FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By *nverman67 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Someone who I had been seeing for nearly 3 years as a friend with benefits met someone about 6 months ago and said that she wanted to give it a go with him.

I thought great and wished her all the best. We are still good friends but recently she has asked to get back together for some more fun but says she still loves her new guy.

I am reluctant to go back there as I knew that what we had previously was fun for both of us.

Should I move on and hope that she sorts things out with her new guy or take advantage and have our fun?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure but all I can say is 'don't rush in'. Maybe wait a bit to see how it unfolds?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it could be a bit of headache, have been in a similiar situation and didnt take him up on his offer. Just didnt feel right or fun but each to their own

By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

inver what would happen if her new guy found out or does he know she has contacted u again

By *nverman67 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As far as I am aware, he knows nothing about her contacting me again. She is a great lass and we get on really well in and out of bed.

We have one of those relationships where we can chat without being judgemental which I love. We would kill each other if we were ever to be an item lol