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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many have found the thrill of the chase superb but the end result was nothing to what was expected.in a sexual way ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a time ...

Or attended social...and they are soooo not what they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many times, especially on Fab.

The anticipation and flirting made way for a fizzle in the bedroom rather than fireworks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if we chat too much online...the anticipation fizzles out for me too meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if we chat too much online...the anticipation fizzles out for me too meet lol"

Yeah I've had that, or where the flirting has fizzled out, that initial "must have you now" wanes and you end up chatting about shopping at Asda

There's a short time frame between chatting enough to feel comfortable and missing the moment.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Had a mix of both. Some last minute impromptus meets have been amazing . Other times planned meets have been an anticlimax so to speak .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many a time ...

Or attended social...and they are soooo not what they say "
that must be a tad awkward ,more so when your jaw drops on seeing him or her .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many times, especially on Fab.

The anticipation and flirting made way for a fizzle in the bedroom rather than fireworks "
there is nothing worse more so when they ask you if you enjoyed it and would you like to meet up again

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Got to be a 2 way thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's different for men and women - men generally aren't fussed. Women tend to like words which build up the anticipation during the chase.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

I love the anticipation of a meet. But usually lives up to expectations

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Sometimes people's online persona is very different to the actual people in reality ... I think one reason why the chase and the reality are different.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Sometimes people's online persona is very different to the actual people in reality ... I think one reason why the chase and the reality are different. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always worried the real life doesn't match the well edited and posed profile photos....but by that point I try and dazzle them with my personality so they forget

It comes down to chemistry for me, and that can't be conveyed online. Which is why I always insist on a social first. It's worked both ways, great online communication, fizzled in real life. But then there's been a few who's messages haven't ignited anything but in each others presence the chemistry was electric and I've been very pleasantly surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point..."

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina "

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"How many have found the thrill of the chase superb but the end result was nothing to what was expected.in a sexual way ..."

Personally it has not been my experience on Fab. The actions spoke louder than the words during the chase and that's the way it should be.

I don't anticipate a meet, I don't plan how it's gonna go, I don't expect to have my socks blown off! I go with the flow and adjust and improvise.

That has not let me down yet.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x"

Cool. Positive attitude is the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many have found the thrill of the chase superb but the end result was nothing to what was expected.in a sexual way ...

Personally it has not been my experience on Fab. The actions spoke louder than the words during the chase and that's the way it should be.

I don't anticipate a meet, I don't plan how it's gonna go, I don't expect to have my socks blown off! I go with the flow and adjust and improvise.

That has not let me down yet. "

I'd say your in the minority, mind you each lassie on here must get 100+ messages a day so it must be tough to find the decent ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x

Cool. Positive attitude is the way "

I'm ready and willing x

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x"

If your nose is sore your not doing it right

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"How many have found the thrill of the chase superb but the end result was nothing to what was expected.in a sexual way ...

Personally it has not been my experience on Fab. The actions spoke louder than the words during the chase and that's the way it should be.

I don't anticipate a meet, I don't plan how it's gonna go, I don't expect to have my socks blown off! I go with the flow and adjust and improvise.

That has not let me down yet.

I'd say your in the minority, mind you each lassie on here must get 100+ messages a day so it must be tough to find the decent ones x"

That must be the pretty lassies lol I don't get 100 plus messages a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x

If your nose is sore your not doing it right "
hahahahahahahaha??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x

If your nose is sore your not doing it right hahahahahahahaha??"

Clearly...

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x

If your nose is sore your not doing it right

"

Not everyone is lucky to have a sky remote, or Lynx deo you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Word has it a steak bakes the new in thing ,lynx cans are sooooooo last year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Next time i come see a lady in south lanarkshire buy a steak bake i will burst out laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chase is tiring on here, I'm still trying to get to that end point...

A 2 week chase and your tired already lol doesn't say much for your stamina

Lol, too many dead ends, my nose is getting sore! I didn't say I'd given up though x

If your nose is sore your not doing it right

Not everyone is lucky to have a sky remote, or Lynx deo you know "

I mean sky remotes are like £20, I've had my butler change it from my iPhone ever since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally yea, met a fem at cjs few months back..total let down, her pics must have been well out of date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many have found the thrill of the chase superb but the end result was nothing to what was expected.in a sexual way ..."

Not so much the sexual expectations but the visual expectations and alas all too true on many occasions.

Why ppl can't update their pics is beyond me. Like I'm not gonna notice they're 20 yrs older or 6 stone heavier.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Never have any sexual expectations as each meet is different but having chatted to someone for over 3 years before we actually met didn't really do it for any us when we actually did! On the other hand meeting someone over one would you like to meet tonight message was a phenomenal night. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many have found the thrill of the chase superb but the end result was nothing to what was expected.in a sexual way ...

Not so much the sexual expectations but the visual expectations and alas all too true on many occasions.

Why ppl can't update their pics is beyond me. Like I'm not gonna notice they're 20 yrs older or 6 stone heavier. "
Dare say that must happen a lot on here and also the fact they use someone else as their photo. What you see is what you get might not be true on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the thrill of the Chase great, but sadly just got to the screen test stage....

Never got to meet Bradley....

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