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By *rwomble 56 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Had arranged to meet a,woman at her house today and had to contact her when arrived on street to contact and would give me her house number. Arrived plenty of time no response to calls or messages eventually to a text to say just woke up 1433 tried to call and text back no success have now sent a,message back asking why and I not wanting meet to go ahead all had to do was,decline beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was "plenty of time" five hours early????....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Had arranged to meet a,woman at her house today and had to contact her when arrived on street to contact and would give me her house number. Arrived plenty of time no response to calls or messages eventually to a text to say just woke up 1433 tried to call and text back no success have now sent a,message back asking why and I not wanting meet to go ahead all had to do was,decline beforehand"
Did you meet socially first?

Or speak on the phone?

If you didnt then Im not surprised.

Are you 100% sure it was a female?

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By *rwomble 56 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Did speak on the phone and was how got the address and definitely female now replied to a message saying why don't name and shame her replied back not my style

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Anyone who tells me that they'll give me the house number when I get to the street is clearly a pisstaker, and I wouldn't even leave the house for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck it up put it behind you and move on

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Anyone who tells me that they'll give me the house number when I get to the street is clearly a pisstaker, and I wouldn't even leave the house for them"

Very loud alarm bells would be ringing!

Put it down to experience OP.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Did speak on the phone and was how got the address and definitely female now replied to a message saying why don't name and shame her replied back not my style"
well report the profile then

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Anyone who tells me that they'll give me the house number when I get to the street is clearly a pisstaker, and I wouldn't even leave the house for them"

Yup . Fully agree

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Seriously mate youre a grown ass man bitching and whinging on a forum about being stood up .

Knock it on the head . Suck it up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP deserves a little sympathy - it was his first meet... we all remember the butterflies, the shower, getting dressed, wondering if you should have a tom hank in case you cum to soon.

the poor lad had all that shattered.

I feel for you OP. If there was any interest in me whatsoever on this site i would donate my next meet to you... but alas... there isn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP deserves a little sympathy - it was his first meet... we all remember the butterflies, the shower, getting dressed, wondering if you should have a tom hank in case you cum to soon.

the poor lad had all that shattered.

I feel for you OP. If there was any interest in me whatsoever on this site i would donate my next meet to you... but alas... there isn't x"

He's 57 yrs old so hardly a lad. And imo nobody deserves sympathy for not exercising due diligence when arranging to meet strangers from the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A harsh lesson learned. Don't let it get you down too much just be more prepared next time you are chatting with someone about possibly meeting up and het all the proper contact details you need. Like others say here too might be an idea to meet socially and then go onto have some fun.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Seriously mate youre a grown ass man bitching and whinging on a forum about being stood up .

Knock it on the head . Suck it up and move on "

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It happens I'm afraid OP.

Next time, meet in a cafe or coffee shop first. At least you can have a cuppa if they don't show.

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By *rwomble 56 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Thanks to all hard lesson learned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the risk you take when you don't get enough info on a person. Sometimes people are just too desprate to meet they don't even think about safety. Your lucky they just stood you up could have been worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously mate youre a grown ass man bitching and whinging on a forum about being stood up .

Knock it on the head . Suck it up and move on "

Can only agree. I'm the same age and if life's taught me anything at all it's that if you jump in too fast you get your ass bitten. Whinging and "poor me!" is just bloody tedious. The air of desperation on here is so thick these days you'd need a chainsaw to get through it.

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree Jinty and to meet at a house on the first meet is so so stupid You dont know what is waiting for you

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I agree Jinty and to meet at a house on the first meet is so so stupid You dont know what is waiting for you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously mate youre a grown ass man bitching and whinging on a forum about being stood up .

Knock it on the head . Suck it up and move on

Can only agree. I'm the same age and if life's taught me anything at all it's that if you jump in too fast you get your ass bitten. Whinging and "poor me!" is just bloody tedious. The air of desperation on here is so thick these days you'd need a chainsaw to get through it. "

Agreed

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