FabSwingers.com forum: A poll

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm meant to have a meet tomorrow night. Not heard back from her (it's not been ages and nothing bad happened).

We've been busy and not had much chat in the last week and have tried to meet several times before... Will it happen tomorrow?

Yes or no lol.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd say no, sorry to say.

Unless it falls into the 3rd time lucky category? lol

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an optimist but have to say... with Mandy on this one but fingers crossed. Sometimes things get in the way of keeping contact .

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Honestly? Don't think so but I hope I'm proved wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like yer screwed..or not as the case may be,

Hope it works out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers crossed for you

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you're not both counting down the 'sleeps', then perhaps not.

However, always expect to be pleasantly surprised!

Good luck mate.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If there's not a lot of chat going on I'd probably assume she's lost interest tbh. Might be wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect the best but prepare for the worst

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

No,move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sounds like a time waster op.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Same thing happened to me today for tonight.

Have some respect for yourself OP.

The guy was supposed to confirm this morning and he didn't!!!

I have a real life to organise. Was he expecting me to wait for him to confirm when he wants.. I think not.

So I messaged him and said its cancelled as I didn't hear back.

It shows disrespect for my time and my person.

You change your mind, fine, just get the balls to message.

So OP, only you know if You are willing for her to wave her little finger and jump.

My opinion, after being let down today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away m8,if your gut is telling you something isn't right then trust your instinct.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

why not just drop her an email and ask if your plans for tomorrow are still on or not ?

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Mine Aye, Mibbe naw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same thing happened to me today for tonight.

Have some respect for yourself OP.

The guy was supposed to confirm this morning and he didn't!!!

I have a real life to organise. Was he expecting me to wait for him to confirm when he wants.. I think not.

So I messaged him and said its cancelled as I didn't hear back.

It shows disrespect for my time and my person.

You change your mind, fine, just get the balls to message.

So OP, only you know if You are willing for her to wave her little finger and jump.

My opinion, after being let down today lol

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plenty more would love to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't get your hopes up I'm sad to say

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By *ornyStew77Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Having just been cancelled on myself for tonight all I can say is good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys can be just as bad... I got stood up after weeks of messaging with new message to cancel. He did however message a day after the meet saying his kid broke his wrist and he was sorry . Fair enough, but he also forgot that he told me he was single with no kids Haha .. block and move on

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Have to say i have been very lucky in meets over the years any meets planned have always come off never been stood up or meet cancelled due to lady going quiet

law of averages says my luck will run out at some point but living the dream at the moment lol long may it continue

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"why not just drop her an email and ask if your plans for tomorrow are still on or not ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not an idiot I have sent a conformation message which currently still not replied too but not uncommon. I have a brain wouldn't wait for her to confirm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me I wouldn't be chasing her by sending her a message

Let her come to you and if she don't then her loss

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm not an idiot I have sent a conformation message which currently still not replied too but not uncommon. I have a brain wouldn't wait for her to confirm lol "

No one said you were, we all commented based on the info you gave us and from personal experiences and views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sakes

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By *igtittedteaseWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would wait till later tonight if haven't heard from her then I'd assume meet was off

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

What happened the several other times you tried to meet? Why didn't they happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't sound likely,but you never know n it's not over till the fab lady sings(or not!)

Aw the best

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By *jolMan
over a year ago

Angus

"Same thing happened to me today for tonight.

Have some respect for yourself OP.

The guy was supposed to confirm this morning and he didn't!!!

I have a real life to organise. Was he expecting me to wait for him to confirm when he wants.. I think not.

So I messaged him and said its cancelled as I didn't hear back.

It shows disrespect for my time and my person.

You change your mind, fine, just get the balls to message.

So OP, only you know if You are willing for her to wave her little finger and jump.

My opinion, after being let down today lol

Extremely well put Max!!!

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