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whats the problem with winking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I use the wink button regularly , it seams its almost frowned upon . What's the views on winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, but I am all for winking.

Surely it would be better to send a wink, and if you get one back, then send a message?!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I use the wink button regularly , it seams its almost frowned upon . What's the views on winking "
I like a good wink shows interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats what I think too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah love a good wank..wink**

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Totally agree, but I am all for winking.

Surely it would be better to send a wink, and if you get one back, then send a message?! "
that's what I do

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

I am a happy winker

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Who frowns upon it? If I get a wink and like the look of them I always message back a thanks X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who frowns upon it? If I get a wink and like the look of them I always message back a thanks X"

Wink and the whole world winks with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know its a kinky site when people are offended by a wink but think nothing of bombarding you with cock pics!

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I love a good wink. Fuck! Typo

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Personally, I rarely look at my winks or look at me list.

I prefer a message if the person is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as above. "

Thats a girl thing

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Same as above. "

I think as single ladies that's common, for blokes I think they see a wink as a way to get off first base, test the water before they message (I'm not a bloke so can't speak for them ) but that's our experience of receiving them. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a vigorous winker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like whoever winked...il wink back..

If not ..I don't

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like whoever winked...il wink back..

If not ..I don't

Simple "

This is just waiting for an awkward message below where someone says "you didn't wink back at me....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

Well...if I didn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete without looking

I much prefer a decent message

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Nice to get a wink back though

Or message even lol

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians

Notice most winks are Male! A wink to us shows Lack of effort it shows they never read our profile and they get ignored or blocked saves wasting time in the future. you dont walk up to a female or a couple in a bar and expect a fuck because you winked at them do you? you need some chat up line.. Effort!!

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

It's an ice breaker

A show of interest to see if it is reciprocal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Notice most winks are Male! A wink to us shows Lack of effort it shows they never read our profile and they get ignored or blocked saves wasting time in the future. you dont walk up to a female or a couple in a bar and expect a fuck because you winked at them do you? you need some chat up line.. Effort!! "
but try being a guy sending out loads of messages and getting no reply...?must admit if I were a single guy on here I'd wink who I liked...as I said...if they like the look of you...they will wink back...then take it from there

Guys have it hard on here

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Notice most winks are Male! A wink to us shows Lack of effort it shows they never read our profile and they get ignored or blocked saves wasting time in the future. you dont walk up to a female or a couple in a bar and expect a fuck because you winked at them do you? you need some chat up line.. Effort!! but try being a guy sending out loads of messages and getting no reply...?must admit if I were a single guy on here I'd wink who I liked...as I said...if they like the look of you...they will wink back...then take it from there

Guys have it hard on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The i

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Nothing wrong with winks ..giving or receiving

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By *eekingSinCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's an ice breaker

A show of interest to see if it is reciprocal"

We agree. Obvs single fems are going to see it as laziness when someone sends a wink but for us, we see it as a quick polite way of showing an interest. Plus there's no awkwardness for the recipient feeling like they have to reply to a message if they arn't feeling it. Works for us anyway.

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"It's an ice breaker

A show of interest to see if it is reciprocal

We agree. Obvs single fems are going to see it as laziness when someone sends a wink but for us, we see it as a quick polite way of showing an interest. Plus there's no awkwardness for the recipient feeling like they have to reply to a message if they arn't feeling it. Works for us anyway. "

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By *ady PenWoman
over a year ago

East coast

I have to admit, I don't even look at them or who's looked at me to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Notice most winks are Male! A wink to us shows Lack of effort it shows they never read our profile and they get ignored or blocked saves wasting time in the future. you dont walk up to a female or a couple in a bar and expect a fuck because you winked at them do you? you need some chat up line.. Effort!! but try being a guy sending out loads of messages and getting no reply...?must admit if I were a single guy on here I'd wink who I liked...as I said...if they like the look of you...they will wink back...then take it from there

Guys have it hard on here "

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Winks are cool. Try to respond to all messages but with a wink we only respond if interested in chatting further. Pretty low impact all around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried a few winks... no interest back. Maybe we're not to every ones taste or maybe people think it's a lazy way to make aquaintence. Who know.

Surely a wink is good manners... knocking on the door before saying hello. ..

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We like a good wink, and use it regularly. It sparks interest, which can only be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use winks if interested. See what happens bit some days you get loads and don't have the time to work through them all.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

I dont mind a wink, the way i look at it is i get a wink and like the look of the winker i'll wink back, winking back to me is a way of saying " yeah, maybe and theres the door open to message me".....

Its when you get a wink from a blank profile, what the fucks that about? Its an icebreaker/attention grabber, hows that gonna work when you can only see a sillhouette and if your lucky some words.....

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Who frowns upon it? If I get a wink and like the look of them I always message back a thanks X"

I've seen many profiles stating they regard a wink as a lazy effort . . there are quite a few hat frown on a wink . . .I personally see them as a nice wee icebreaker. . shows someone has caught your eye.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Who frowns upon it? If I get a wink and like the look of them I always message back a thanks X

I've seen many profiles stating they regard a wink as a lazy effort . . there are quite a few hat frown on a wink . . .I personally see them as a nice wee icebreaker. . shows someone has caught your eye. "

Most women don't get it, but then they don't need to as they seldom have to write loads of messages to elicit some sort of response from a potential tryst.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We don't have a problem with them. Sometimes send them out and sometimes receive them.

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I think a wink is a good thing, what's the worst that can happen?

I'm a proud winker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the wink button regularly , it seams its almost frowned upon . What's the views on winking "

Doesn't too much winking make you go blind? Or did I mis-hear that joke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a good intro to show interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just winked you....I'm lazy apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is: as a single on here you could spend hours , writing witty and interesting prose to the several profiles that you might want to "get to know ".

Lets face it the batting average is pretty low for replies.

It's not being lazy it's just making life easier on yourself and what's wrong with that?

If someone sends a wink back to me they are guaranteed plenty chat in return.

Just my tuppence worth.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"We don't have a problem with them. Sometimes send them out and sometimes receive them."

I should probably add to this that we're obviously not going to be winking back people who are outwith what we are looking for (which is basically everyone who has winked us since we posted this message )

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"We don't have a problem with them. Sometimes send them out and sometimes receive them.

I should probably add to this that we're obviously not going to be winking back people who are outwith what we are looking for (which is basically everyone who has winked us since we posted this message )"

Hahaha

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"The thing is: as a single on here you could spend hours , writing witty and interesting prose to the several profiles that you might want to "get to know ".

Lets face it the batting average is pretty low for replies.

It's not being lazy it's just making life easier on yourself and what's wrong with that?

If someone sends a wink back to me they are guaranteed plenty chat in return.

Just my tuppence worth."

True dat

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