FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

Turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some with lots are from people they've met at socials,so that wouldn't bother me, it's the ones that's getting banged all the time I'd avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ppl have been on this for 5 plus years also so that should be taken into consideration, aswell as socials

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

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your on a swingers site the purpose of being here is to swing .

Whats too much to you might not be to others .

Just make up your own mind if lots of veris are too much for you .

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

"Some with lots are from people they've met at socials,so that wouldn't bother me, it's the ones that's getting banged all the time I'd avoid "

This

Also graffic verification think guy guy is boosting their ego or woman is just a wee dirty

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I never take too much notice of veris all I need to know is how the people are with me that's what counts. X

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

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What about hidden ones?

That's the ones I wonder about

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Some could have hundreds of veries but not show them so how would you possibly know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

banged like a loyalist drum I say!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Couldnt give a toss how many someone has all i want to know is if they are genuine and likely to turn up for a meet ...the person behind the profile i will make my mind up about them through chat and meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irrelevant

Do you like them

Do you get on with them

In the end that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it's possible to select which/how many you show then you could speculate that you really never know how many people someone has met. That's true whether it be one or one hundred and one... hence you make YOUR mind up about someone based on what you know/feel about said person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldnt give a toss how many someone has all i want to know is if they are genuine and likely to turn up for a meet ...the person behind the profile i will make my mind up about them through chat and meeting

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We have 40 ....over 15 years .. that's less than 3 a year. Is that ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Irrelevant

Do you like them

Do you get on with them

In the end that's all that matters "

Yes that's how it should be xx I thought this site was suppose to be fun people can meet have fun enjoy socials and play and explore fantasys it's a shame so many waste time judging others and not enough time enjoying xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

Turn off?

What about hidden ones?

That's the ones I wonder about

It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

Turn off?

What about hidden ones?

That's the ones I wonder about

It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some with lots are from people they've met at socials,so that wouldn't bother me, it's the ones that's getting banged all the time I'd avoid

This

Also graffic verification think guy guy is boosting their ego or woman is just a wee dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...

eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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spot on Bunkie

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Veris mean piss all,if u like look o someone n yr chatting happily.. Go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...

eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"

If only verifications were as eloquent as that. The vast majority are just poorly written, misogynistic crass.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...

eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"

Whats wrong with that i dont particularly want to know every sordid detail tbh

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...

eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"

Whats wrong with that i dont particularly want to know every sordid detail tbh

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me either !

I have in the past been sent what I class as too graphic for publiclication veris and have told the sender to redo it or wont display it lol .

I dont display any now except the odd social or party veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris mean piss all,if u like look o someone n yr chatting happily.. Go for it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

Turn off?

What about hidden ones?

That's the ones I wonder about

It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about

....best reply eeeevvveeeeerrr lol

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I tend to hide my from time to time as the majority are from straight friends & I don't want folk thinking I'm a closet hettie. Lol

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

Turn off?

What about hidden ones?

That's the ones I wonder about

It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about

Your safe Mrs D naebody noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri's are illogical, if you think about it because away from the site they could be fucking ten different guys or girls each day off tinder etc for all we know fab could just be an extension of their already sordid lifestyles, Christ for all we know every person on here could've a gigalow or escort

As long as they have been verified and don't come across as a bunny boiler, and are clean I don't mind

I know if I met someone and at that point decided something wasn't right about them or they were unhygienic I'd make my excuses and get the fuck out of there, no obligation to go through with what was planned out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...

eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"

Whats wrong with that i dont particularly want to know every sordid detail tbh

A simple thumbs up

suits me fine.

But what if you turn up and the other person is really unhygienic etc. And you walk out in fear of puking...

You can still verify them(despite being negative) but they wouldn't display that veri would they

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've loads. All social

Personally, I make my own mind up. Doesn't bother me if they have 1 or 100

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I tend to hide my from time to time as the majority are from straight friends & I don't want folk thinking I'm a closet hettie. Lol

You are though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vers are pointless anyway as everyone says the exact same thing more or less, so I don't usually read them unless I'm extremely bored that day

The people who have had a bad date won't bother writing one, and the ones who have had a good time will just exaggerate anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verification system works fine IN TANDEM WITH YOUR OWN COMMON SENSE.

Yes it's nice to see that someone has been verified... it's also nice to see they have pics etc... if you feel inclined to follow that up via exchange of pics, phone call - perhaps even cam (in chat or on sykpe etc)... a social meet if need be - then really all you can do is trust your instinct on what kind of person they are. Technically you probably won't ever know what they really do but if you do have a strict vetting process then you should meet those of a like mind and attitude... It's never failed me yet

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Lots of verifications...

Turn on?

Turn off?

What about hidden ones?

That's the ones I wonder about

It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about

Bet you have a lovely garden full of flowers. All that fertiliser lol

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Its the amount of veris that scare me.."only looking for 1 or 2 regulars' then suddenly 683 veris.now I'm not meeting anyone who's had more pricks than a pub dartboard!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Its the amount of veris that scare me.."only looking for 1 or 2 regulars' then suddenly 683 veris.now I'm not meeting anyone who's had more pricks than a pub dartboard!"
you know the saying you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince.

Maybe they just havent met their regular yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't be but...

I think loads on a guys profile dosnt look as bad than loads on a chicks profile..

There...I said it lol

If I'm totally honest yes it would put me off a bit if all the veris are close together or varied in shape/ sizes ..screams any holes a goal to me

But hey...that's just my take on it

Everyone's diffrent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vers are pointless anyway as everyone says the exact same thing more or less, so I don't usually read them unless I'm extremely bored that day

The people who have had a bad date won't bother writing one, and the ones who have had a good time will just exaggerate anyway "
I've wrote a veri for a guy that was a total tosser and worded it that way, shame he never did publish it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Id never leave a nasty veri for anyone if anything id choose to not verify giving them my reasons or do a simple veri saying met for a coffee & leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy was a tosser though, and I wanted him to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An overrated concept that's open to abuse ( I know I've none as yet but been well verified in the past! )

I know I'm genuine, it's just getting back in the game isn't the easiest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you only say the good stuff though,surely you want to give an accurate account of the person good or bad

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Was brought up with manners if nothing nice to say then say nothing at all

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Was brought up with manners if nothing nice to say then say nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought up with manners too, very good ones at that, but why sugar coat things fgs..

If someone turned up not being the person they say they were , you wouldn't let him know you weren't happy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many on here can't handle straight talking lol... Too many ass licking goes on, speak yer mind and grow a pair

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Id never leave a nasty veri for anyone if anything id choose to not verify giving them my reasons or do a simple veri saying met for a coffee & leave it at that "

If you leave a bad veri they just wont show it ...but it'll say on their profile and just add to the veris they have ...so would be pointless leaving 1 IMO

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

I quite like reading verifications. Gives some idea of what the person is like. Especially if the profile isn't very detailed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you leave a bad one re their B.O then maybe they won't publish it but it might encourage them to buy a can of deodorant for next meet

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I quite like reading verifications. Gives some idea of what the person is like. Especially if the profile isn't very detailed. "

I like looking at the pics

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I was brought up with manners too, very good ones at that, but why sugar coat things fgs..

If someone turned up not being the person they say they were , you wouldn't let him know you weren't happy ?"
As I said previously id let them know yes but Id certainly not feel the need of being nasty by doing them a veri ..there would be no point as it more than likely wouldnt be displayed anyway so there would be no point to it.

A simple thanks for coming to meet me but I dont want to take things any further would be the kinder thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess that's your way but I won't be changing the way I do it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I quite like reading verifications. Gives some idea of what the person is like. Especially if the profile isn't very detailed.

I like looking at the pics

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We know

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Guess that's your way but I won't be changing the way I do it "
yes thats my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't see the point of people not being honest on here

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

"I quite like reading verifications. Gives some idea of what the person is like. Especially if the profile isn't very detailed.

I like looking at the pics

I really like looking at *your* pictures

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Just don't see the point of people not being honest on here"
me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Summit we both agree on

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Summit we both agree on

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