FabSwingers.com forum: Community sprit ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not even sure if this is really allowed, but if the Admin wanna remove this thats cool,

OK I know this is a swinging site, but we have been here a while and it kinda feels like a community too, one of the benefits of a community is that folks help each other, thats something we are big supporters of, OK to try to make myself clear I have read things about members who help each other in things other than just "swinging" related things. We are many and varied personalities with loads of experience and talents, this is something that can be used for everyones advantage.

We all could use some help and advice at times and im sure there are many folks in here that can put something back into the community.

If U have expertise in a particular area then maybe U can be helpful to someone else who might be able to help urself with something in the future in return, I DONT mean if I help U then U owe me, I mean just help for helpings sake, it might be actual help, (like arranging transport for a social) It might be simple hugs if hugs were needed, it might be advice in a situation where previous experience can help. It might be PC help, Im sure there are some experts that can help the less experienced PC users to make this site more enjoyable, It might be help stopping smoking ( from Ex smokers) it might just be simple support in times when the economic climate is tough ( I DONT mean money!!! ) maybe just money saving tips etc.

OK thats the kinda bones of this idea, I dont know if Iv even made any sense, but Hey ho thats life!!!

As an example, Mud is an OK type mechanic, knows a little about cars, can give warnings/advice about some car buying/servicing. Mud is alo an Ex.pro photographer, can give some advice on lighting/modelling/things to AVOID!!

Hells is fully qualified in several areas of social care and very experienced in the legal aspects of care etc.

NO idea if this will work, but it sounded good in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a fabby idea muddie xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MWAHHHH muddy, seems a great idea and it does happen, only yesterday Steve was giving advice about computers, like a mini tutorial in chat for us less technically enabled ie thicko here lol.

I have also had help with my gardening from _adcow who knows it's not so easy as a single parent to find time to keep on top of everything.

Yes we are swingers but I for one am happy to call people friends and feel honoured to do so. I believe that if a good turn is done I should therefore pass it on to others, and do try to. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here good shout.

by the way I am good at giving orgasms

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

fabby idea muds any chance on a wee service for my daughters saxo befor we drive to plymouth hahahahaha you started it but hey hope admin dont remove this as yes it can be like a wee family thing the swinging scene is a much closer knit family up here than they are down south (not knocking the english by far coz i am english lol )

brenny xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"fabby idea muds any chance on a wee service for my daughters saxo befor we drive to plymouth "

Bren XX

If ur doing a long drive like that if the car is overdue a service it might be a good idea, if its not due its not required, simple checks like tyre condition/pressures, making sure there is plenty oil/water, filling screenwash etc, also cars doing long journeys that dont usually go on that type of distance can suffer from "heat-soak", its caused by sustained high speed driving in conditions its not used to, take a break regularly, let the car cool for min 25/30 mins. enjoy a cuppa;) ohhh and safe journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am not sure that people would want my advice..

I am a trained couples counsoller, so if you have any issues then just ask.

Debbs xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Steve and quite good with gadgets and technology etc. If I cant help then Ill probably be able to find a web site that can. I know enough about PC's to get by and help although not an expert by any stretch of the imagination.

Im a telecoms engineer by trade, working on the mobile phone base stations and am quite savvy with mobile phones too.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats me fooked then aww am good for is rippin the piss oot peeps lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"thats me fooked then aww am good for is rippin the piss oot peeps lol lol

That can be a valuable asset too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a know a bit aboot bikes....motored ones that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gordie is really good with dealing with being away from home and the personal struggles that come with it, he dishes out advice to a fair few of his friends about it, he is also really good at workout plans if anyone is wanting to get fit on a budget.

Pamela is currently looking at setting up a babysitting business with all the certificates and disclosures so that could be an idea for people struggling with sitters?

Also, as we are still youngish lol, if any couples join who are new to swinging and arent 100% certain, give us an email and we can chat about it as it wasnt too long ago we were in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye but you aint figured oot how tae stay on one yit ya fud lol lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am happy being Auntie Kay the scots rooms answer to Dear Deirdre as anyone who knows me knows !!!

Kay xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"aye but you aint figured oot how tae stay on one yit ya fud lol lol lol

lol....thank fook there isnae a test fur staying on !!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG! Mudguards, in all of my time on Fabswingers i have never read anything so great, I Applaude u and ur idea it is more than swinging after all it is OUR community so as u say lets HELP oneanother out if we can in any way we can with care , honesty,confidence,discression and if needed compassion.

Mud thank you for this post i feel as u do, we have something apart from the obvious to offer our fellow swingers/friends

WHAT I CAN HELP WITH:

Im A Qualified hairdresser and Make-up Artist.

Have catering qualifications (chef)

I also do Balloon Decorations for functions

Im Also into Party/function Planning

Im also a _antastic listener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont no wot i can offer, but feel free 2 ask, if i can help, i will xx

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

"OMG! Mudguards, in all of my time on Fabswingers i have never read anything so great, I Applaude u and ur idea it is more than swinging after all it is OUR community so as u say lets HELP oneanother out if we can in any way we can with care , honesty,confidence,discression and if needed compassion.

Mud thank you for this post i feel as u do, we have something apart from the obvious to offer our fellow swingers/friends

WHAT I CAN HELP WITH:

Im A Qualified hairdresser and Make-up Artist.

Have catering qualifications (chef)

I also do Balloon Decorations for functions

Im Also into Party/function Planning

Im also a _antastic listener

heheheheh sassy any chance of a job lol xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bren i have a opening for u pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic idea mud!!!

Not that long ago a couple of us were saying how fab it would be to have something like this..

Perhaps an idea to set up a forum for this very thing...and that being the case i would certainly offer my help in the areas i could

vol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This made me think of that film 'Pay it forward'... give a good turn in advance of needing one.... mwah peeps, here to do whatever I can.. even if it's to provide a cuppa and a listening ear xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think this is a brill idea

everyone always need a little help with something at some point! and yes this is a community and lots of us are friends, so lets share what we can

dm & lee xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think this is a brill idea

everyone always need a little help with something at some point! and yes this is a community and lots of us are friends, so lets share what we can

dm & lee xxxxx"

Still need a hand putting up that tent tomorrow?.. I know how to do that! lol

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thats me fooked then aww am good for is rippin the piss oot peeps lol lol

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and a good ass kisser hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have already had "help" from lots of fab friends when i split with ex, from advice, support and furniture so ,i know it happens and if i can return the favour would be happy to , love xxxxxxkxxx

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

I'm a district nurse....and happy to help if i can...i know a bit about orthopaedics too....so if anyone wants a gammy knee kissed better??????........E xx

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By *cottFunMan
over a year ago

Stirling

hey folks i do a bit of plumbing and electrical work so give me a shout if i can help

Ally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was course manager of various golf courses. "How do i get my grass greener?",

Might be able to help n suggest few tech things if yer gardens yer pride n joy, (just grass like, know diddlious squattious bout flowers etc),lol

T xx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

am told i listen well , can cheer peeps up when they feel down, turn my hand to anything lol

happy to help anyone when and if i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this forum is going great

i do reflexology and massages including head massage if thats any good lol and im a great listener and my ear has been bent on here a few times already lol..... anything u need to know about films or footie then ask mr hoops lmao...

xxx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

does that include his skills as filmaker dm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea mud mate.

Im a qualified road hog, so if anyone needs advice on how to piss off other road users, Im ya trucker man!

Oh, I've been known to hand out free M&S food aswell, so if you're feeling the credit crunch, I'll happily hand out some free nosh, lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

do you deliver in nothing but a bow tie then gis ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do you deliver in nothing but a bow tie then gis ?????"

Not a prety sight mad, as I would of course, have to wear my hi-vis vest aswell, lol...

could be worth asking the company to change our uniform though. Naked except for a bow tie is good summer wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does that include his skills as filmaker dm lol"

yep rhona

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im gd at emm almost anything

oh im gd at shaving 2 lol

an taken pics 4 profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea! Just moved into a flat and need loads of tradesmen and tradeswomen

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By *antaMan
over a year ago

Stirling/Alloa

great idea mud

i am a cabinet maker so am pretty handy with wood (no pun intended)

i can also re upholster chairs suites etc

_anta

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

what a film

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

"Bren i have a opening for u pmsl

hahahahahah whats that lol xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love doing erotic pics and playing about with pics.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok then i want a hug from the best hugger in the room - one that will just wrap me up and make me feel instantly better when its finished

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ok then i want a hug from the best hugger in the room - one that will just wrap me up and make me feel instantly better when its finished

Until they can get here U can have one from me Rasp!!! (((((((( Hugs )))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good idea mud mate.

Im a qualified road hog, so if anyone needs advice on how to piss off other road users, Im ya trucker man!

Oh, I've been known to hand out free M&S food aswell, so if you're feeling the credit crunch, I'll happily hand out some free nosh, lol

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oooo gis is not just any old trucker...hes an M&S trucker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well jas is a spark(elctrician) but no a very bright 1 lol kidn !! lol

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oooo gis is not just any old trucker...hes an M&S trucker lol

LOL ( really ) LOL !!!!!

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

east kilbride

Just loving this thread!

Mr EK is good with computers as he's a computer programmer by trade and now works as a telecoms engineer (same sort of field as Steve I think!).

Mrs EK: Just trying to think what I'm good at! Well, I can knit (not sure how useful that is!) and I play flute if anyone wants to learn lol.

We've just had a major leak in our kitchen which has ruined all the units, and wondering if anyone knows how to replace everything quite cheaply?? Oh dear, is this the first request for possible help???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok then i want a hug from the best hugger in the room - one that will just wrap me up and make me feel instantly better when its finished

fug hug sent !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gordie has a qualification in design and its pretty good with interior design etc, he is also learning pashto so if anyone needs help when thier bank has call centres in pakistan hes your man lol

im quite good at listening and organising nights in and out, not to mention really good at helping people with thier insecurities x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jas a need advice about the cable on ma ghds lol :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if any of the guys or girls need any advice on fitness im your man i hold my ymca gym instructor ymca circuits and also have an hnc in health fitness and exercise . worked in this field for many yrs tho im not interested in personel training due to lack of time these days . tips hints etc not a prob tho .

i also need two new tyres for my car mud its a polo ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i also need two new tyres for my car mud its a polo ??

TY for ur contribution Boss. and on the tyre thing, if U mail me the tyre size ( EG 185/60/14 etc) , I can try to get U the best price I can for a pair , supplied and fitted should be maybe £45/£50 (ish ) depends on actual size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jas a need advice about the cable on ma ghds lol :P"
lol hey kinky..wots the prob babe?

jas xx

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By *erandhim67Couple
over a year ago

West Lothian

I am not too bad with figures - specially sexy ladies lol ! seriously if anyone needs any help with questions regarding tax or such like (yuk) particularly construction industry am your woman Mrs Her xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i also need two new tyres for my car mud its a polo ??

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cheers mate have a look at them and mail you soon m8 !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jase

I got a hole in the cable lol! Dunno if cable can b stripped and repaired or if a need a new set lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've currently got lots of time on my hands & have a lovely Champagne metallic/cream leather JAGUAR S-type (as well as the Porsche), if anybody would like a chauffeur drive? ... Oh, & I'm also an ex-pro photographer, so I'd be handy for a wedding lol.... or posh dogging photos lol lol

Mr.C xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... Oh, & we can offer a free lift to/from the Aberdeen social to anyone central based, who's staying there overnight!

we're happy to help

S&C xxx

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

hi there

er what can i offer..................

I served my time as a sparky, now a faciities manager for a maintenance company

am a amatuer photographer, however i am pretty good at photoshop and altering digital pics using Lightroom.

Am also an advance first aider for a emergency service

Prob of no use what so ever.... but hey ho

cheers

kev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there

er what can i offer..................

I served my time as a sparky, now a faciities manager for a maintenance company

am a amatuer photographer, however i am pretty good at photoshop and altering digital pics using Lightroom.

Am also an advance first aider for a emergency service

Prob of no use what so ever.... but hey ho

cheers

kev"

plus you are a lego technician per excellence!

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

oh yeah, i am good with lego too

thanks for reminding me laine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"oh yeah, i am good with lego too

thanks for reminding me laine

xx"

OOOPS Just RE - read this ,

I thought U typed leg-OVER,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love doing erotic pics and playing about with pics....."

i love lookin at jo's erotic pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK if anyone wants between 1-28 tonnes of white fish let G know, he'll be happy to help, altho there will be a delivery charge lol!!!!!

As for L, well she's a trained secretary if that helps anyone who needs stuff like that just ask.

Altho not playing just now we're always happy to help others anytime.

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

will you be coming up the back or up the front hector brocklebank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well sham has a painting buisness and have done some work for people of the site so any1 wanting tips or cheap quotes just mail me , always happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi noticed someone offering a lift to the aberdeen social well Im not going but am going to the beach party and have a double room booked and no lift so if there is anyone going down please be in touch thanks Rosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good wee thread, so let's keep it going! Come on, let's show some sprit (sic) lol

S&C xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help! lol, my sky dish has started to drop off the wall and sky themselves fekked up their callout, I sat in all day waiting for an engineer to call and he wasn't even notified! ... now short of climbing out my bedroom window onto the flatroof and wiggling away at it myself, is there anyone out there who may have an old/spare dish and a ladder and toolkit to help me out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a really nice thread...

I am good with soft furnishings, the hand moves to the song YMCA, 'mother of the bride' hat and shoe combinations, Will and Grace series 1-8...

shout if I can help....

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