FabSwingers.com forum: what's your opinion

By *igtittedtease OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "

Just curious....will it make a difference to whether *you* think it's right or wrong based on the responses of others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everything should be done with family dignity in mind at a time like that......you decide what that is for yourself ......xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "
comfort sex hmmm not sure Id word it that way .

But its fine to still have sexual wants and needs after someone you have loved has passed away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wrong, it's a form of distraction. Enjoy and do what makes you feel better.

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By *igtittedtease OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex

Just curious....will it make a difference to whether *you* think it's right or wrong based on the responses of others?"

No it is just a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex

Just curious....will it make a difference to whether *you* think it's right or wrong based on the responses of others?

No it is just a question "

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

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By *igtittedtease OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex comfort sex hmmm not sure Id word it that way .

But its fine to still have sexual wants and needs after someone you have loved has passed away

Yeah I'm not to good at using the correct words and often get it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "
Absolutely not, get on with living your life.

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By *onniemMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

Not uncommon actually. A bit random but NYC saw a huge baby boom 9 months after 9/11. Reckon that mourning/comforting sex was rife in the city immediately after the attack. Who is anyone to judge? All different. Wrong thought I've had is how hot women look in black at funerals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No a dont think so atall every one has there own way of coping and by the sounds of it you are just wanting some human contact if you get what am saying? Dosnt matter if people think ots wrong anyway you just do whatever makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.

If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "

No,it is not wrong. There is no deeper form of closeness. It can also help with emotional release.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with my partner the night my father died.

It was one of those times when I can genuinely say we made love rather than fucked, I needed to feel that comfort and connection.

If you've had a loss then do whatever you can to find comfort x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you need to you need to

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By *erbymacMan
over a year ago

derby

Yes with the right person for the right reason have sex after a close bereavement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not wrong too comfort yourself and take your mind away from sad place.its probably quite health actually.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion..

Comfort sex would be the last thing on my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone deals with bereavement differently there's no right and wrong.x do wot helps ease sad times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could argue many things here... needing to feel close to someone... not saying sex equals closeness but it is intense and is losing someone. Going deeper sex is the act of creating life which in turn is part of a cycle... life and death are two sides to one coin... overall OP you will get a host of yes/no opinions... the only one that counts is in your own heart.

So sorry you've lost someone close btw, that is always hard. Be kind to yourself, they would want that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For most people any sense of loss/bereavement is difficult and a natural response is to seek comfort though either an emotional or physical bond, sex being an obvious answer to either or in some cases both.

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By *igtittedtease OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You could argue many things here... needing to feel close to someone... not saying sex equals closeness but it is intense and is losing someone. Going deeper sex is the act of creating life which in turn is part of a cycle... life and death are two sides to one coin... overall OP you will get a host of yes/no opinions... the only one that counts is in your own heart.

So sorry you've lost someone close btw, that is always hard. Be kind to yourself, they would want that xxx"

It was with someone I've known for over 3 years just made me feel bad because he said I was sick for meeting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can really say wat the would or wouldnt do till it happened to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry you've lost someone close btw, that is always hard. Be kind to yourself, they would want that xxx

It was with someone I've known for over 3 years just made me feel bad because he said I was sick for meeting him "

People often say things they don't mean and for many reasons... maybe because they are hurt themselves.. if you knew him for three years then you both shared things... people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime... be happy you cared for each other even if you didn't always get it right (just speculating there xxx) remember the good and don't beat yourself up about anything else. We are all fallible... it's called being human xxx

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