FabSwingers.com forum: Bitchin in full flow

By *earded villain OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Seems to be a load if bitching on here just now . Catty status updates about other site members .

Mental idea i know but how about just look after what you do and who you do it with and dont bother yer arse with what other people like , enjoy , need in their lives ?

It is ammusing tho lol

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mental idea i know but how about just look after what you do and who you do it with and dont bother yer arse with what other people like , enjoy , need in their lives ?

It is ammusing tho lol

Now, you're turn to apply that 'mental' idea

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Peace to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mental idea i know but how about just look after what you do and who you do it with and dont bother yer arse with what other people like , enjoy , need in their lives ?

It is ammusing tho lol

Now, you're turn to apply that 'mental' idea

Heheh heh Max - I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a load if bitching on here just now . Catty status updates about other site members .

Mental idea i know but how about just look after what you do and who you do it with and dont bother yer arse with what other people like , enjoy , need in their lives ?

It is ammusing tho lol

Some of the status updates send a chill up your spine.

Lots of damaged lonely folk on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of exasperated status updates lately but I agree that people are far too interested in what others are doing on here!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Profile status? Never see them, but this might because I don't look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly my thoughts op. Well said!

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By *alia2000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've missed them all so I'll definitely need to keep my eyes open

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Seen many over the years.

Op its best used as a filter on who to avoid and just let people get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just human nature.can't get on with everyone.battle of the wills bitching will happen in all forums of clubs etc.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Seems to be a load if bitching on here just now . Catty status updates about other site members .

Mental idea i know but how about just look after what you do and who you do it with and dont bother yer arse with what other people like , enjoy , need in their lives ?

It is ammusing tho lol

It's that time of the month , it'll pass

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It is what it is. Not really a very attractive quality to anyones personality i think. Best avoided x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate you all

Naw I'm kidding you all on

Always try to avoid it but you do see some catty remarks on the forum but at least one benefit about it, is that you find out a wee bit what the person making the not so nice comments is like and just best to avoid.

To the catty people on here, it wasn't me who wrote this, is was the person way above who forced me to do it, honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a load if bitching on here just now . Catty status updates about other site members .

Mental idea i know but how about just look after what you do and who you do it with and dont bother yer arse with what other people like , enjoy , need in their lives ?

It is ammusing tho lol

Doesn't just happen in status updates, happens in posts too and admin do fuck all about it. I have twice reported a post where a fab member has been insulted yet said post remains.

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wish that admin would do something about it. I'm getting horrendous abuse on here and no matter how many times I report it, nothing happens.

It's making me want to leave the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do guys give you all grief when you say your not interested, is that the problem people are having?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Profile status? Never see them, but this might because I don't look!"

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish that admin would do something about it. I'm getting horrendous abuse on here and no matter how many times I report it, nothing happens.

It's making me want to leave the site."

Are you getting abuse on the forum or by someone messaging?

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Block them. The day fab actually annoys my profile will be deleted. Right now it's highly amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin can't keep up with every complaint they get there are simply too many people on here I'm not sure how many admin there are but its not enough and those people have lives just like us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before but it says so much more about the poster than their target. Any status updates that name another member should be reported and removed by admin.

A lot of people need to grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it laughable grown men and woman acting like children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've said it before but it says so much more about the poster than their target. Any status updates that name another member should be reported and removed by admin.

A lot of people need to grow up!

I don't see the OP naming anyone.

But I do agree that naming another member on this site and on forums is totally wrong and unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've said it before but it says so much more about the poster than their target. Any status updates that name another member should be reported and removed by admin.

A lot of people need to grow up!

I don't see the OP naming anyone.

But I do agree that naming another member on this site and on forums is totally wrong and unnecessary."

I actually meant, those who post rogue status updates..not the OP hence I didn't say...OP.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

This place at times makes Carstairs look inviting for a breakaway to relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place at times makes Carstairs look inviting for a breakaway to relax."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've said it before but it says so much more about the poster than their target. Any status updates that name another member should be reported and removed by admin.

A lot of people need to grow up!

I don't see the OP naming anyone.

But I do agree that naming another member on this site and on forums is totally wrong and unnecessary.

I actually meant, those who post rogue status updates..not the OP hence I didn't say...OP.

I see what you meant now - sorry!

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

All I will say is......

If someone is messaging and annoying someone else....make the block button your best friend.

Apart from that....come and join me in my own little world. It's all smiles and giggles here

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"All I will say is......

If someone is messaging and annoying someone else....make the block button your best friend.

Apart from that....come and join me in my own small small world. It's all smiles and giggles here

Can I hear it's a small world after all playing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

Well what a total knob!

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

Well what a total knob!

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy."

Managed to enter that in the quote...duh!

What a total knob to be like that with you, obviously leads a boring unfulfilled life

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy."

Block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy."

Your feeding his abuse by replying and caring what he says.

Block, report, move on and don't give him a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly block, move on ,smile be happy ,have fun it's a fun site so just enjoy never mind the bitching if you let people see it bothers you the more they do it xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy.

Your feeding his abuse by replying and caring what he says.

Block, report, move on and don't give him a second thought.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Honestly block, move on ,smile be happy ,have fun it's a fun site so just enjoy never mind the bitching if you let people see it bothers you the more they do it xx

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By *earded villain OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

For clarity . The abusive messages and statuses about the girl above aint me nor anything to do with me

My original post was more a general observation of late than aimed at any particular person or persons .

Doesn't upset me at all infact its rather ammusing that people do get all offended and upset by other members

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

They are great, automatically on the "not even if my life depended on it" list without even clicking on their profile

Saves so much time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who actually gives a fuck? This isn't a stab at the op but folk that take this site so seriously that they feel the need to bitch and whinge and cause drama for other people need a check up from the neck up!

Tis the fucking season and all that!

C*nts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place at times makes Carstairs look inviting for a breakaway to relax."

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"For clarity . The abusive messages and statuses about the girl above aint me nor anything to do with me

My original post was more a general observation of late than aimed at any particular person or persons .

Doesn't upset me at all infact its rather ammusing that people do get all offended and upset by other members

Oh absolutely. Nothing to do with you at all!!!

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And I think admin have sorted it so I can't see the guy being nasty anymore...but yes. I should have blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy."

There's some vile people on here, even several on this post I've had issues with. Just wait until they find your Facebook and send you abuse about wanting to stab you, it's so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy.

There's some vile people on here, even several on this post I've had issues with. Just wait until they find your Facebook and send you abuse about wanting to stab you, it's so much fun

Nice to see you back lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's put 3 status updates now with my name in them saying I'm a bully and slagging people off. Oh and that I'm obsessed with him.

He's also sent me 9 abusive messages. Not threatening but they make me feel really upset.

I've reported every status update and every message.

I've not even been rude to him. Just told him that while he thinks I'm fat and disgusting, we are all entitled to fancy who we fancy.

There's some vile people on here, even several on this post I've had issues with. Just wait until they find your Facebook and send you abuse about wanting to stab you, it's so much fun

Nice to see you back lady x"

Aw thanks, we'll see how long it lasts

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

43 days 4 hrs and 26 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"43 days 4 hrs and 26 mins

Nah I only like even numbers, my bets on 42

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Result! Bully boy is no longer on the site! No need for people like that on the site.

I had a woman on here threaten to have me raped because she thought I'd stolen a guy from her...was terrifying realising she had found my Facebook as well. Came off facebook immediately and sent the threats to the police who were great.

That's terrible re stab threats. Honestly, go to the police. They didn't judge me even for being on here and we're fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing can justify threats or the behaviour complained of, but I find it interesting that one in particular on this thread has had numerous status' up attacking another's pictures in the last couple of days.

Suppose there are always three sides to a story...... the forum post, the third party and the actual truth.

Everyone should be able to have their profile as they like, use the site in a way that suits them and join in in the way that is best for them, but not if in any of that they deliberately seek to upset or attack someone else.

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I seem to remember you had a status up saying the same thing did you not? I only put it because she was the one threatening to have me raped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, strangely not. Mine are all about bulls at the moment, which is ironic.....

I really don't think that you can go around making accusations like that when you have used a status to reveal who that person is.

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