FabSwingers.com forum: girl troubles

By *r3mrs OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hey everyone,

Just thought we'd seek the advice of the scottish fab community to point us in the right direction.

Weve been on here a while but due to starting a little family only started playing in the last 6 months or so. Its been great fun and opened up fantasies that we never even considered before.

Weve done mmf meets and mrs has been lucky enough to have a few single meets. Our dilema is we cant seen to get anywhere with single females.

Were not silly or arrogant enough to think that we are anything special so we dont expect replies and we suppose the main stumbling block is that mrs isnt particularly into girls and although would consider letting other girls play with her, wouldnt be up for reciprocating.

Just wondering if were not following etiquette or if we need to be going about things a different way?

Coincidenty weve beeb to cj's once, loved it and hope to go back very soon.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Hi guys,

I think the problem you have is by your own admission the female isn't particularly into women! The majority of bi females on here would not meet with a couple in which the female half is only doing it to please their man.

Is your want in meeting, to meet another woman just so the male can have a threesome with two women? There is absolutely nothing wrong with this but I personally think it will be a struggle for you.

Good luck in your search xx

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I think you've summed it up in a nutshell. Most bi or gay ladies will not want to be anyone's experiment or a way to entertain someone's partner which is effectively what your looking for.

If your Mrs isn't into women then there's not an awful lot to gain for the other women as you'd effectively be asking her to give and not receive for your enjoyment.

I'm sorry if I seem harsh/blunt I definitely don't mean to cause any offence just being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

Is your want in meeting, to meet another woman just so the male can have a threesome with two women? There is absolutely nothing wrong with this but I personally think it will be a struggle for you.

Good luck in your search xx"
what she said

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By *igtittedteaseWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

Is your want in meeting, to meet another woman just so the male can have a threesome with two women? There is absolutely nothing wrong with this but I personally think it will be a struggle for you.

Good luck in your search xx"

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think you've summed it up in a nutshell. Most bi or gay ladies will not want to be anyone's experiment or a way to entertain someone's partner which is effectively what your looking for.

If your Mrs isn't into women then there's not an awful lot to gain for the other women as you'd effectively be asking her to give and not receive for your enjoyment.

I'm sorry if I seem harsh/blunt I definitely don't mean to cause any offence just being honest "

This

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I think you've summed it up in a nutshell. Most bi or gay ladies will not want to be anyone's experiment or a way to entertain someone's partner which is effectively what your looking for.

If your Mrs isn't into women then there's not an awful lot to gain for the other women as you'd effectively be asking her to give and not receive for your enjoyment.

I'm sorry if I seem harsh/blunt I definitely don't mean to cause any offence just being honest

This"

Yup. If I'm playing with a couple I expect to be playing with both. Likewise if we're looking for a lady to join us, our preference is for a bi lady, as C loves to watch too

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Might I suggest that you put on your profile that you're looking for straight FMF? There probably are ladies looking for that, but might assume couples want the ladies to play.

Good luck in your search!

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By *r3mrs OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks everyone, kinda confirmed what we thought, we'll maybe leave that one alone for the time being!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Thanks everyone, kinda confirmed what we thought, we'll maybe leave that one alone for the time being! "

Stick to mfm, you'll have no trouble there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you've summed it up in a nutshell. Most bi or gay ladies will not want to be anyone's experiment or a way to entertain someone's partner which is effectively what your looking for.

If your Mrs isn't into women then there's not an awful lot to gain for the other women as you'd effectively be asking her to give and not receive for your enjoyment.

I'm sorry if I seem harsh/blunt I definitely don't mean to cause any offence just being honest "

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Why not meet couples and swap rather than look for straight females for a threesum.

You could message the straight females rather than wait for them to message you.

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By *ullie 1980Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi girls not having any luck on fab don't know why it's not as if am a shy guy I'm no just new on here and learning can any girls tell me what I'm doing wrong I'm actually really easy to get on with can hold a conversation and know how to treat a lady advice please

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi girls not having any luck on fab don't know why it's not as if am a shy guy I'm no just new on here and learning can any girls tell me what I'm doing wrong I'm actually really easy to get on with can hold a conversation and know how to treat a lady advice please

My advice is make your own post

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

My advice is make your own post "

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