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How frikkin annoyin are friends invites with no message why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone agree?

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yup!!...

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By *ornyrusCouple
over a year ago

motherwell

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And you say "cheers for the invite,what might you want?" and you get,,,,"eh" in reply, sorts that oot then, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i agree as well really annoying most them just wanna view pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree, we put in our profile that if we do get a friend invite we will wait for them to go offline then perv their pics before removing them as a friend again, only had 2 invites since

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By *orteMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Guilty but it is usualy due to a sausage fingers phone type accident.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup same here we get loads of invites from folk we have not even spoken to all just get the delete treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could not agree more, if we get one from someone who we have never even seen or spoken to before we don't even look at thier profile....DELETE hit right away.

Another annoying one is folk who do mannage to get on friends list .....then compleete silence from them .....even in the chat rooms .....come on people MANNERS cost nothing....!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, we just delete them, there time there wasting,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother us in the slightest, what's the harm? Look at them and if you don't like, delete them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well as i said, you reply with a civil, "cheers for the friends click,how might i help/hows things?" and you get "eh"? as a response, was'nt a trick question put to them,lol

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore winks , they are just lazy if they are that interested why dont they chat. Dont accept friends invites either if i havent met or at least chatted for a while .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it dose seam a lot do ignore your profile as i receive 1 from a couple, an i have no interest in Playing with a Couple;

it clearly states on the Profile.

I no i can block them if i wanted to but it dose means if some was to organize a social meet etc. I wont receive an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the people that send a friends invite over n over n over again... I mean don't they get the hint lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it dose seam a lot do ignore your profile as i receive 1 from a couple, an i have no interest in Playing with a Couple;

it clearly states on the Profile.

I no i can block them if i wanted to but it dose means if some was to organize a social meet etc. I wont receive an invite"

Most of the scotland socials are advertised in the scotland forum and are not on an invite only basis , so go ahead and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it dose seam a lot do ignore your profile as i receive 1 from a couple, an i have no interest in Playing with a Couple;

it clearly states on the Profile.

I no i can block them if i wanted to but it dose means if some was to organize a social meet etc. I wont receive an invite

Most of the scotland socials are advertised in the scotland forum and are not on an invite only basis , so go ahead and block "
yes i am aware of that.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i just delete the invite if never chatted or mesaged before

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

one that annoy me more are the ones who have chatted to you then you dont heear from them just know they sitting knocking one of to your pix hence why if they havent soken to me for more than two weeks i delete them ...and funny how as soon as you do they mail asking why they have been deleted lol

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It really really annoy's me, would take them 2minute's to write a message. Anyway i just delete till they do! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just block and delete - says on profile i will do so, so no matter who they are they get blocked. Could be Michael Schumacher i'm kicking into touch but if he cant READ i dont want him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people that send a friends invite over n over n over again... I mean don't they get the hint lol"

Hint taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah very

although if you accpet late at night and there verified with pics its a good way of having a perv then deleting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah very

although if you accpet late at night and there verified with pics its a good way of having a perv then deleting them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If i maybe said in my profile, "my pvt pics are of my pride n joy stamp collection"? Thats gotta work, surely,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like friends!.....but hey I'm a guy so I would say that. I do hold back on the friends bit though until invited myself or a little cyber connection has been forged at least. I think it's more complicated for couples looking for couples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like friends!.....but hey I'm a guy so I would say that. I do hold back on the friends bit though until invited myself or a little cyber connection has been forged at least. I think it's more complicated for couples looking for couples? "

Quite confident couples message one another before agreeing "friends listing" might be a good idea.

If some random person walked up to you as you got out your car and said "wohh dont shut the door can i sit in it" you'd say f... off would'nt you?

Thats my point, introduce yerself first, all i mean, its no difficult!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think some people's got a right cheek when they don't even have any pics in there "Private pics".....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your standing in a bar on a busy saturday nite, and sumone says "will you be my fwend" again, youd think, ohh ffs yer mental!!!

Same goes with random invites from nowhere on here !!! GET real!

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i clearly state dont send friends i still get some dont read profiles or think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the single guys (the genuine ones) do you not think its the only way to get noticed?

i mean, females on teh site get so many messages that ur lucky if ur message gets read. so if you send a friends invite at least they might go onto ur profile and if they like the look of you then its accepted and hopefully chat can lead from there.

i get the point you made about then sending a message n then no chat bein given.

just my opinion on this, not criticising or having a go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most that get a friends invite think "ohh have they messaged to even say sent a friends invite" nope!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most just want to look at the pvt pis-ier guys looking for wank material. Its sipmle to either delete or reply-thanks for the invite-now tell me why I should be your friend. Most guys dont read profiles-their primary purpose is to wank or maybe they think we are all slags and all they have to do is ask for us to open legs etc lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"for the single guys (the genuine ones) do you not think its the only way to get noticed?

i mean, females on teh site get so many messages that ur lucky if ur message gets read. so if you send a friends invite at least they might go onto ur profile and if they like the look of you then its accepted and hopefully chat can lead from there.

i get the point you made about then sending a message n then no chat bein given.

just my opinion on this, not criticising or having a go "

I see that, but it seens lazy and if it comes across as being lazy in communicating, folks might think you'd be lazy about various other elements of swinging.

Just an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one today but it doesn't bother me so much as it doesn't happen to often. I agree it is wrong when it takes a min or two to send a message.

Feel for couples and females for the spam they must get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very short friends list.......

I only accept friends after I've spoken to them for a while and I know they are genuine.....Do not post friends invites period....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real annoying invites from folk who have never spoken or met you are from those who's profile first line reads...

"NO unsolisited friends invites .... they will be deleeted and senders blocked".....

Talk about do not do as we do do as we SAY !!!!!

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