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By *ookingforme2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Livingston/Edinburgh

????

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"????"

Replace with a better model. Worked for my man

L x

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Defibrillator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defibrillator "

STAND CLEAR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaviscon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out and shag someone else

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By *ightfall79Man
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Switch off , forget , recharge then go out and have fun even better fab fun.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Allow yourself to grieve. Then keep busy and be kind to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is kinda corny but also true... Hearts are the only thing that still work when broken...

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

knowing that over time. It'll get easier until it's not a problem anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice would be get out with your mates reestablish where you are in life and where you want to be (goals) then go have fun anyway you know how

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"This is kinda corny but also true... Hearts are the only thing that still work when broken... "

Oh very deep

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's not easy and I think sometimes we don't realise how easy it is for someone to hurt us until they actually have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Allow yourself to grieve. Then keep busy and be kind to yourself. "

there is no best way, but post above is good, time does help, Lost my wife to the big"C" 3 years now, time slowly helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a long time but from memory there is no quick fix or specific cure.

Time I'm afraid is the only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way to get over someone is to get under someone else

In all seriousness there's nothing for it other than time. A new haircut, new clothes, some great nights out with friends and lots of crying over soppy movies. Sooner or later you'll wonder what you ever saw in them!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .

If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.

If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .

Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .

If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.

If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .

Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease ."

I personally don't think I'll ever get over it. I think I have just learned ways to deal with my feeling about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get over heartache.

Well, get a banana, a cucumber, some lurpak, some sort of gag and a packet of Jaffa cakes.....

Do I need to tell you what to do to get over it, I'm sure you can work it out.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .

If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.

If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .

Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .

I personally don't think I'll ever get over it. I think I have just learned ways to deal with my feeling about it."
your probably right I dont think I will either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a true heartache is losing someone you will never get over, you may recover but there will be times that you think back and wished things were different or you just think back to the good times you had.

If there's anyone feeling like that, I know I have well I'm sure there's always someone to chat to and help take away the pain.

It's life and we have to deal with it, for the sake of others around us

For the ones who have suffered true heartache then there are many who share your pain

XxX peter

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"a true heartache is losing someone you will never get over, you may recover but there will be times that you think back and wished things were different or you just think back to the good times you had.

If there's anyone feeling like that, I know I have well I'm sure there's always someone to chat to and help take away the pain.

It's life and we have to deal with it, for the sake of others around us

For the ones who have suffered true heartache then there are many who share your pain

XxX peter

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a true heartache is losing someone you will never get over, you may recover but there will be times that you think back and wished things were different or you just think back to the good times you had.

If there's anyone feeling like that, I know I have well I'm sure there's always someone to chat to and help take away the pain.

It's life and we have to deal with it, for the sake of others around us

For the ones who have suffered true heartache then there are many who share your pain

XxX peter

"

Keep your head Horsey ya Donkey

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .

If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.

If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .

Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease ."

This is what I was referring to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do her maw and sister ??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .

If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.

If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .

Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .

This is what I was referring to xx"
ah I understand now xx

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .

If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.

If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .

Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .

This is what I was referring to xxah I understand now xx"

All very wise words but yes allow yourself to grieve and keep your mind busy and try and recharge

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Grief is a long thing. It is a lengthy process and not a "feeling" that passes in a few days or weeks.

Our minds can settle into it and stay there, trapped in an unpleasant rut or dwam (good old Scottish word). Best to try and get out and do things, physical exercise, meet people if possible, find new ways to expand yourself (new hobbies, pastimes, interests). Hard to start.. but try to do some of this a little at a time.

Be reasonable with yourself but challenge yourself too. It ain't easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grief is a long thing. It is a lengthy process and not a "feeling" that passes in a few days or weeks.

Our minds can settle into it and stay there, trapped in an unpleasant rut or dwam (good old Scottish word). Best to try and get out and do things, physical exercise, meet people if possible, find new ways to expand yourself (new hobbies, pastimes, interests). Hard to start.. but try to do some of this a little at a time.

Be reasonable with yourself but challenge yourself too. It ain't easy."

Thanks man, some good advice there and greatly appreciated. Take care.

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By *uriousnewcummerMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

Try something… new

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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

Pills and alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get ripped to fuck or looking shit hot if you're a lady.

Work on your confidence and making new friends and connections.

Watch the ex gone crawling back on all 4s.

And tell them to fucking ram it

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By *othwellguyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Start supporting Celtic instead

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By *allFromGrace_xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"????

Replace with a better model. Worked for my man

L x"

Amazing

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