FabSwingers.com forum: Relationships

By *igtittedtease OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you are just starting to date someone would you stay on fab and see where it goes or leave here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm not a believe in one egg in a basket. I'd stay but situation depending. If it's dating then I would probably still meet or talk to people. If I started sleeping with them I'd keep fab but not use it. If it became official and I was sure it wasn't gonna go Pete Tong then I'd then leave.

In my experiences I get a girlfriend. Kill off fab and fuck buddies. Be the good guy. It ends and month later and I have no one to fuck and I think why didn't I just not tell the fuck buddy but not sleep with them.

So all my eggs stay in the basket and slowly get taken out one at a time.

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Personally I'm not a believe in one egg in a basket. I'd stay but situation depending. If it's dating then I would probably still meet or talk to people. If I started sleeping with them I'd keep fab but not use it. If it became official and I was sure it wasn't gonna go Pete Tong then I'd then leave.

So all my eggs stay in the basket and slowly get taken out one at a time. "

Wouldn't say that statements did you any favours lol talk about cake and eat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man like myself doesn't need favours

haha

I see your point obviously but in terms of relationships (and not casual sex) I am very traditional. I believe in meeting people uou naturally click with in real life like the good old days before apps and social media. Relationships were more sacred and lasted longer instead of 2 dates back on tinder or fab.

I'm also not wanting a girl for well a while. Too many plans. So if I did get one it would to be naturally magical in which I wouldn't mind but would need to be sure she felt the same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Tina.... Your pictures! Shag me a sideways you total hottie! Damn!!!

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd probably stay active as far as looking at the forum and stuff while I was dating someone but as soon as it started to get serious and I was in a relationship I'd stop messaging people on the site. I'd still look on the forum because I don't see them as being harmful but I wouldn't message.

I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

I'd give it to the 4th date(Sunday hopefully) then I'd only be here to chat

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

"I'd probably stay active as far as looking at the forum and stuff while I was dating someone but as soon as it started to get serious and I was in a relationship I'd stop messaging people on the site. I'd still look on the forum because I don't see them as being harmful but I wouldn't message.

I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Stay on fab to talk to friends and have a laugh in the forums (pretty much all I do now anyway).

Certainly wouldn't meet anyone or lead people to believe "I'm keeping my options open" just in case..

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it

would hide my profile too

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By *igtittedtease OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

My bf & me met on here, both still have single profiles for chatting but mostly use our couples profile.

If I was dating a non fab person I'd delete my profile I think.

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it

would hide my profile too"

That's another very fair point! Id probably do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships are all different it depends on the two people and how they feel honestly and communication right from the start and both sides agreeing on what should happen is a good start ,Its amazing when cupids arrow strikes

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

I was in one on met via here until recently when it ended...

but still kept the profile open for chatrooms etc.... just stated on the profile that I wasnt meeting full stop...

I'd been talking to some people regarding meets and when i became spoken for I sent them a courtesy message saying i wouldnt be meeting anyone and explained why.....

now im single again I've met one of them and arranging a meet with a couple of the others

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