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MARRIED GUYS !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

WELL WELL WELL IVE BEEN CHATTING 2 THIS NICE GUY WHICH I THOUGHT AN AS IT SAID ON MY PROFILE I DONT DO MEETS WITH PPL WITH PUBIC HAIR NOT MY THING SO WHEN HE ASKED 2 MEET AN HE THEN CONFFESS HE WASNT SHAVED AN I KINDLY TOLD HIM IT WAS OK I WAS GD AT SHAVING IT WAS THEN HE WAS LIKE EH IM NO SURE ABOUT SHAVING AS I NEED 2 SHARE SHOWERS WITH GUYS IN WORK AN THEY WOULD LAUGH THEN THE WARNING BELLS STARTED 2 RING BUT I GAVE HIM THE BENIFIT THAT HE WAS STILL SINGLE..AN WE WERE 2 MEET 2NGT UNTILL AN HOUR BEFORE OUR MEET HE CONFESSED HE WAS MARRIED..SO PLZ GUYS IF UR MARRIED AN U CANT BE HONEST WITH YOUR WIFE AT LEAST BE HONEST WITH THE GIRL UR ABOUT TO MEET CAUSE BEING A LIAR GETS U NO WERE..WELL WITH ME ANYWAY IT DONT xxxxx

PS: RANT OVER SOZ xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this stunna, i hate it when guys decline to mention they are married or attatched, we have brains guys - let us decide to meet you or not with the facts!!!!!! Hmmmmmm i wonder ....

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

totally agree with you stunna - if they are honest up front then it is an informed decision by us whether we choose to meet you .

as i say in my profile i'm not the one who has to live with the conscience or the consequences of their actions.

think guys you give us your mobile numbers and if we think your single and want to meet we will contact you-----would you want your partner to find out that way. i know i wouldn't if it were me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet another one bites the dust Stunna, when will they ever learn, tell the truth and shame the devil my old mum used to say. Tell the truth and maybe, just maybe you get a shag based on an informed choice I say xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think guys you give us your mobile numbers and if we think your single and want to meet we will contact you-----would you want your partner to find out that way. i know i wouldn't if it were me.

mad hun i had his num we already spoke on the fone only prpb cause hes in glasgow working lol i think it was when i mention he had 2 shave to meet me thats when he better of it cause with him being married he knew he couldnt shave or the wife would be like ehh wats this when he got bck home lol an 2 tell me an hour before we met lol his words were.i need 2 tell u i am married i cant lie 2 ur face..lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

an btw ive nothing against married guys or married woman on here everyone does it 4 diff reason..its when u ask if there married an they say no IM SINGLE so at end of the day its the LIES thats the

prob no being MARRIED xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i got stung a while back met a guy had a brill time met him again even better then found out he is married...not nice

auds x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea auds its no nice eh hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im up front in profile and message. even though it limits the field still feel should always be straight with people, has ment that few meets i have had have all been great..

marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of us try and pretend were not married !But ANYONE who lies at all just to have fun is to be avoided in my book, no matter who they are.Honesty always works for me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tartan honesty works 4 me an if he was honest id mite have fuck him but telling lies well no thanks lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need Smart Alecs to tell me that I'm lying and cheating, but that's my business and my responsibility!

What I say is that I try to be as honest as possible in any given situation, and in this 'scene' that means, among other things, that I declare my status in my profile.

Imho, guys who try to con people regarding their status are simply showing that their brains have been moved from in their heads to in their trousers! There are a number of questions that any savvy lady or couple can ask and the answers given or the way in which they deal with the questions will soon let the cat out of the bag!

Ask the right questions and all will be revealed, and sooner rather than later at the very least, alarm bells should start ringing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

soz trampus this Smart Alec is not telling you about u lying or cheating, but as u say its ur business and ur responsibility no one else's!! its all about my Experience last week as in myself had with a so called single guy who turn out 2 be married..an when i asked him if he was single or married he said single but when i asked him a simple question an he answerd it ok but an hour before our meet it was then he confessed he was married so this post was about me an the other party not aimed at anyone else xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse me Stunna, but I was making a general comment! It wasn't directed at you or anybody else in particular!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok trampus enjoy rest of ur ngt an happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we feel it is a horrible thing to do. Fair enough couples swing, but to activly lie and cheat on someone who is oblivious to it and feels they are in a great relationship is nasty.

honestly, our stomachs ache at the thought of either of us doing it.

but thats our own point of view and we try not to judge others, but in saying that we would never meet a married guy whos cheating on his partner nor would we meet a married female doing the same

each to thier own x

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside

Vis a vis the shaving issue. As someone who has played rugby for years, there is still a stigma attached to guys who are noticed in the shower afterwards having been shaved. It is becoming less and less as depilation becomes more prevalent, but it still has some consequences for guys who play team sports. Sure some of them even tell a lie or two to explain why they have shaved!! lol In general, agree that should be as open and honest as discretion allows on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to agree with rory run a football team and even if someone has a sunbed for instance its open season on the poor guy . !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PamelaandGordie, I'm not going to disagree or argue with you, and I would say that anybody who is 'playing away' against the background of a good marriage, male or female, needs their head looked and deserves any fallout which might materialise.

However, there are also people who don't have a good marriage situation, and for a variety of reasons, personal, private and specific to the individuals concerned, can't/don't want to bring it to what to others might seem like the obvious conclusion!

"We don't know what goes on behind closed doors"!!

'Playing away' is therefore a solution of sorts, and is nobody else's business but the person concerned!!!

All that of course doesn't change the fact that if people on here don't want to meet marrieds, on a point of principal or for any other reason, are perfectly within their rights to take that attitude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lies is lies is lies and they always get found out eventually.. if a guy is married it would be nice of him to tell the potential meet and be up front from the begining.. it doesn't always mean the answer is gonna be no. and the same goes for ladies too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im no angel ok i do meet married guys the way i see it is if he's gonna go fuck about then why no fuck about way me cause he's gonna do it anyway no matter wat an if hes honest from the start then im fine way that but its when they lie that i hate..i hate liar's end of no excuse 4 it xxnow a days..freedom of choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me if people spent the time looking for ways and finding help in fixing the problems in thier marraige rather than spending that time on a swinging site then they might have a happier marraige. I understand some marraiges/relationships are beyond help but in many cases the time spent on here and in many cases its hours and hours was spent rekindling, seeking help then their marraige.relatuinship might be in a much happier place.

As for liars and cheats.....honesty is the best policy, some people are very understanding.

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