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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are verifications important to people and deciding to meet or not meet someone

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Are you asking because you've just been verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah but been here before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site has changed much over the last few years. I would not meet anyone that wasn't verified but in saying that I'm not interested in who they have met as I prefer to make up my own mind about people.

Flo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't meet anyone without a verification

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

It's a chicken and egg time though.

I've had two meets from here in the last year - neither has verified me, one I directly asked to (although she has deleted profile, I suspect she was cheating)...

How as singly to I get a verify, to get a meet, to get verified...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a chicken and egg time though.

I've had two meets from here in the last year - neither has verified me, one I directly asked to (although she has deleted profile, I suspect she was cheating)...

How as singly to I get a verify, to get a meet, to get verified...

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That's annoying

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

I used to think they were important. Lately had a few rude messages as I have a lot of verification nearly all socially however that I have been with half the site lol so now I don't bother as much. x

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

It's thier choice - you can't force folk or get antsy.

I do think getting to a fab event may work for getting a verification. What does the forum think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to think they were important. Lately had a few rude messages as I have a lot of verification nearly all socially however that I have been with half the site lol so now I don't bother as much. x"

That's why I hide mine - who I meet is my business, it's ridiculous when that happens but at least they've shown they are someone you wouldn't want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's thier choice - you can't force folk or get antsy.

I do think getting to a fab event may work for getting a verification. What does the forum think?"

Yep definitely a good way to get verified by all accounts

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I have lots - ALL social.

Anything else is my business. But it proves I'm real and that's what they're for. Not to have someone else tell you what that person is like.

Make your own mind up about people. Some will surprise you

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont care who is verified by who i'm man enough to make my own mind up about people ..only interested that they are real and likely to turn up to any arranged meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when I ever show a verification its a social one as I'm a sociable soul.

Who I meet otherwise is between me and them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to see if someone is verified. If they've been on 6 months - year and have none I usually don't bother and just think there fantasists from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a safety thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont care who is verified by who i'm man enough to make my own mind up about people ..only interested that they are real and likely to turn up to any arranged meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you asking because you've just been verified?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im will meet up with people socially whether verified or not as long as they are happy to chat beforehand and its on my terms ie. they dont try and push me into meeting up right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met guys who weren't verified, we've met guts who were verified. As long as they turn up and do as asked then verifications are totally irrelevant to us.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I dont care who is verified by who i'm man enough to make my own mind up about people ..only interested that they are real and likely to turn up to any arranged meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess its a personal preference for people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few folk without veris but prefer to meet them socially first to test the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do only tend to meet with verified people but I also do a phone call first too and chat a lot before hand then a social meet always ,social events are great for meeting others too I don't care who people have met with and I make my own mind up about people based on how I get on with them I'm not here to judge I'm here to have fun and explore xx

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

Everyone starts on here without a verification it's funny how people won't meet people unverified.

Verification of meeting others doesn't bother me only thing that puts me off is actual graphic verification & that's the people I won't meet.

Hide mine as it's my business & respect others who won't display mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im will meet up with people socially whether verified or not as long as they are happy to chat beforehand and its on my terms ie. they dont try and push me into meeting up right away. "

Do those terms include maltesers by any chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of veri's on here are fake,you can spot them a mile off, usually a female joins, 10 minutes later she's got a veri.

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes


"It's a safety thing for me "

Same for me.

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes


"A lot of veri's on here are fake,you can spot them a mile off, usually a female joins, 10 minutes later she's got a veri."

I verified my friend within minutes of her joining - I had introduced her to fab. My friends did the exact same thing for me when I created my singles profile... I would suspect it's fairly common for the person who recommended the other to fab to verify them too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of veri's on here are fake,you can spot them a mile off, usually a female joins, 10 minutes later she's got a veri.

I verified my friend within minutes of her joining - I had introduced her to fab. My friends did the exact same thing for me when I created my singles profile... I would suspect it's fairly common for the person who recommended the other to fab to verify them too... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it's a safety thing for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are a tool to help prove genuine, and help the people looking decide if they are the person they are looking for to help with a fantasy or a kink! I have enough to do that and only veri someone new now

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