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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It may just be me BUT sometimes I can't be bothered having meets and having sex all the time. I just want to chill and have some me time. Not get all dolled up and be well (cough cough) you know. I could be horny all day and then it just goes and tiredness takes over. Does this A- make me a shit swinger B- time waster C- lazy sod.

Is sex over rated?? It takes time and effort for a meet and I personally have to be in the mood.

What's your thoughts?? Do you just have sex and a meet for the hell of it? If your horny and made plans and then by the evening that horn goes and you change your mind do you still go and meet someone so your not classed as a "time waster".

Just a general enquiry no drama required. Pleaseeeeeeeee I'm too tired

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Sex is a by product of meeting folk I dont meet for sex I meet because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea wee have to shave our legs ect .when we can be watching corrie

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Think it's terrible that your not all ready In your sexiest lingerie awaiting your next guy to give him the best sexual experience he's ever likely to have had . ( affix tongue in cheek emoji firmly in place )

Do your own thing when you wish to party the guys will still be here .

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

For me sex is still quite a big deal. So I totally get where you are coming from. Its not just about effort being made it's also about being in the right frame of mind.

I am a rubbish swinger in fact I don't even class myself as one. I'd far rather happy ever after than sex with various different people. I want and need more of a connection for it to be properly satisfying as opposed to just mechanics to scratch an itch.

I am rather envious of people that are having lots of fun though. I wish I could be more like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

Don't judge.

Ignore those who judge you.

Do no harm, if at all possible.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Makes you human

Can't be up for it 24/7

If the guy is a nice guy he'll understand that, and rain check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've met before and there's enough connection to want to meet again )or repeatedly) for sex then there enough understanding that it takes 2 to tango and if 1 or other of the people is "off" for whatever reason its better to wait.

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By *loki the BoatbuilderMan
over a year ago

Kattegat

Both you girls have a good point, the hassle and challenge of getting all dressed up and ready, and being in the right frame of mind, and keeping the horn, can take a lot of effort, and tire out even just thinking about it can make you think to heck with it. Maybe its the loss of my mojo and my youth, would prefer to have the whole happy ever after and fun with the one person with whom a connection is made, seems after the honeymoon period, it gets a little difficult to keep the spark, before you know it the telly takes over, and the funs gone, maybe that's why I'm single

I do get envious of how much fun people are having, lucky devils.

May as well put me in the shit swinger catageory too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never have sex if I didn't want to..

Why would you?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"For me sex is still quite a big deal. So I totally get where you are coming from. Its not just about effort being made it's also about being in the right frame of mind.

I am a rubbish swinger in fact I don't even class myself as one. I'd far rather happy ever after than sex with various different people. I want and need more of a connection for it to be properly satisfying as opposed to just mechanics to scratch an itch.

I am rather envious of people that are having lots of fun though. I wish I could be more like that. "

This

I need to feel a connection too. Otherwise I'm just going through the motion for the sake of it, then it's no fun.

Socials work well though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

St funny i had a similar exprience on friday but my meet was going out drinking on friday with mates. Was up fir it till 7.30 i finish work at 8 and felt totally drained. I went had 5 pints was steaming and fell asleep in a taxi.

I should have taken your road, remember there needs to be a cinnection understanding, your not there just to please him, you are there for yourself and if you dont want to be there it will be a poor night for both involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is a by product of meeting folk I dont meet for sex I meet because"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for input folks just something I wondered really. My work is pretty intense so it all depends on my mood really. Even if I planned a meet a week in advance and then cancel midday I don't care if the guy goes in a strop. I would never just go through with it to make them happy. Hahaha I agree tho I don't actually see myself as a swinger cause I'm very vanilla, well vanilla with a slight dash of strawberry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly thing swinging ssightsare the hardest pplaces for it. Just go out chit have a beer chat to some randoms and be honest about what your llooking for, so much easier for a one of or a friend with bbenefits iItthink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly thing swinging ssightsare the hardest pplaces for it. Just go out chit have a beer chat to some randoms and be honest about what your llooking for, so much easier for a one of or a friend with bbenefits iItthink "

Have you already been on the beer

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Honestly thing swinging ssightsare the hardest pplaces for it. Just go out chit have a beer chat to some randoms and be honest about what your llooking for, so much easier for a one of or a friend with bbenefits iItthink

Have you already been on the beer "

Stutter finger I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly thing swinging ssightsare the hardest pplaces for it. Just go out chit have a beer chat to some randoms and be honest about what your llooking for, so much easier for a one of or a friend with bbenefits iItthink

Have you already been on the beer

Stutter finger I think "

I think I've broke my hand and u blame YOU!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl just has to do it sometimes a lazy day or some me time this is what I say usually a Sunday but on occasion other times

Yes I have my t shirt and shorts on no make up. And it's mid day and i have my hair in a messy bun your lucky I'm wearing a bra I'm a regular girly who sometimes just want to relax and chill xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A girl just has to do it sometimes a lazy day or some me time this is what I say usually a Sunday but on occasion other times

Yes I have my t shirt and shorts on no make up. And it's mid day and i have my hair in a messy bun your lucky I'm wearing a bra I'm a regular girly who sometimes just want to relax and chill xx"

Thank Christ cause I was thinking maybe it's Cause I'm getting auld. I rarely wear a bra prefer to wear vest top depending where I'm going

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