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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Myself and Ginger were speaking the other night about arranging meets etc and we both started to wonder about how you decide where abouts and what type of place to choose?

Do you try and judge where the people you are meeting might like best,somewhere quiet and out of the way or just go for somewhere thats popular and well known or pick a place you both really enjoy yourselves

V+G

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Usually the folk I meet have some form of restriction so I leave it to them to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally you wanna pick a place that both you would like, you two want to feel comfortable. You can obviously get a feel for the person(s) your meeting and might decide somewhere else It's good to try and judge where to go but you really, if its a social, want to get to know the people and find out if they tick your boxes and the same applies for them. Lets put it this way if they decide to meet you its cause you interest them.

A nice busy place is kl but as long as not too noisy, you wanna be able to hear each other chat loll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats along the lines we were thinking Horsey but then its all the different what,ifs and buts lol

If Ginger had her way all our meets would be in Viva Brazil while i would prefer a nice Gastropub on the outskirts of the city or one of the smaller bars on bath street

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Somewhere both parties feel would suit within easy travel distance and discrete enough that both parties wouldn't bump into someone they knew

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Somewhere everyone feels comfortable. We usually use a wetherspoons type of place for a drink and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many years ago about 12 of us met at the local as we thought we are friends. Good night and a good natter then moved on to a house....thinking about it...it was mine !

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the helpful replies

One thing we both thought about was how the choice of venue could reflect on yourselfs.

Would that make a difference to anybody?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Thanks for all the helpful replies

One thing we both thought about was how the choice of venue could reflect on yourselfs.

Would that make a difference to anybody?"

Yeah suppose it could reflect on you as a person....the class of the venue etc

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too. "

Omg at my typing this is what happens when you watch the soaps and type lol think you got the jist thou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We just about deciphered your reply :p

Luckily any meets we have arranged so far have just been for a coffee

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"We just about deciphered your reply :p

Luckily any meets we have arranged so far have just been for a coffee"

We've never really done the whole day time social coffee thing ...but it's whatever suits and feels comfy

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Thanks for all the helpful replies

One thing we both thought about was how the choice of venue could reflect on yourselfs.

Would that make a difference to anybody?"

Yeah I get what you mean, there's a difference between a coffee house or a pub, and McDonald's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Yeah I get what you mean, there's a difference between a coffee house or a pub, and McDonald's "

Even if its just the type of bar you chose,

Would think different about meeting if they suggested the Oriental bar than if they said Citation??

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


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Yeah I get what you mean, there's a difference between a coffee house or a pub, and McDonald's

Even if its just the type of bar you chose,

Would think different about meeting if they suggested the Oriental bar than if they said Citation??"

I don't know either of those, I'm an east coaster lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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We've never really done the whole day time social coffee thing ...but it's whatever suits and feels comfy"

Between having the kids and work, a mid morning or lunchtime coffee is about the best we can manage right now

And even then we have still to have an actual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IKEA....You can always check out some interior design if it falls flat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Yeah I get what you mean, there's a difference between a coffee house or a pub, and McDonald's

Even if its just the type of bar you chose,

Would think different about meeting if they suggested the Oriental bar than if they said Citation??

I don't know either of those, I'm an east coaster lol "

Sorry, both places are in the Merchant city

Ones a hovel and the other is pretty swanky

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too. "

Have you been on the booze

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too.

Have you been on the booze "

Irnbru , crisps, watching tv and posting on here ... along with a pinch of thickness

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too.

Have you been on the booze

Irnbru , crisps, watching tv and posting on here ... along with a pinch of thickness "

lol can you come over with your crisps, my diet has lasted two days now you mentioned the word I want them

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too.

Have you been on the booze

Irnbru , crisps, watching tv and posting on here ... along with a pinch of thickness

lol can you come over with your crisps, my diet has lasted two days now you mentioned the word I want them "

I almost went out for a chip butty ... I would be a bad influence on you

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too.

Have you been on the booze

Irnbru , crisps, watching tv and posting on here ... along with a pinch of thickness

lol can you come over with your crisps, my diet has lasted two days now you mentioned the word I want them

I almost went out for a chip butty ... I would be a bad influence on you "

Bad influence woop woop I'm liking the sound of that more than crisps right now

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Usually somewhere where tables army close by each other so you can chat a little more freely ....somewhere central is good also so a night can end be made of it too.

Have you been on the booze

Irnbru , crisps, watching tv and posting on here ... along with a pinch of thickness

lol can you come over with your crisps, my diet has lasted two days now you mentioned the word I want them

I almost went out for a chip butty ... I would be a bad influence on you

Bad influence woop woop I'm liking the sound of that more than crisps right now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IKEA....You can always check out some interior design if it falls flat.

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Or at least sample the meatballs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use a coffee shop nearby, just to see if the guys can carry on a conversation. If we are meeting a couple, a wee spot in town. Again, our focus is on spark and chemistry. Usually just drinks though, so gastropub us good, although we have met a couple on the social on a busy night!

On a side note.... Ginger's idea of viva Brazil is awesome. That would be a great meet up

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