

Hope the lad is found, for his families sake if not for his own. It's a very story which is made even worse that a site like this is one of the only reasons that anyone is taking any notice of his disappearance."

But if it takes Fab to put him back in peoples minds than thank god for Fab.

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've already seen someone on another thread say they only realised they had him on kik because of the daily mail article.

That's really all it takes - someone could realise they've spoke to him before and he might have said something which could help with finding out what happened.

I may be biased because I know his family but at this stage any publicity or anything that might give someone a nudge to come forward is worth a try.

For people who are concerned about their privacy due to the site being in the papers - put your face pics to private, a young man's life is more important than not being able to show your face in public pics

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I've already seen someone on another thread say they only realised they had him on kik because of the daily mail article.

That's really all it takes - someone could realise they've spoke to him before and he might have said something which could help with finding out what happened.

I may be biased because I know his family but at this stage any publicity or anything that might give someone a nudge to come forward is worth a try.

For people who are concerned about their privacy due to the site being in the papers - put your face pics to private, a young man's life is more important than not being able to show your face in public pics"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've already seen someone on another thread say they only realised they had him on kik because of the daily mail article.

That's really all it takes - someone could realise they've spoke to him before and he might have said something which could help with finding out what happened.

I may be biased because I know his family but at this stage any publicity or anything that might give someone a nudge to come forward is worth a try.

For people who are concerned about their privacy due to the site being in the papers - put your face pics to private, a young man's life is more important than not being able to show your face in public pics"

Very true x

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've already seen someone on another thread say they only realised they had him on kik because of the daily mail article.

That's really all it takes - someone could realise they've spoke to him before and he might have said something which could help with finding out what happened.

I may be biased because I know his family but at this stage any publicity or anything that might give someone a nudge to come forward is worth a try.

For people who are concerned about their privacy due to the site being in the papers - put your face pics to private, a young man's life is more important than not being able to show your face in public pics"

I hope someone has information that helps the investigation

My heart breaks for those that know him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never let the truth get in the way of a good story is the type of journolism that is peddled in this country.

They dont care who they name and shame as long as it front page and sells the paper.

How many times have they got it wrong about people but you never see a front page apology do you?

Scum fuck wanky fuckwit journos I would not wipe my arse on your pages the only use for news papers is putting chips in or drawing the fire.

To all reporters go fuck yourselves you self righteous arsehole twats and let folk live there lives as they choose as long as it legal and consentual as you are not fit to judge anyone...........and breathe

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Never let the truth get in the way of a good story is the type of journolism that is peddled in this country.

They dont care who they name and shame as long as it front page and sells the paper.

How many times have they got it wrong about people but you never see a front page apology do you?

Scum fuck wanky fuckwit journos I would not wipe my arse on your pages the only use for news papers is putting chips in or drawing the fire.

To all reporters go fuck yourselves you self righteous arsehole twats and let folk live there lives as they choose as long as it legal and consentual as you are not fit to judge anyone...........and breathe"

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I lived on that base for seven years, the lad wasn't in the same squadron as I was but we have friends incommon.

I just hope to God he isn't listed on here as anything other than straight. Not because I'm a homophobe or an arsehole but because I know that he will have became a joke within the services. It's 2017 but youl still be surprised at the stigma present.

Hope the lad is found, for his families sake if not for his own. It's a very story which is made even worse that a site like this is one of the only reasons that anyone is taking any notice of his disappearance."

He has a profile on Grindr as well listing him as bi. His mother has already admitted he gets a lot of attention from men and he enjoys this.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont buy or read newspapers and never will

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I dont buy or read newspapers and never will "

Taxi drivers have their own news network lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I dont buy or read newspapers and never will

Taxi drivers have their own news network lol "

Jungle drums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lived on that base for seven years, the lad wasn't in the same squadron as I was but we have friends incommon.

I just hope to God he isn't listed on here as anything other than straight. Not because I'm a homophobe or an arsehole but because I know that he will have became a joke within the services. It's 2017 but youl still be surprised at the stigma present.

Hope the lad is found, for his families sake if not for his own. It's a very story which is made even worse that a site like this is one of the only reasons that anyone is taking any notice of his disappearance.

He has a profile on Grindr as well listing him as bi. His mother has already admitted he gets a lot of attention from men and he enjoys this. "

Oh dear god. Well that's just put a different spin on things. My brother is bi curious and my jerk of a step father being ex forces refers to him as a shirt lifter.. forces people still don't get it and I don't think they ever will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't waste money on newspapers for the very reason, most only appeal to the scandal-mongers and low-life, as for mentioning this missing lad, in the press I reckon its disgusting, because when he was on here, he was not doing anything illegal, it just has too cater for the moral majority, who sit on their everso high horses!!

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Corries family on both sides (his mum and dad are split up) are 100% fine with gay, bi people etc.

Unfortunately his mum and any of his mates would admit he does jump into things without thinking so it's possible he's been messaging someone on a dating app and agreed randomly to meet them and somethings happened

There's a massive search today that's been set up by his mums family so hopefully it can bring some answers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Corries family on both sides (his mum and dad are split up) are 100% fine with gay, bi people etc.

Unfortunately his mum and any of his mates would admit he does jump into things without thinking so it's possible he's been messaging someone on a dating app and agreed randomly to meet them and somethings happened

There's a massive search today that's been set up by his mums family so hopefully it can bring some answers "

I have been praying that they get some answers soon. It's not his parents I refer to in my comment it's service men. I really do hope they hear something soon.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It's entirely possible he's ran away. But if that's the case, he needs to let the police know so they can at least reassure his family that he's ok.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's entirely possible he's ran away. But if that's the case, he needs to let the police know so they can at least reassure his family that he's ok."

I think that's very unlikely unfortunately. His banks accounts etc haven't been accessed.

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's entirely possible he's ran away. But if that's the case, he needs to let the police know so they can at least reassure his family that he's ok."

I really wish this was true but he was happiest when he was on the base and hed never go anywhere without his puppy so deep down I just can't accept it although i really hope I'm wrong

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Hopefully the family will get a resolution soon

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By *ervertsCouple
over a year ago

halesowen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said in another post that twenty years ago it was about ladies selling sex in flats/saunas that made the headlines. Now these stories have been done to death and they are shifting attention to swinging. One reason why I only EVER meet guys with a few written Verifications who have been on here for six mths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said in another post that twenty years ago it was about ladies selling sex in flats/saunas that made the headlines. Now these stories have been done to death and they are shifting attention to swinging. One reason why I only EVER meet guys with a few written Verifications who have been on here for six mths."

then for guys like me its a catch 22.... no veris, no meet... no meet, no veris

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