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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just like Christmas new year can be a very lonely time for many who are not fortunate to be surrounded by family or may even well be estranged from thier familys .

Its a time to draw your family closer and tighten the bond .

Hopefully they might be forgunate enough to be invited into neighbours,or a wee party or maybe even get to attend a wee swinging club with friends.

But whatever they are dping give a wee thought to to those who are lonely as 2017 approaches.

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By * pie4you xWoman
over a year ago

narnia x

Here here

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Dam right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yep

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Abso Nawty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alone but never lonely.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always alone but rarely lonely, except Christmas Day. . that's a tough one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I've been alone on New Year in my whole life. It was hard but just have to get on with it.

As in life it is what you make it and we all have hard times and good times, always remember your good times and banish the bad - best way.

I hope everyone who are alone feel the same way and start afresh and enjoy their time from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I was one of them people for Xmas n new year not even as much as a Christmas card, but hey that's life I guess. I must admit this year for some reason was really hard but as I say that's life. Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that really sad

I'm sorry

But maybe make 2017 a year to put yourself out there not to fab but folk in general...pubs clubs or a hobby

Friends come into your life in all ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts on this time of year are simply don't expect anything then you can't be disappointed when exactly that happens. I'm not really into pubs etc guess I'm just a sad giffer but there is a silver lining and that is simply I wake every morning and thank the good lord I don't go hungry and I have a roof over my head and not sleeping rough every night so it pales to nothing really.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"My thoughts on this time of year are simply don't expect anything then you can't be disappointed when exactly that happens. I'm not really into pubs etc guess I'm just a sad giffer but there is a silver lining and that is simply I wake every morning and thank the good lord I don't go hungry and I have a roof over my head and not sleeping rough every night so it pales to nothing really. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other foot you dont have to be alone to feel lonely..... you can get that feeling in a room full of friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I was one of them people for Xmas n new year not even as much as a Christmas card, but hey that's life I guess. I must admit this year for some reason was really hard but as I say that's life. Onwards and upwards. "

Your post made me sad. I hope 2017 is kind to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe thank you I could do with a few correct numbers on the old lottery if the big cheese upstairs is reading this. X

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I do find Xmas and new year as a sign of who are your real friends. I find many people just stop keeping contact.

As someone who has moved around a lot, I've made and lost many "friends", so i feel your pain.

It's my first year living in Scotland, so let's hope fabbers and the friendly Scottish folk will welcome me and share a cuppa, or glass of red

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Just like Christmas new year can be a very lonely time for many who are not fortunate to be surrounded by family or may even well be estranged from thier familys .

Its a time to draw your family closer and tighten the bond .

Hopefully they might be forgunate enough to be invited into neighbours,or a wee party or maybe even get to attend a wee swinging club with friends.

But whatever they are dping give a wee thought to to those who are lonely as 2017 approaches. "

Don't wait until Christmas and New year to pull your family close , should we not being do that all year round ? after all we might not get the chance to do so if we wait

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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Don't wait until Christmas and New year to pull your family close , should we not being do that all year round ? after all we might not get the chance to do so if we wait "

Agreed, am gutted to have to wait till Easter time to go home back to France to see my mum and dad, not seen them since last June when my mum was unwell.

So, if you are close, don't wait xx

And I am on the belief that sometimes it is better to be alone than in bad company.

Big hugs to everyone.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Just like Christmas new year can be a very lonely time for many who are not fortunate to be surrounded by family or may even well be estranged from thier familys .

Its a time to draw your family closer and tighten the bond .

Hopefully they might be forgunate enough to be invited into neighbours,or a wee party or maybe even get to attend a wee swinging club with friends.

But whatever they are dping give a wee thought to to those who are lonely as 2017 approaches.

Don't wait until Christmas and New year to pull your family close , should we not being do that all year round ? after all we might not get the chance to do so if we wait "
oh trust me I dont.

Im very fortunate to have a very strong bond with my family but im fully aware not all are as fortunate

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Sadly I was one of them people for Xmas n new year not even as much as a Christmas card, but hey that's life I guess. I must admit this year for some reason was really hard but as I say that's life. Onwards and upwards. "

I'm exactly in the same situation as you.....but I don't dwell on it and its not easy so I just take each day as it comes..Rx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I was one of them people for Xmas n new year not even as much as a Christmas card, but hey that's life I guess. I must admit this year for some reason was really hard but as I say that's life. Onwards and upwards.

I'm exactly in the same situation as you.....but I don't dwell on it and its not easy so I just take each day as it comes..Rx "

Mrs R...((((((HUGS))))) for you. I like the fact you don't dwell on it...Life is for living so take each day as it comes and embrace it best you can...there are always others less fortunate...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would just like to say that this post was the most heart warming one i have ever read.

The tree goes up although you wonder why....xmas dinner, well its a sunday roast with crackers....you wake up in the morning...you dont open presents as there are none....watching the cars drive past with the family in them...off to see the in laws.....its only 10am, you have hours before you have to put your Brussels in the microwave.....3pm....Queens speech came and gone....dishes done....4pm....plan the telly....4.15.....telly off......4.30...." i wonder if she loves me"....4.45....nope no text back....next 4 hours....must stay awake..to early to go to sleep....move furniture....9pm...forgot where furniture is....fall over.....9.30pm....yep i can cook !....empty contents of cupboards into stir fry pan....toss it around for abit, turn music up and repeat......xx

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