FabSwingers.com forum: How difficult for couple meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Crickey how difficult is it to get a couple meet mid week ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crickey how difficult is it to get a couple meet mid week ??? "

Single guy can accom if u want .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crickey how difficult is it to get a couple meet mid week ???

Single guy can accom if u want ."

Lol couple meet ??? Ty anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crickey how difficult is it to get a couple meet mid week ???

Single guy can accom if u want ."

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Very If neither can accom

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Can't get a meet even when we can accomodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself n hubby gave up as it's really hard to find genuine cpl to meet anytime next ever mind mid week lol

Saying that...we are rarely free now lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

The difficulty with couple meets is the more people involved have to like the look of each other. Sometimes we personally find I (fem) like the look of the other couple but male half not so much or vice versa. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When on as a couple and could accommodate we also found it very difficult...we just assumed it was us.

However as a single bi female open to meeting couples I still struggle...maybe it's just me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It's hard to sychronise 4 diaries, and as said above everyone has to be attracted to each other. I often find I'm attracted to the lady most of the time but less so the male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less difficult then trying to get any meet's as a single tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are having the same problem, but its more to do with fitting in meets with any spare time from family life on both sides

But it does make you wonder if the problem is with yourself

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like others have said hard to get diaries to match, attraction etc...

But mid-week is also a school night. Not everyone can get a babysitter during the week.

Also, people have the usual family commitments like footy, dancing etc...

Lots of stuff to juggle mid-week for some people.

Fingers crossed for you Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this hard to believe coming from Edinburgh or central belt! Dundee or Perth not great but Edinburgh and Glasgow good. Bruce and I always had many replies whenxwe.posted a meet and he is bi curious. We were always in the Glasgow area however in hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say that most of the meets we had didn't go past the social stage as I wasn't attracted to either the male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can and do meet midweek. But it is a great deal of hard work as with any meet. Have to like the look of the folk, do we all match the likes, and there is less choice if you like through the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - it can be rather tricky and it's not the problem getting the messages from couples.

Its fancying them both thats the problem for me!

I need to meet socially first in any case and get to know the couple to chat to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crickey how difficult is it to get a couple meet mid week ???

Single guy can accom if u want .

double

some people just don't get it

lolllllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a straight forward guy with girl then all then need to do is get on.

With a couple and a girl you have 3 people gotta get on and with a couple meeting a couple, you then have four people who all have to like each other, so it can be harder.

Plus midweek is harder as a lot of couples have kids, so they then have to arrange babysitter

But just prevail, I'm sure it would happen

XxX peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck

Its actually worse - couples tend to have kids at home, either their own or family relations kids....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck

Its actually worse - couples tend to have kids at home, either their own or family relations kids...."

totally agree

Infact over xmas period trying to have fun with a cpl or a girl is almost impossible although it may happed but usually just luck at the right place at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck

Its actually worse - couples tend to have kids at home, either their own or family relations kids...."

Fair enough,was only going by my own past experienceos as both a single and as a couple and by plans organised for this years xmas period.

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

There are logistical issues obviously but we have been lucky.

Go to a club / party,

get some veris,

Go again, meet some people,

follow up with who you fancy, get more veries...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs clubs and more clubs is our advice. They may not be everyone thing but personally we think the site is less than useless for meets. In 5-6 years on here we've had 1 meet purely organised through the site. Clubs essentially act as the initial social for us. We speak to people get to know them a bit and take it from there. Even if you meet folk and it never evolves to play or you go on a night and you don't find anyone suitable you can still have a good night socially

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By *antinsomefun44Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I need the doating grandparents to have their grandkiddies more often so i can at least arrange a meet lol. Hopefully in the new year sitters can be sorted xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the opposite issue .. weekend I have different priorities and not always in town so mid week between university, studies and work we are inundated with requests. .. We will send some your way if we are unable to oblige

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"Clubs clubs and more clubs is our advice. They may not be everyone thing but personally we think the site is less than useless for meets. In 5-6 years on here we've had 1 meet purely organised through the site. Clubs essentially act as the initial social for us. We speak to people get to know them a bit and take it from there. Even if you meet folk and it never evolves to play or you go on a night and you don't find anyone suitable you can still have a good night socially

Yep we have met one couple form here. (And to be fair we saw them on cam in the chat room). It's club meets and connections. People who are willing to get of their arse and not just be a keyboard Kevin

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I think it's probably the midweek part that's the biggest problem as there are loads of couples on here looking for meets. If everyone is working though then midweek could be pretty tricky. I know for us we like to make a big deal of our meets so it's usually a night out with a few drinks first and that means it's always a weekend for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might just be timing.

We can only really meet Saturday nights as thats the only night we don't have our boys, but can't accomodate as our 18yr old comes and goes as she pleases.

As for midweek, we rarely have a day off together as I'm at college f/t and currently working 2 p/t jobs, and Mr works f/t so our schedules generally clash.

I wouldn't take it personally, these things are usually worth the wait x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If its a straight forward guy with girl then all then need to do is get on.

With a couple and a girl you have 3 people gotta get on and with a couple meeting a couple, you then have four people who all have to like each other, so it can be harder.

Plus midweek is harder as a lot of couples have kids, so they then have to arrange babysitter

But just prevail, I'm sure it would happen

XxX peter

Aww hirsey shame you're no bi

, Christine xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need the doating grandparents to have their grandkiddies more often so i can at least arrange a meet lol. Hopefully in the new year sitters can be sorted xxxx"

Deffo a must guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys for all your comments, but still no messages to organise meets lol maybe it's us hee Heee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol u have enough verifications for someone that does not get shagged

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol u have enough verifications for someone that does not get shagged"

Mostly social hee hee xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on as a couple and could accommodate we also found it very difficult...we just assumed it was us.

However as a single bi female open to meeting couples I still struggle...maybe it's just me

It's not just you, something happened in fab, I know what but he'll if I know how to fix it or even explain it.

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Yes completely agree hard to meet a genuine couple on site. Plus the midweek meet is hard if working.

We have often put a meet up for a Saturday but never get replies from couples, we discussed this and came to conclusion that as we stipulate a social meet first this may put many off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like some good advice... now to find some socials

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