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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might stir up a hornets nest this one,but maybe if we air it,it can lead to sorting a small developing disease on here.

Why the Chuff do folks verify people who litteraly have installed fake/out of date pics and pruned 20 years off their age??

Im not a fan of "naming and shaming" but i am a great fan of "honesty"!!

You put hours of work into creating a party or a gang bang,then guest number 3 knocking on your door is a feckin mystery man, can it be Jeremy Beadle? hell know he's deed !!

And once the mystery man departs you jump on the pc look up his very ifffy cations and become Rebus for a while as you read between the lines and conclude "aww their just being nice".

Does this seem harsh?

Nope, whats harsh is having real sexy fun friends over who you promise will have a great time then you get conned by sumone clearly chancing their luck by bluffing their way to a meet.

So can we maybe have a simple policy, whereby if you too have been misslead by someone on here who simply are not who they say they are, drop the idea of cracking them up to be "nice", they aint nice, they've lied to you and me!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning Like2see, sometimes people will verify after just a phone chat and then find that the person they verified turns out to be not so nice after they have done so, unfortunately this system does not allow you to remove verification once given ... just think that if the person manages to con several... in a very short time a list of veris can be compiled xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawns..ok i didnt realy get this one i will come back after a coffee....

but i will say a pc gives ppl the chance to be something there not same with pictures ...lets be honest everybody wants the best angel in a picture or maybe a better chance to hide what they dont want u to see

hmmmm think i need some toast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yawns..ok i didnt realy get this one i will come back after a coffee....

but i will say a pc gives ppl the chance to be something there not same with pictures ...lets be honest everybody wants the best angel in a picture or maybe a better chance to hide what they dont want u to see

hmmmm think i need some toast "

No wurrys, next time you promise the wife a Brad Pitt looky likey and Bruce Forsyth comes a knockin,,, remember this thread,lol,

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybody wants the best angel in a picture??b ok ozzy im here i dont think ppl should be allowed 2 verify by a fone chat or by being on cam anyone can sit on cam or talk on fone inmy eyes that dont make u genuine soz but i dont xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The meat of what im saying is, the "nicey" verifying of folks who have litteraly conned you, i understand the tactical nice camera angles etc.

Dont fecking con your fellow genuine swinger by telling us this ones gebnuine when they clearly aint, break the bloomin chain please!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i dont think ppl should be allowed 2 verify by a fone chat or by being on cam anyone can sit on cam or talk on fone inmy eyes that dont make u genuine soz but i dont xxx "

I agree with what your saying Mags, seeing someone on cam for 10 minutes isnt the same as spending a few hours face to face is it? But the veri by cam does have its uses. Most people have access to a cam and can use it to at least verify that they are indeed a Sgl fem or a genuine couple. Maybe cam verifications should be limited to Time/Date and limited text.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea steve i agree way the cam thing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only EVER put through a verification for some one ONCE we have met face to face .

And all our pics are recent ones and those that have other swingers in them are only put up AFTER speaking to and share with the people in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only verify someone if i have met them face to face, whether sex was had or not, though once i did verify by fone - in hindsight not a good thing, but it was only the once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the OP subject again it would seem you organized a party or indeed a GB on just verifications alone, didn't you meet the people invited to it beforehand?

Surely if you were introducing them to female friends I'd have thought or hoped you would have done an initial meet to vet them and assure yourself they were what you required. I don't think I would have trusted just verifications in this case, they could not only have been Forsyth lookee likees but unknowing or unable to perform in group situations,it has happened in the past that they agree to it in principle, but bottled it in actuality. There is a certain amount of trust required from all parties involved which I think can only be gained through meeting in person well before any group events are set up.

Laine xxxx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Laine is 100% correct. I've never run a g/b without knowing all the participants - male and female - in person beforehand or at least having a very good reference from someone I trust.

You owe it to everone concerned to get it right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dared branch out of our super network of reliable,polite,respectfull guys, yes.

I with hindsight paid the price of trusting my fellow swinger to be honest,lesson learnt,but hey ho, as i said at start, this might make other aware of whats lurking among us !!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dared branch out of our super network of reliable,polite,respectfull guys, yes.

I with hindsight paid the price of trusting my fellow swinger to be honest,lesson learnt,but hey ho, as i said at start, this might make other aware of whats lurking among us !!

T "

Very true Like2 m8 ........how does that old saying go ......"Never judge a book by its cover ".!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dared branch out of our super network of reliable,polite,respectfull guys, yes.

I with hindsight paid the price of trusting my fellow swinger to be honest,lesson learnt,but hey ho, as i said at start, this might make other aware of whats lurking among us !!

T

Very true Like2 m8 ........how does that old saying go ......"Never judge a book by its cover ".!!"

Im not age-ist, the issue is honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like2 m8 ....didn't mean age-ist , bye "old" saying i meant one that has been around for years.

Strip away the cover, the persona put on to make folk appear something they are not and you see a whole different person.

As you say , honesty and truth are ALWAYS best.

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