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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right folks, I get that it's down to the guys (mostly) to send the first message and hope for a reply, that's a given with the ratio on here, what I don't get is why, sometimes, when we do get a reply, it's one word answers with no questions or interest shown in return?? It's all just 'yes' or 'not much'...etc. Am I the only guy that finds this quite nippy? I understand some people have loads to get through but c'mon, we've made an effort, surely it should be reciprocated?

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Right folks, I get that it's down to the guys (mostly) to send the first message and hope for a reply, that's a given with the ratio on here, what I don't get is why, sometimes, when we do get a reply, it's one word answers with no questions or interest shown in return?? It's all just 'yes' or 'not much'...etc. Am I the only guy that finds this quite nippy? I understand some people have loads to get through but c'mon, we've made an effort, surely it should be reciprocated? "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha, well played

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty...

But only if I'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guilty...

But only if I'm not interested "

Honestly, just tell us straight, it's less infuriating! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"K "

Haha, aye Cheers!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Women have one hand in their underwear when replying, so it's too much to have to reply with a whole paragraph

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women have one hand in their underwear when replying, so it's too much to have to reply with a whole paragraph "

No excuse! It's guys that can't multi task!! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty...

But only if I'm not interested

Honestly, just tell us straight, it's less infuriating! Haha"
if only it was that easy..

Sorry no thanks..

Why...

Not my type Sorry

What's your type...

Not you sorry...

Stuck up bitch..

Erm...ok good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guilty...

But only if I'm not interested

Honestly, just tell us straight, it's less infuriating! Hahaif only it was that easy..

Sorry no thanks..

Why...

Not my type Sorry

What's your type...

Not you sorry...

Stuck up bitch..

Erm...ok good luck "

Hahahahaha, honestly, I think it's just better to be blocked if they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then...you get guys starting forum posts about...I'm blocked and no idea why???

lol

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Baws

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Then...you get guys starting forum posts about...I'm blocked and no idea why???

lol "

Haha what she said

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

When you're trying to respond to several messages it's not possible to give lengthy answers.

Guys then send a second message if you don't respond fast enough to the first message which then increases the number of nessages you're trying to respond to!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And am guilty of it.

Wanna fuck? Nope.

Seriously, sometimes I have no idea what to reply to some of the messages I get! But I try to stay polite and give a one word answer.

Short and precise

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Sometimes one word is all thats needed.

Wanna meet-no

Wanna chat-no

Fancy a fuck-no

Can I lick your nipples -no

Effort = conversation

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Right folks, I get that it's down to the guys (mostly) to send the first message and hope for a reply, that's a given with the ratio on here, what I don't get is why, sometimes, when we do get a reply, it's one word answers with no questions or interest shown in return?? It's all just 'yes' or 'not much'...etc. Am I the only guy that finds this quite nippy? I understand some people have loads to get through but c'mon, we've made an effort, surely it should be reciprocated? "
why perhaps they have zero intrest in you. If you feel they aint behaving az you would like pass them by

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right folks, I get that it's down to the guys (mostly) to send the first message and hope for a reply, that's a given with the ratio on here, what I don't get is why, sometimes, when we do get a reply, it's one word answers with no questions or interest shown in return?? It's all just 'yes' or 'not much'...etc. Am I the only guy that finds this quite nippy? I understand some people have loads to get through but c'mon, we've made an effort, surely it should be reciprocated? why perhaps they have zero intrest in you. If you feel they aint behaving az you would like pass them by"

Thanks very much Mr Pitt. I'll take it under advisement...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

[Removed by poster at 19/11/16 21:07:36]

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Never a mr just dirk will do als away getting the biere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes one word is all thats needed.

Wanna meet-no

Wanna chat-no

Fancy a fuck-no

Can I lick your nipples -no

Effort = conversation "
lol @ can I Lick your nipples

Brilliant lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sometimes one word is all thats needed.

Wanna meet-no

Wanna chat-no

Fancy a fuck-no

Can I lick your nipples -no

Effort = conversation lol @ can I Lick your nipples

Brilliant lol"
thats the clean one others have not been so tame lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a reply though, maybe not what is expected or desired, but still.

Maybe they're just busy and give a quick reply to show they've actually seen the message. Or maybe they're just not interested.

Either way you should just state your interest and then leave it up to them to reply. Don't stress out about it.

Lx

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

I can be guilty of it sometimes, usually cause I've received a message of absolutely no effort, that consist of about 3 words....

Ok, "hi, howz u?" Isn't rude, but its not exactly high effort, if you reply along the lines of "not bad".... thats an opening for them to follow up with a message that'll actually instigate a conversation....

If someone messages me then its up to them to get a convo flowing, if i message someone i make an effort to do this. Too many people send a one line message and expect you to reply in depth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

There are some people who have a desire to make the effort, and there are others who don't.

This is prevalent in all aspects of life.

I'm learning to not worry about it, as I'm absolutely certain the people that don't make the effort don't give it a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word answers beat getting your message deleted without reply.

But only just.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,"
your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol"

Says who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

Says who?"

Bit cold

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

Says who?"
you stop and ask stragers in the street how they and their family are then ask for a shag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol"

Says who hahaha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

Says who hahaha"
okay I stand corrected ... each to their own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

Says who?you stop and ask stragers in the street how they and their family are then ask for a shag ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

Says who?you stop and ask stragers in the street how they and their family are then ask for a shag ?"
no answer to that .that defo made me look bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone in the street. You say.Hi,hows you,the family, you dont hit them with an essay. ?,?,your not trying to meet & shag the person in the street tho lol

Says who?

Bit cold "
you got the kettle on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I hate writing screeds of stuff and in addition don't like long messages from anyone so not a problem for me. As long as the message is polite that's all I am concerned about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty...

But only if I'm not interested

Honestly, just tell us straight, it's less infuriating! Hahaif only it was that easy..

Sorry no thanks..

Why...

Not my type Sorry

What's your type...

Not you sorry...

Stuck up bitch..

Erm...ok good luck "

Think we must get mails from the same guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i get a one word answer back i just leave it at that. At least they replied i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ask a direct question then sometimes a simple yes/no/not much etc, is all that is required in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you ask a direct question then sometimes a simple yes/no/not much etc, is all that is required in return."

Fair enough, but if you try to engage in conversation, or say something complimentary, and get a monosyllabic reply, it is a little disheartening, especially since there is a thread about "cock or conversation", and most of the respondents claim to favour conversation. I've attempted communication with some of those people in the past, and had messages deleted without reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you ask a direct question then sometimes a simple yes/no/not much etc, is all that is required in return.

Fair enough, but if you try to engage in conversation, or say something complimentary, and get a monosyllabic reply, it is a little disheartening, especially since there is a thread about "cock or conversation", and most of the respondents claim to favour conversation. I've attempted communication with some of those people in the past, and had messages deleted without reply.

"
k

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"

Fair enough, but if you try to engage in conversation, or say something complimentary, and get a monosyllabic reply, it is a little disheartening, especially since there is a thread about "cock or conversation", and most of the respondents claim to favour conversation. I've attempted communication with some of those people in the past, and had messages deleted without reply.

"

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

This, this, this and completely this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how a lot of the one word replies come from profiles that say winks are lazy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but if you try to engage in conversation, or say something complimentary, and get a monosyllabic reply, it is a little disheartening, especially since there is a thread about "cock or conversation", and most of the respondents claim to favour conversation. I've attempted communication with some of those people in the past, and had messages deleted without reply.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

This, this, this and completely this!"

Superb! Perfectly correct my man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you ask a direct question then sometimes a simple yes/no/not much etc, is all that is required in return.

Fair enough, but if you try to engage in conversation, or say something complimentary, and get a monosyllabic reply, it is a little disheartening, especially since there is a thread about "cock or conversation", and most of the respondents claim to favour conversation. I've attempted communication with some of those people in the past, and had messages deleted without reply.

"

I just find sometimes there is only a one word answer, if you want to start a conversation ask an open question.

I used to take time to reply to everyone but, having had some vile abuse for daring to say no I don't always now.

Also if all the message states is "Hi" I usually don't reply either, harsh maybe but just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Cause "

Lol x ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty...

But only if I'm not interested

Honestly, just tell us straight, it's less infuriating! Hahaif only it was that easy..

Sorry no thanks..

Why...

Not my type Sorry

What's your type...

Not you sorry...

Stuck up bitch..

Erm...ok good luck "

Exactly this...

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