FabSwingers.com forum: Car fun.. thrilling or desperate?

By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We enjoy both indoor and outdoor fun, there's nothing desperate about it

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Indoor fun for me everytime i love my comforts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me? "

its you , and its desperate

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"We enjoy both indoor and outdoor fun, there's nothing desperate about it

But would you enjoy it if you only ever had that as an option?

I get that some see it as thrilling but if that's all there was would the novelty wear off?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me? "
Im the same as you and like my comforts and unrushed meets .

I wouldnt say those who like it are desperate bit horny maybe but not desperate .

But I think your right in that the older I get its not for me .

Good luck to those who do like it

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"We enjoy both indoor and outdoor fun, there's nothing desperate about it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

For me unless its with a known person its desperate even moreso than going out on the pull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A like my comfort and no rush but I do think it could be the thrill of doing something that is risqué. Personally I haven't had full sex in a car but never say never. Each to their own.

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

There's a time and a place for everything. When you just can't keep your hands off each other, or want a wee bit more excitement, then it's perfect.

If you can't keep your hands to yourself and you're close to home, then that is perfect too! Sometimes having sex in a different place can introduce new positions and new excitement.

Sex is as much in the mind as in the body, I take that to mean that for great sex a connection is needed and the right scene to be set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A love the passion and sensual nature or a meet indoors no worries no time limits no creeps just focusing on having relaxed fun and enjoying the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a big bed everytime for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had car fun with each other.

But def not in this weather - too cold to be on a bonnet!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Has to be a big bed everytime for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a big bed

my feet would stick out

the car window lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing desperate bout wee car meet with a reg friend at times inbetween the longer indoor meets

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"We enjoy both indoor and outdoor fun, there's nothing desperate about it

But would you enjoy it if you only ever had that as an option?

I get that some see it as thrilling but if that's all there was would the novelty wear off? "

Why would it ever be the only option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me?

its you , and its desperate

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its ok if both of use cant accomidate .but its usualy so the guy can get a quickie when he's ment to be at asda ...never saw a woman ask for a car meet .unless she's dogging

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"We've had car fun with each other.

But def not in this weather - too cold to be on a bonnet!"

I've been spread over a bonnet in mid December, it was... bracing

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

having a little snog is fine but ful blown sex is defo a no no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer in the back of ma car than a bed, the smaller space and things to lean on help me push that wee bit harder.

Honestly don't like on a bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LovE car and outdoor sex and no there's nothing desperate about it.

That's like saying having sex in a club is desperate which it isn't.

Different strokes for different folks.

It's not for anyone to judge them.

Some like being tied up some like pain. Everyone is different that's what makes it interesting. Be a dull world if everyone liked the same stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's the usual Fab message looking for a quickie in the car on the way home, any holes a goal type then it's desperate and I'll pass thanks.

However I'm partial to a bit of outdoor fun with someone I know. I like a comfy bed/sofa/shower as much as the next person but there is a certain rush that comes from being bent over the bonnet of a car while a warm summer rain falls .

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I think a car meet every now and then is quite thrilling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a time and a place for everything. When you just can't keep your hands off each other, or want a wee bit more excitement, then it's perfect.

If you can't keep your hands to yourself and you're close to home, then that is perfect too! Sometimes having sex in a different place can introduce new positions and new excitement.

Sex is as much in the mind as in the body, I take that to mean that for great sex a connection is needed and the right scene to be set."

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

There is a time and place for everything and sometime spontaneous outdoor /car fun is just it.

Much prefer however my home comforts.

Everyone has there own opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a bit of outdoor risky fun I'm a little daredevil sometimes

But when it comes down to it I like nothing better than to lock myself away with someone special and spend hours just exploring , devouring and enjoying each other all night (or maybe a few nights lol )

can't beat knowing you have all the time in the world just to get lost in each other mmmmmmm xx

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me? "

Love your username!

Are you a DJ?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do prefer a comfy bed but there's nothing wrong with a little fun in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as with others there's a time and a place. Outdoor/car can be fun exciting and thrilling with the right person for the right reasons. But being a single female for years on here you learn quick single guys will opt for anything just to get there 'hole'! I'd never outdoor or car with randoms. If they couldn't put time and effort and more imagination into meeting me then they can have outdoor fun with pam and her sisters as often as they like not me lol.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indoor is good but outdoor with someone you know and trust can be fantastic.

Maybe its just cause I have recently started thinking more about outdoor fun and finding quiet places for uninterupted fun.

Plus who wants to be stuck inside on a lovely summers day ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always said I'd never do outdoor until I did with someone from here. I can safely say it's a lot more fun than I ever thought

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't call it desperate. Some people like the thrill.

Wouldn't you get bored of only ever having sex in a bed?

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I wouldn't call it desperate. Some people like the thrill.

Wouldn't you get bored of only ever having sex in a bed? "

Absolutely agree , nowt wrong with some variety and trying things , outdoor is plenty fun in the right circumstances

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Outdoor or in car sex is really exhibitionism not desperation. . . well that's my opinion. . . and opinions are like Clit's . . . every fanny has one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me, its not thrilling or desperate it just your choice. I do not like outdoor or car sex, never have nor never will. On the occasion I tried them both when younger it was not enjoyable but as stated in my profile I'm looking for a long session right through the night and into morning.

So I will leave it to others to enjoy

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Love a bit of alfresco when the weather is better.

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Let's do outdoor then. Ppl!!

Who's up??

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don't think it is thrilling or desperate tbh not something I like but a lot do so each to their own I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it is thrilling or desperate tbh not something I like but a lot do so each to their own I guess x"

Yep, horses for courses and down to person mood and moment

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I think some are missing the thrust of the ops comment its not whether car sex is good between folk who know each other. Its randoms msging daily asking for it that to me is desprate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No car fun with anyone you have just met...no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends on the mood and who I'm with

There is an air of desperation on here for some who will have sex at the drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me? "

No im not into car sex either, id rather have my home comforts than a quick fuck before a guy goes home to the wife lol if im seeing someone though i dont mind a wee play out in the car but not an actual meet if ye get me?? Lol

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I think some are missing the thrust of the ops comment its not whether car sex is good between folk who know each other. Its randoms msging daily asking for it that to me is desprate "

Thats exactly it. I'm also not out to cause offence.

I suppose I wonder if anyone does the random meet now stuff?

I'm very "vanilla" in comparison to many on here but I'm quite happy with that.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Outdoor for us, preference, lol

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Have had a few car meets.... broad daylight.... thrilling! Prefer home comforts though as the chances of being caught are a little bit of a nightmare but so good at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done car fun a fair bit over the years and within the last week

but only with someone I knew and trusted.

Did a dogging meet with someone I'd met at club and yes it was cold, (and my shoes were so wet, I had to stuff with tissue to use them to drive home in!)

but the stress of being caught and other ppl following car have now stopped that.

I've now found locations that I know I can enjoy at least an hour uninterrupted

But if big comfy bed, bath, shower, sofa, you name it, I'm there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some are missing the thrust of the ops comment its not whether car sex is good between folk who know each other. Its randoms msging daily asking for it that to me is desprate

Thats exactly it. I'm also not out to cause offence.

I suppose I wonder if anyone does the random meet now stuff?

I'm very "vanilla" in comparison to many on here but I'm quite happy with that. "

Never have done random meets, have always spoken to the person for a couple of weeks. Think it's down to a safety thing.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me? "

in the "heat of the moment" anywhere is good for sex as long as reasonably discreet

car too cold in winter!!! what type of car do some people drive, most cars today have better heating systems than most home central heating.

Heavy rain or snow outside, lashing down on the windscreen, roasting warm and steamed up inside is sometimes very exciting, fun and daring.

Same as outside sex on a summers day in the hills (remember that blanket on the ground)

guess some have a lack of adventure, perhaps stuck in a routine, or a shape and figure that needs to be hidden under a blanket with lights out

Let yourself go, enjoy heat of the moment fun, think of that lovely drink ad - "anywhere, anyplace, anytime"

life can be fun and exciting

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like both x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.

Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.

Where as look at it as a bit desperate.

Is it just me?

in the "heat of the moment" anywhere is good for sex as long as reasonably discreet

car too cold in winter!!! what type of car do some people drive, most cars today have better heating systems than most home central heating.

Heavy rain or snow outside, lashing down on the windscreen, roasting warm and steamed up inside is sometimes very exciting, fun and daring.

Same as outside sex on a summers day in the hills (remember that blanket on the ground)

guess some have a lack of adventure, perhaps stuck in a routine, or a shape and figure that needs to be hidden under a blanket with lights out

Let yourself go, enjoy heat of the moment fun, think of that lovely drink ad - "anywhere, anyplace, anytime"

life can be fun and exciting"

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Lol I'm definitely an owner of a body that should be hidden under a blanket with the lights out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol I'm definitely an owner of a body that should be hidden under a blanket with the lights out!

If you thought that you wouldn't have pics of your body of a website for anyone to see

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Car fun,bus fun,train fun,kitchen fun..its all fun!

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Lol I'm definitely an owner of a body that should be hidden under a blanket with the lights out!

If you thought that you wouldn't have pics of your body of a website for anyone to see

Gotta love filters, angles and breathing in!

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By *ly_bi_guyMan
over a year ago

fife

Need a big car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it's just you lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the size of car and the person you are with I suppose

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