FabSwingers.com forum: Married women?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After another

Well least I'm single and not on here because your hubby can't get it up ...

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Really annoys me that guys automatically think there's problems in your sex life because your on here playing alone?

Myself and hubby are swingers...Iv not got an open marriage I can't just go on a night out and shag whoever takes my fancy...

Which makes me wonder ..

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say its certainly a sex site with some swinging

However why explain yourself to anyone ? Noones business but yours why you are here

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think Fab is just a site where adults talk openly about sex.

Lots of labels one could give to it.

People join for various reasons. In my opinion, their business.

Some people join because they are married and cheating or not or their hubby can't get it up! Their business!

Others join for sex, sexual self discovery...

Others for the thrill of flirting, realising fantasies?!

Oh some like the chat!

I have my own reasons for joining the site and it's my business. It's 'my' Fab site! I do as I wish with it and others are free to use Fab as their fab site too. And do as they wish.

Now this does not excuse abusive messages!

Hope I make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly sex site, not much swinging. Like the post above though, you shouldnt need to explain or justify yourself

P.s lovely profile

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I think the lines have been getting blurry over the years tbh what started out a swingers site is fast becoming a sex site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You do max

I just feel that I find myself having to explain yes my husband knows I'm on here..no I'm not looking for an affair ..no he isn't struggling to get it up

All the things that I explain on my profile lol

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

"I think Fab is just a site where adults talk openly about sex.

Lots of labels one could give to it.

People join for various reasons. In my opinion, their business.

Some people join because they are married and cheating or not or their hubby can't get it up! Their business!

Others join for sex, sexual self discovery...

Others for the thrill of flirting, realising fantasies?!

Oh some like the chat!

I have my own reasons for joining the site and it's my business. It's 'my' Fab site! I do as I wish with it and others are free to use Fab as their fab site too. And do as they wish.

Now this does not excuse abusive messages!

Hope I make sense

This!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"You do max

I just feel that I find myself having to explain yes my husband knows I'm on here..no I'm not looking for an affair ..no he isn't struggling to get it up

All the things that I explain on my profile lol "

In my opinion, you don't have to explain why you are on here. Ignore the trolls

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

It's no one else's business why any of us are here

If you resort to petty comments or abuse because you have been told no thanks then it's yourself you should be questioning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's no one else's business why any of us are here

If you resort to petty comments or abuse because you have been told no thanks then it's yourself you should be questioning. "

Yeah i agree. They aint worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Fab is just a site where adults talk openly about sex.

Lots of labels one could give to it.

People join for various reasons. In my opinion, their business.

Some people join because they are married and cheating or not or their hubby can't get it up! Their business!

Others join for sex, sexual self discovery...

Others for the thrill of flirting, realising fantasies?!

Oh some like the chat!

I have my own reasons for joining the site and it's my business. It's 'my' Fab site! I do as I wish with it and others are free to use Fab as their fab site too. And do as they wish.

Now this does not excuse abusive messages!

Hope I make sense

This is spot on Max

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"After another

Well least I'm single and not on here because your hubby can't get it up ...

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Really annoys me that guys automatically think there's problems in your sex life because your on here playing alone?

Myself and hubby are swingers...Iv not got an open marriage I can't just go on a night out and shag whoever takes my fancy...

Which makes me wonder ..

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

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I think in the main yes it has changed into a sex site. Opinionated me also has a theory why it has changed lol. For the way you meet I wouldnt explain myself or your hubbys situation infact if a user broached that subject I would block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After another

Well least I'm single and not on here because your hubby can't get it up ...

Reply after a polite no thanks

Really annoys me that guys automatically think there's problems in your sex life because your on here playing alone?

Myself and hubby are swingers...Iv not got an open marriage I can't just go on a night out and shag whoever takes my fancy...

Which makes me wonder ..

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

I think in the main yes it has changed into a sex site. Opinionated me also has a theory why it has changed lol. For the way you meet I wouldnt explain myself or your hubbys situation infact if a user broached that subject I would block them."

Whats your theory?lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"After another

Well least I'm single and not on here because your hubby can't get it up ...

Reply after a polite no thanks

Really annoys me that guys automatically think there's problems in your sex life because your on here playing alone?

Myself and hubby are swingers...Iv not got an open marriage I can't just go on a night out and shag whoever takes my fancy...

Which makes me wonder ..

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

Whats your theory?lol"

Oi nosey, but yea Kola spill

My opinion is yes over the course of the years I wouldn't class it as a swinging site anymore more a sex site xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Phew....not just me then

Great comments guys n gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, the definition of swinging has been lost due to public media

which is sad because the site has turned into clickashag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

Well, if by "swingers" you mean people who just post about clubs and socials, then maybe it is a sex site. If by "swingers" you mean people who meet other people both socially, and for sex, then it's a swingers site.

There is more to the "lifestyle" than getting pissed at parties, or going to CJ's.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"On here, the definition of swinging has been lost due to public media

which is sad because the site has turned into clickashag

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"On here, the definition of swinging has been lost due to public media

which is sad because the site has turned into clickashag

Click ...click ....click ....nope still nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

yip most definitely a swingers site, although quite a few use it just for sex.

We are all different, some of us like good laugh and chat, making friends and if it works out for everyone then maybe some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here, the definition of swinging has been lost due to public media

which is sad because the site has turned into clickashag

Click ...click ....click ....nope still nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After another

Well least I'm single and not on here because your hubby can't get it up ...

Reply after a polite no thanks

Really annoys me that guys automatically think there's problems in your sex life because your on here playing alone?

Myself and hubby are swingers...Iv not got an open marriage I can't just go on a night out and shag whoever takes my fancy...

Which makes me wonder ..

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

Swinging is having sex, doesn't mean you have to give it up for everybody. Though the old keys in the bowl party would suggest otherwise lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can use the site for whatever they like and however they like but I'd definitely say its more of a sex site than a swingers site these days. There are loads of people on the site who really are not swingers but its up to each individual to use the site however they see fit

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"After another

Well least I'm single and not on here because your hubby can't get it up ...

Reply after a polite no thanks

Really annoys me that guys automatically think there's problems in your sex life because your on here playing alone?

Myself and hubby are swingers...Iv not got an open marriage I can't just go on a night out and shag whoever takes my fancy...

Which makes me wonder ..

Is fab a sex site now...rather than the swingers site we joined all those yrs ago?

I read your profile before I first contacted you and it's all there if you know how to read, no explanation required. I think a lot of men on here 'skim read' a profile and miss huge chunks of detail, filling in the gaps with their own assumptions.

I understand that you felt the need to be as honest as possible in your profile about who you are and what you're looking for, it's how I'd like to be as well. Not everyone in here has the courage to be that open on their profile page, so your openness is something that should be applauded and encouraged.

I thought this was a site where people could be open and honest about their sexual appetite/orientation and lifestyle, without being judged by what society says we should be like.

Anyone who resorts to insults like you mentioned isn't worth getting annoyed about. That's what your block button is for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks folks

I agree with all the comments lol

Which is a new 1 for me

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By *rwomble 56Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

My own experience is I joined a month ago I am married but my wife is not interested in sex at all over 10 years since had sex apart from diy so I am looking for married single or couples to assist

You do not need to explain yourself up to yoi

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Defo more a sex site than swingers these days ,but like most things eras change.Lifestyles are not like they were Years ago.More younger than older,less respect and more wanna fuck types...Totally get the single guys seeing woman advertising they play Alone ,unlike yourself, to many forget they have a husband at home and class themselves as the single female and give off mixed signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people should concentrate on what they are doing rather than being bothered too much about others are doing.

It really is no ones business in why you are here.You dont need too answer too anyone.

The site has changed in many ways over the years ...some good and some not so.

In my humble opinion ..Swinging seemed more centered around Couples.

However over the years there has been a vast increase in single profiles and more of the younger generation from 18-30 year olds there wasnt many in that age category in the beginning not unless they where part of a couple.

Yes ..i do believe it has become a sex site..

The site has changed..People change too

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"You do max

I just feel that I find myself having to explain yes my husband knows I'm on here..no I'm not looking for an affair ..no he isn't struggling to get it up

All the things that I explain on my profile lol "

You mean some peoole actually read profiles?.

I thought most just looked at the pictures..

As others have said no one should feel the need to justify or explain their reasons for being on the site.

Use it as an extra filter

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

"It's no one else's business why any of us are here

If you resort to petty comments or abuse because you have been told no thanks then it's yourself you should be questioning.

Yeah i agree. They aint worth your time"

Agreed.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I joined Fab to use it as a sex site, and I care not a jot that the way I use the site may not be in keeping with the true definition of 'swinging', or that I might be part of a new breed of member that has ccontributed to the way the site has evolved from what it once was.

It's just another website to me, in essence, it's really no different from any other similar sites I've been on.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I joined years ago but through that have enjoyed swinging as well as one to one meets.

If I hadn't done the one to one meets I probably wouldn't have experienced the scene in the ways that I have. For me there has been an evolution on how I use the site.

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