FabSwingers.com forum: Being Ghosted

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not entirely sure about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very weird behaviour

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If you feel that letting them see its upsetting only drives them to go harder take it on the chin and learn from the experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I don't feel like that I just think what is the point of it. Arseholes.com always plenty more fish in the sea.

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Just smile & move on

Always someone better comes along

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Oh I don't feel like that I just think what is the point of it. Arseholes.com always plenty more fish in the sea. "
unfortunatly its also natures sewer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aye totally. Usually if I think something is to good to be true am usually proved correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm maybe being a bit thick here but what is it?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The thing I hate most.....they smarm their way into someones good books.......get what they want then ignore and blank them once they get what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm maybe being a bit thick here but what is it?

Me 2

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"What is this?"

What he said ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Check urban dictionary guys for definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right. Would it not have been clearer to say "Being used"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I just called it ghosting but yeah you can say that.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghosted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Either way Kola arseholes.com

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Either way Kola arseholes.com"
yup I will stick with being a tell it as I see it kinda asshole

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A didn't mean you were an arsehole lol. I am referring to ghosters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghosted"

It sounds the same thing to me, so no point in having a made up slang term for it.

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over a year ago

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Merci Kola!

May be I should find an Urban English class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks, was a new one to me too

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

i dont know aboutbeing ghosted but being used YES maybe im just to soft natured but either way it is a horrible thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont know aboutbeing ghosted but being used YES maybe im just to soft natured but either way it is a horrible thing to do

Never heard the term but it happens and yes it is a low thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Actually never heard that term before ..every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

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trick is to only expect to get sex out of it...nothing more

Far too many treat this site as a dating site then when it all goes tits up are surprised that the guy/girl has moved on ...if you make friends great...if not hey ho trick is not to expect anything more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

trick is to only expect to get sex out of it...nothing more

Wise words lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.

Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Actually never heard that term before ..every day is a thursday

Sorted Bunkie

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Actually never heard that term before ..every day is a thursday

Sorted Bunkie

Ffs

i actually laughed at that pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.

Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway

Zombie? I was just a bit under the weather!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.

Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway

Zombie? I was just a bit under the weather!

Ahhhh hope you don't get man flu then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

If I don't ghost you

Can I give you the Willies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more

I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.

Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway

Zombie? I was just a bit under the weather!

Ahhhh hope you don't get man flu then

I get "young man flu".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just spent three weeks with my childhood sweetheart, I hadn't seen her for 20 years. We had great sex and laughted all the time, I thought it was the real deal after all these years and then BOOM, it's over just went all cold on me for no apparent reason. Gutted I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aww brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww brutal "

Aye I was gutted but I'm strong, already moved on. No point musing over it, NEXT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that proves that if you've already moved on..she wasn't the 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that proves that if you've already moved on..she wasn't the 1 "
I like your way of thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for explaining this, never heard of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aww brutal

Aye I was gutted but I'm strong, already moved on. No point musing over it, NEXT.

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am glad to hear that shame though hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww brutal

Aye I was gutted but I'm strong, already moved on. No point musing over it, NEXT.

am glad to hear that shame though hugs "

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aww brutal

Aye I was gutted but I'm strong, already moved on. No point musing over it, NEXT.

am glad to hear that shame though hugs

Thank you xxx"
your welcome

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By *loki the BoatbuilderMan
over a year ago

Kattegat

I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x"

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal

I wouldn't expect it from aanyone from EK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal

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ah agree, jist no gonny happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

One will endeavour to mind ones "p"s and "q"s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal

ah agree, jist no gonny happen

Ocht he can dream Lil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

One will endeavour to mind ones "p"s and "q"s

Especially when you Q for a P...

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.

My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world

In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about

K x

Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you

Or people could just speak proper English.

English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son

PROPER English...

Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal

I wouldn't expect it from aanyone from EK!

I'm not aanyone lol . I stay in EK but I'm not from there

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

What ever happened to good old honesty ..dont agree with anyone leaving someone hanging not knowing where they stand..its not something i would ever dream of doing and certainly wont be happy if it happened to me ....yep i had to urban dictionary it just to get the full jist of ghosting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level. "

From what i can make out ghosting isnt a breakdown of communication or someone telling lies to get what they want ....think its more 1 person not prepared to be honest with another on where they stand and leaving the other person hanging

i could be wrong tho ..i usually am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could be wrong tho ..i usually am

In other words, USING THEM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could be wrong tho ..i usually am

In other words, USING THEM.

Yes to both - meeting someone on here for NSA is fine. Having a relationship which may or may not have its ups and downs is fine. Instigating a relationship when all you really want is sex or to get sexual experiences that you wouldn't otherwise have - WRONG!

I think that's it - but like you Bunks I could be wrong in the definition but that's how I understand it ... CxXx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

i could be wrong tho ..i usually am

In other words, USING THEM.

No i dont agree its as simple as using

both completely wrong in my book but very different

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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