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"Anything you do without your partner knowing it.. is cheating. Sexting...social meeting...having g sex with a robot "Does that mean you have to tell you other half everything you masturbate or useing sex toys as half the sex toys are robots? | |||
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"Not if you do it alone no But actually going to a brothel is cheating I'd say yes " I'd disagree - a robot isn't a person it's a high tech masturbatory aid. That's like saying using a vibrator is cheating | |||
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"Your still going to a brothel tho?" But cheating on someone has to involve another living person. That's just a fact. If I had sex with a robot in a carpet factory that's not cheating because of the geography? | |||
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"Your cheating if you feel compounded to hideit from your partner" I used to spend hundreds of pounds a month in books and didn't tell my partner at the time because she would have thought it was a waste of money. Was that cheating? There's a scale to these things. By your rationale not loudly proclaiming to a partner that I'm off for a wank is cheating | |||
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"Anything you do without your partner knowing it.. is cheating. Sexting...social meeting...having g sex with a robot " | |||
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"What about a male sex robot tho?" Inanimate object . No different to a vibrator . Not cheating | |||
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"As I said, to me it would be cheating... as the person is acting dishonestly, deceiving, etc... If it is just sex with an 'object' why hide it from a partner?! Btw, great thread OP "No mention of dishonesty , lying or decieving in the original post so adding conditions that arent there . Regardless the issue would then be the lying and deciet not the fucking of an inanimate object . For me anyway | |||
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"It was asked if it was cheating? " Yeah the act of having sex with a robot . Suppose what you consider cheating to entail . Lets be honest we have all lied and decieved within relationships at some stage to some degree so surely its the act itself thats in question here ? | |||
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"What about a male sex robot tho?" I wouldn't have an issue. Honestly. | |||
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"As I said, to me it would be cheating... as the person is acting dishonestly, deceiving, etc... If it is just sex with an 'object' why hide it from a partner?! Btw, great thread OP
No mention of dishonesty , lying or decieving in the original post so adding conditions that arent there .
Regardless the issue would then be the lying and deciet not the fucking of an inanimate object .
For me anyway "Sorry I am a French native speaker but does the word 'cheat' not imply deception? | |||
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"As I said, to me it would be cheating... as the person is acting dishonestly, deceiving, etc... If it is just sex with an 'object' why hide it from a partner?! Btw, great thread OP
No mention of dishonesty , lying or decieving in the original post so adding conditions that arent there .
Regardless the issue would then be the lying and deciet not the fucking of an inanimate object .
For me anyway
Sorry I am a French native speaker but does the word 'cheat' not imply deception?
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"As I said, to me it would be cheating... as the person is acting dishonestly, deceiving, etc... If it is just sex with an 'object' why hide it from a partner?! Btw, great thread OP
No mention of dishonesty , lying or decieving in the original post so adding conditions that arent there .
Regardless the issue would then be the lying and deciet not the fucking of an inanimate object .
For me anyway
Sorry I am a French native speaker but does the word 'cheat' not imply deception?
Only if you steal from the banker playing Monopoly "lol | |||
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"As I said, to me it would be cheating... as the person is acting dishonestly, deceiving, etc... If it is just sex with an 'object' why hide it from a partner?! Btw, great thread OP
No mention of dishonesty , lying or decieving in the original post so adding conditions that arent there .
Regardless the issue would then be the lying and deciet not the fucking of an inanimate object .
For me anyway
Sorry I am a French native speaker but does the word 'cheat' not imply deception?
"Really youre french ? Never seen you mention it before . Anyway i would say cheat implies dishonesty more than anything else and we could go on for ever with semantics . In this context i would say its more in regards to the act of having sexual contact with a robot rather than all the other variables of cheating . The op has asked for opinions ive giving mine youve given yours and we wont convince each other of who is right or wrong as there is no right or wrong . | |||
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"Anything you do without your partner knowing it.. is cheating. Sexting...social meeting...having g sex with a robot "Depends how much it plays on your conscience ... if they don't know and you have a good relationship is it bad | |||
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"I think if I had a partner and found out he had done this I probably wouldn't accuse him of cheating. I'd be a bit offended that he felt the need to and may want to address why but I agree that it's no different to using a sex toy...." | |||
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"As I said, to me it would be cheating... as the person is acting dishonestly, deceiving, etc... If it is just sex with an 'object' why hide it from a partner?! Btw, great thread OP
No mention of dishonesty , lying or decieving in the original post so adding conditions that arent there .
Regardless the issue would then be the lying and deciet not the fucking of an inanimate object .
For me anyway
Sorry I am a French native speaker but does the word 'cheat' not imply deception?
Really youre french ? Never seen you mention it before .
Anyway i would say cheat implies dishonesty more than anything else and we could go on for ever with semantics . In this context i would say its more in regards to the act of having sexual contact with a robot rather than all the other variables of cheating .
The op has asked for opinions ive giving mine youve given yours and we wont convince each other of who is right or wrong as there is no right or wrong . "lol... I never try to convince anyone! I was only trying to work out if I had misunderstood the original post and the use of the word. But thanks for your reply  | |||
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"Your cheating if you feel compounded to hideit from your partner I used to spend hundreds of pounds a month in books and didn't tell my partner at the time because she would have thought it was a waste of money. Was that cheating? There's a scale to these things. By your rationale not loudly proclaiming to a partner that I'm off for a wank is cheating" yes it was cheating as deep down you knew that money may have been needed eleswhere. You choose to hide it as you knew your partner wouldnt agree. Cheating isnt just to do with sex | |||
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"Your cheating if you feel compounded to hideit from your partner I used to spend hundreds of pounds a month in books and didn't tell my partner at the time because she would have thought it was a waste of money. Was that cheating? There's a scale to these things. By your rationale not loudly proclaiming to a partner that I'm off for a wank is cheatingyes it was cheating as deep down you knew that money may have been needed eleswhere. You choose to hide it as you knew your partner wouldnt agree. Cheating isnt just to do with sex" Lol this is a wind up right ? Lying yes , decieving yes , dishonest absolutley . But cheating ??? Cmon to fuck thats stretching the imagination a loong way haha | |||
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"Lying deceiving dishonestly All those words sums up cheating do they not?" to me thats exactly what it is it appears for some cheating is only a sex act | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating? "Ohhh youve lied and been dishonest you cheat you !! Youd have been as well letting the postie rim your holiest of holies as its the same thing !! | |||
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"Your cheating if you feel compounded to hideit from your partner I used to spend hundreds of pounds a month in books and didn't tell my partner at the time because she would have thought it was a waste of money. Was that cheating? There's a scale to these things. By your rationale not loudly proclaiming to a partner that I'm off for a wank is cheatingyes it was cheating as deep down you knew that money may have been needed eleswhere. You choose to hide it as you knew your partner wouldnt agree. Cheating isnt just to do with sex" Now you're getting into the realms of objectivity... which is exactly what the debate here is really about. It was my money I wasn't staying with the girl. Bills were being paid. I chose to spend the money this way. It wasn't hers but she was have been judgemental about it. I wasn't stealing food from theoretical children's mouths. She would have hated me spending money on books... and I chose not to tell her. Some people (clearly) wouldn't be bothered. Some are. A sex robot doesn't sound like my cup of tea at all - but I don't think it's the same as sleeping with another human being behind your partner's back. | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating? "so the wife pretended they were in the sale to hide she overspent lol to simple | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating?
Ohhh youve lied and been dishonest you cheat you !! Youd have been as well letting the postie rim your holiest of holies as its the same thing !! "Maybe that's how cheating starts....first it's a pair of shoes and then it's doing the postman before breakfast. It's a slippery slope...... | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating?
Ohhh youve lied and been dishonest you cheat you !! Youd have been as well letting the postie rim your holiest of holies as its the same thing !!
Maybe that's how cheating starts....first it's a pair of shoes and then it's doing the postman before breakfast. It's a slippery slope...... "Your postie comes before breakfast !! Lucky sod | |||
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"Your cheating if you feel compounded to hideit from your partner I used to spend hundreds of pounds a month in books and didn't tell my partner at the time because she would have thought it was a waste of money. Was that cheating? There's a scale to these things. By your rationale not loudly proclaiming to a partner that I'm off for a wank is cheatingyes it was cheating as deep down you knew that money may have been needed eleswhere. You choose to hide it as you knew your partner wouldnt agree. Cheating isnt just to do with sex Now you're getting into the realms of objectivity... which is exactly what the debate here is really about. It was my money I wasn't staying with the girl. Bills were being paid. I chose to spend the money this way. It wasn't hers but she was have been judgemental about it. I wasn't stealing food from theoretical children's mouths. She would have hated me spending money on books... and I chose not to tell her. Some people (clearly) wouldn't be bothered. Some are. A sex robot doesn't sound like my cup of tea at all - but I don't think it's the same as sleeping with another human being behind your partner's back. " so wasnt really your partner where you made joint decisions then was it | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating? so the wife pretended they were in the sale to hide she overspent lol to simple "By your rationale stated above . Shes lied been dishonest and even decieved her partner so surely cheating | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating? so the wife pretended they were in the sale to hide she overspent lol to simple
By your rationale stated above . Shes lied been dishonest and even decieved her partner so surely cheating "She's a despicable disgrace of a human. Hanging's too good for the likes of her. Cow. | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating?
Ohhh youve lied and been dishonest you cheat you !! Youd have been as well letting the postie rim your holiest of holies as its the same thing !!
Maybe that's how cheating starts....first it's a pair of shoes and then it's doing the postman before breakfast. It's a slippery slope......
Your postie comes before breakfast !! Lucky sod "In more ways than one in this scenario.....  | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating?
Ohhh youve lied and been dishonest you cheat you !! Youd have been as well letting the postie rim your holiest of holies as its the same thing !!
Maybe that's how cheating starts....first it's a pair of shoes and then it's doing the postman before breakfast. It's a slippery slope......
Your postie comes before breakfast !! Lucky sod
In more ways than one in this scenario..... "Hahaha any postie jobs going up your way ? | |||
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"Your cheating if you feel compounded to hideit from your partner I used to spend hundreds of pounds a month in books and didn't tell my partner at the time because she would have thought it was a waste of money. Was that cheating? There's a scale to these things. By your rationale not loudly proclaiming to a partner that I'm off for a wank is cheatingyes it was cheating as deep down you knew that money may have been needed eleswhere. You choose to hide it as you knew your partner wouldnt agree. Cheating isnt just to do with sex Now you're getting into the realms of objectivity... which is exactly what the debate here is really about. It was my money I wasn't staying with the girl. Bills were being paid. I chose to spend the money this way. It wasn't hers but she was have been judgemental about it. I wasn't stealing food from theoretical children's mouths. She would have hated me spending money on books... and I chose not to tell her. Some people (clearly) wouldn't be bothered. Some are. A sex robot doesn't sound like my cup of tea at all - but I don't think it's the same as sleeping with another human being behind your partner's back. so wasnt really your partner where you made joint decisions then was it " Your comment makes no sense whatsoever. She was my partner and I am sure she would have loved for me to take her out for a fancy meal with the money or have a nice break away. I didn't. And I chose not to tell her what I was spending my money on. That was me hiding something from her. Is that cheating? Basically the original question was is having add with a robot in a brothel cheating. And I think it isn't. It's a posh wank at best. And, in my opinion, just as dishonest as what I did with the books. If I was going out behind a partner's back and sleeping with real life prostitutes or other women (or men) then that is different. That is cheating. You've made a conscious decision to engage in a sexual act with someone with human drives and feelings. And sex, no matter how hard you try to the contrary, can have an emotional investment if it's with another person. | |||
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"Oof this is getting a bit heated eh? It's not cheating though "Nah not heated but rather ammusing none the less | |||
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"Wife ..... got these shoes in the sale....
Cheating?
Ohhh youve lied and been dishonest you cheat you !! Youd have been as well letting the postie rim your holiest of holies as its the same thing !!
Maybe that's how cheating starts....first it's a pair of shoes and then it's doing the postman before breakfast. It's a slippery slope......
Your postie comes before breakfast !! Lucky sod
In more ways than one in this scenario.....
Hahaha any postie jobs going up your way ? "Possibly....let me know in advance so I can formally introduce you to my German Shepherd. He's friendly but likes to get the mail while it's still attached to the postie's fingers...... | |||
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"I wouldn't say it's getting heated? I like the fact we can actually have a debate on this forum without it all going haywire Just goes to show how diffrent folk have diffrent views on 1 subject Jeeze...not like the Scottish Forum at all Lol" long may continue | |||
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"I wouldn't say it's getting heated? I like the fact we can actually have a debate on this forum without it all going haywire Just goes to show how diffrent folk have diffrent views on 1 subject Jeeze...not like the Scottish Forum at all Lol" | |||
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"I wouldn't say it's getting heated? I like the fact we can actually have a debate on this forum without it all going haywire Just goes to show how diffrent folk have diffrent views on 1 subject Jeeze...not like the Scottish Forum at all Lol" I agree! I like that no ones called anyone any names or challenged one another to a duel. ( although I did call the hypothetical shoe lady a cow but she deserved it) | |||
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"I wonder if people had the "cheating or not?" debate when the first vibrator was created? It's just a progression of this, and therefore not cheating " | |||
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"Alls well but ends well ya shower of bastards and i will spill the blood of anyone that disagrees wi me . I jest off course ( except the shoe cow ) "Don't mess with the shoe cow. We've already seen the depths of depravity she's capable of. Steer clear. | |||
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"I wonder if people had the "cheating or not?" debate when the first vibrator was created? It's just a progression of this, and therefore not cheating "Jumped the gun a bit . Surely various veg came first | |||
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"I wonder if people had the "cheating or not?" debate when the first vibrator was created? It's just a progression of this, and therefore not cheating
Jumped the gun a bit . Surely various veg came first "Or when a woman back the day seen a doc that used to use sex toys on them for some kinda treatment. Wonder what there other half thought of that lol | |||
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"I should also say does not need to be done I. A brothal I am guessing a guy or woman could buy a robot. Guess storing it would be kinda strange if you have friend around and they find a sex robot lol. Also read this a guy wants or have cannot remember married a sex doll. Guessing a robot would be there divorce "I was going to mention this....maybe it's cheating if you actually fall in love with the robot...? That lady who married the Eiffel Tower for instance....I imagine that would piss your partner off? | |||
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"I wonder if people had the "cheating or not?" debate when the first vibrator was created? It's just a progression of this, and therefore not cheating
Jumped the gun a bit . Surely various veg came first "I'd be devastated if someone cheated on me with veg. A robot not so much | |||
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"I wonder if people had the "cheating or not?" debate when the first vibrator was created? It's just a progression of this, and therefore not cheating
Jumped the gun a bit . Surely various veg came first
I'd be devastated if someone cheated on me with veg. A robot not so much "Hahaha | |||
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"I wonder if people had the "cheating or not?" debate when the first vibrator was created? It's just a progression of this, and therefore not cheating
Jumped the gun a bit . Surely various veg came first
I'd be devastated if someone cheated on me with veg. A robot not so much "judging by the amount of pics of chicks with various veg up their chuffs...I'd say it's quite common | |||
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"So I read this saying brothels will soon have sex robets (guessing they mean ones that look real life) So my question is. If you sleep with a sex robot would it be cheating? " Isn't that like rent-a-dildo ... Heck, I'll just fill my bedroom with vibrators and dildos and all women are welcome to come over and do as they wish for a small fee  | |||
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"I think this can be summed up as this; some folk see it as cheating and others do not. Personally (like everything in life) this is all down to ones own views. I can see it from both sides but my 2 pence worth is if my partner did this then id be hurt cause I'm clearly not doing something right in the bedroom to make her happy, and she should tell me how I can do that. Like i said different horse's for different course " | |||
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 ) n hide any dodgy data from mum!
They better wear a condom though to protect against viruses n malware......n so it's not full of spunk when it goes for its annual servicing!
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