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some amount of timewasters on here

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By *zn married OP   Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Don't it just annoy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't it just annoy you "

No.

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By *zn married OP   Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Ni how ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are not worth getting worked up about.

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By *zn married OP   Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

That true but really annoying at times

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Just chalk it up and move on bud

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

What do you class as a timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I waste a lot of time on here

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.

I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.

People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.

I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.

People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you"

Very sensible. Those who whine on about timewasters are generally nursing a huge sense of entitlement. People can meet (or not) who they wish to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met a timewaster yet. For us it's pretty obvious after 2 or 3 messages whether it's going somewhere or not.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I'm struggling to even chat properly just now cos of external factors and even that is getting me grief. Thank god I've got good friends who do understand.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Ain't nobody got time for that"

You can only waste your own time just learn and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.

I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.

People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you

Very sensible. Those who whine on about timewasters are generally nursing a huge sense of entitlement. People can meet (or not) who they wish to.... "

Wise words young lady and young man - I concur!!!

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I like being called young man... never happens these days

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Nope. I love the time wasters myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'They' seem to be annoying a few members just now as 2 threads running.

I've been accused of being a timewaster before when I stated I would only message via fab!

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards "

Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being called young man... never happens these days "

I'm auld so I call everyone young man... unless of course they are a young lady

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I had a tough paper round though so I look a wee bit older than I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a tough paper round though so I look a wee bit older than I am "

Yeah that brow looks serious lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally "

My thoughts as well

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally

My thoughts as well

K x"

Thank ya young lady

Flo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someones Timewaster is another persons Genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards "

I think that's called "self respect". Why on earth should anyone lower their standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

I think that's called "self respect". Why on earth should anyone lower their standards? "

Agreed

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

I think that's called "self respect". Why on earth should anyone lower their standards? "

I thought I had read that wrong initially ... I would never lower my standards and if that earns me the title of time waster then I can live with that!!!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

OP is a timewaster lol posts thread then buggers off without clarfying what he classes as a timewaster

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I had a tough paper round though so I look a wee bit older than I am

Yeah that brow looks serious lol "

That's my youngest looking bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP is a timewaster lol posts thread then buggers off without clarfying what he classes as a timewaster "

Is he a timewaster then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a tough paper round though so I look a wee bit older than I am

Yeah that brow looks serious lol

That's my youngest looking bit"

Oooooer

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards "

Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.

I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.

I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!

What's the fun in that for me

If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.

Going back to my Camomile tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.

I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.

I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!

What's the fun in that for me

If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.

Going back to my Camomile tea "

Chin chin with my green tea and lemon Max

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.

I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.

I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!

What's the fun in that for me

If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.

Going back to my Camomile tea

Chin chin with my green tea and lemon Max "

Santé

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Never mind them and move on and enjoy yourself on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a tough paper round though so I look a wee bit older than I am "

Maybe it was the Sunday shifts that did it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.

I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.

I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!

What's the fun in that for me

If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.

Going back to my Camomile tea "
here was me thinking the bag over my head was one of yer kinks tae wummin

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be


"I waste a lot of time on here "

But you do it soooo well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I waste a lot of time on here "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters hmmmmm.

I always find intellectually stimulating people on here

never timewasting.

Unless they don't like ANAL, that's that's crap

lolllll

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By *zn married OP   Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW


"I waste a lot of time on here

Me too!"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards

Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally "

I'm a timewaster then I have standards without the pedestal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!

"

If any of you ladies does decide to lower their standards, I'm quite happy to wear the paper bag. Hell, I'd even supply my own, and sign a non-disclosure agreement, to protect your dignity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!

If any of you ladies does decide to lower their standards, I'm quite happy to wear the paper bag. Hell, I'd even supply my own, and sign a non-disclosure agreement, to protect your dignity! "

Primark bags....rip easily bud..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top Tip!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Timewaster here.. *waves hello*

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Timewaster here.. *waves hello*"

*waves back ....wanna meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't it just annoy you "

No I don't meet them.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

I get called a timewaster all the time because I won't take fab chats onto social media. Most will accept due to problems in the past I keep my fab life contained within fab however a few childish individuals think I'm wasting their time as it takes me longer to message them.

Water Ducks Back

Move on forget as plenty more decent people on here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you class as time-wasting? We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to meeting someone because they weren't our type or they were out of our age range or because we didn't want to meet them when they were horny. We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to quickies so it's subjective really. We class time-wasters as people who don't turn up and never message you to tell you why or people who have no intention to meet but are just fishing for sexting buddies and pics. Or people who tell you at last minute that they won't able to stay long when we specified we don't do quickies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you class as time-wasting? We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to meeting someone because they weren't our type or they were out of our age range or because we didn't want to meet them when they were horny. We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to quickies so it's subjective really. We class time-wasters as people who don't turn up and never message you to tell you why or people who have no intention to meet but are just fishing for sexting buddies and pics. Or people who tell you at last minute that they won't able to stay long when we specified we don't do quickies "

Sexcellent points

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys class you as a time wasters for saying no? As if I'm not allowed to have a say in who fucks me. Had one guy who asked us to meet him and we said we weren't playing and he responded saying that I was a slut who should do as told. The cheek of it, Dorian replied saying that just because I enjoyed sex didn't mean I was a slut and even if I was i still have final say in who I fuck or if I want fucked and that I still deserve respect and blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys class you as a time wasters for saying no? As if I'm not allowed to have a say in who fucks me. Had one guy who asked us to meet him and we said we weren't playing and he responded saying that I was a slut who should do as told. The cheek of it, Dorian replied saying that just because I enjoyed sex didn't mean I was a slut and even if I was i still have final say in who I fuck or if I want fucked and that I still deserve respect and blocked him "

That sort of rudeness and ignorance deserves a block

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know absolutely shocking that people think it's okay to talk to another human being like that they have no respect what so ever

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Never met a time waster yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stood up for a social today

Verified profile too lol

Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tons of timewasters on fab.

We just have to deal with it and move on

Peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

Happens all the time (

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET "

Could you eat a whole one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET "

Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET

Could you eat a whole one ? "

only if covered in bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET

Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first! "

And ruin my perfect score

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET

Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first!

And ruin my perfect score "

Look, somebody has to go first. I'm making you a generous offer here!

And it would ruin my 100% score too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET

Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first!

And ruin my perfect score

Look, somebody has to go first. I'm making you a generous offer here!

And it would ruin my 100% score too."

I wouldn't be able to live with my conscience if I did that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such touching concern!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

It depends on what you class as a time waster !!! My definition would be someone who does not turn up with no prior warning at agreed location.

In all our years we have never had a "time waster" unless you class the bloke that cancelled as he forgot he had paid in advance for his Chinese (who pays in advance ) and it was due to be delivered the same time as we were meeting ..... But to be fair he did say this before we left the house so didn't really waste our time!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.

I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.

People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to choose between chicken balls and real ones I know what I'D choose but I think you should consider that experience a lucky escape. The move on thing... in spades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chickens don't have balls. Cocks have balls.

Sorry, COCKERELS have balls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chickens don't have balls. Cocks have balls.

Sorry, COCKERELS have balls... "

Balls

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"It depends on what you class as a time waster !!! My definition would be someone who does not turn up with no prior warning at agreed location.

In all our years we have never had a "time waster" unless you class the bloke that cancelled as he forgot he had paid in advance for his Chinese (who pays in advance ) and it was due to be delivered the same time as we were meeting ..... But to be fair he did say this before we left the house so didn't really waste our time!!!!! "

I normally pay in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have standards Squinty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have standards Squinty? "

Cheeky!!!! Aye I do!!!!

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