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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get through"?

Or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her the same message 17 times then and blame it on your Internet connection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send her the same message 17 times then and blame it on your Internet connection "

Hahahaha I like this idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the convo is flowing I'm sure she will pick up the convo again when she's back online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have had this happen to me a few times.

And you don't want to be "that guy" who comes across full on, just in case she did see it and is sifting her way through the 100s of messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the convo is flowing I'm sure she will pick up the convo again when she's back online"

Would be nice. I kinda think though that the longer she's offline, she just mass-delete when she comes back on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I have had this happen to me a few times.

And you don't want to be "that guy" who comes across full on, just in case she did see it and is sifting her way through the 100s of messages"

Yeah, exactly that mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the convo is flowing I'm sure she will pick up the convo again when she's back online

Would be nice. I kinda think though that the longer she's offline, she just mass-delete when she comes back on "
then just contact her again if she does, that way you will know if she's interested, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the convo is flowing I'm sure she will pick up the convo again when she's back online

Would be nice. I kinda think though that the longer she's offline, she just mass-delete when she comes back on then just contact her again if she does, that way you will know if she's interested, good luck"

Good idea, thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get through"?

Or is it just me? "

I'd say, if she goes offline without saying goodnight, or somesuch, your goose is cooked. That's my usual experience.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

What does it matter if she wants to talk to you she will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get where you are coming from mate. I think it is something that the guys have to accept and just be patient and try again without pushing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get through"?

Or is it just me?

I'd say, if she goes offline without saying goodnight, or somesuch, your goose is cooked. That's my usual experience."
I rarely say goodnight or similar, I just log off usually, if she likes your chat she will be in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get

Or is it just me? "

Yeah i feel this. Tough life as a single male fabber

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get through"?

Or is it just me?

I'd say, if she goes offline without saying goodnight, or somesuch, your goose is cooked. That's my usual experience. I rarely say goodnight or similar, I just log off usually, if she likes your chat she will be in touch "

I don't suppose many people say goodbye or goodnight, even if they've no intention of continuing to talk to you. So you still end up none the wiser lol. I will see what the morning brings

Goodnight everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get through"?

Or is it just me? "

Make sure your first message counts

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If the conversation was flowing and I was interested, I'd make a point of checking to see if there had been a reply. I've never mass deleted, granted we get less messages now than we did when we were new as the novelty has worn off lol, but it's not a function I would ever use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably aimed more at the males, but when you're mailing a woman and the conversation is flowing but she goes offline - do you think "She's never gonna see my reply, cos when she comes back on she's gonna have about 150 msgs to get through"?

Or is it just me?

Make sure your first message counts "

1+1=2

2+2=4

4+4=8

etc,etc..

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