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"Tricky one we men hate rejection x" from what ive saw so do a lot of women on here . Such a shame as a lotbof fun could be had if they just take the plunge lol | |||
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"On here do you mean? If so I wouldn't use those words more on the lines of saying they looked hot, awesome pics etc. Tx" not just on but in general | |||
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"On here do you mean? If so I wouldn't use those words more on the lines of saying they looked hot, awesome pics etc. Tx" Ohhh | |||
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"On here do you mean? If so I wouldn't use those words more on the lines of saying they looked hot, awesome pics etc. Txnot just on but in general " Then no I wouldn't be shy saying in general what the worst that could happen x | |||
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it " thats a shame | |||
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"On here do you mean? If so I wouldn't use those words more on the lines of saying they looked hot, awesome pics etc. Tx Ohhh " Lolll now I'm off to check every post I've said awesome pics | |||
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"I dont normally say it as such (sometimes i will)but i doubt they dont know i fancy them lol " but thats how things get misinterpreted ..some people need to hear it so they dont think they are picking up mixed signals | |||
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"I dont normally say it as such (sometimes i will)but i doubt they dont know i fancy them lol but thats how things get misinterpreted ..some people need to hear it so they dont think they are picking up mixed signals " Good point | |||
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame " I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief | |||
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"Fancy them as in wanting to play or fancy them as in something more? " I hope it ment wanting to play if not I will need to retract my replies x | |||
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"Fancy them as in wanting to play or fancy them as in something more? I hope it ment wanting to play if not I will need to retract my replies x" | |||
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"Fancy them as in wanting to play or fancy them as in something more? " fancy as in would you like to meet for fun on here or I fancy you would you like to go for a drink in the real world lol | |||
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief " go for it | |||
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"It would only be here if i did it anywhere else temptress would be wearing my balls as earings lmao " pmsl and quite rightly so lol | |||
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"Am naturally shy but if it feels right I will go for it " good for you | |||
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"I keep my feelings hidden. Bx" no way ive seen you before lol | |||
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief go for it " It would involve emailing her out of the blue, and I don't even know her orientation lol | |||
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief go for it It would involve emailing her out of the blue, and I don't even know her orientation lol" ah okay I see how that could be awkward | |||
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"Was terrible at the beginning ..would skirt around it all the time .probably from fear of rejection ..but i am getting better at it lmao ..well i think anyway lol " just tell them ..whats the worst thing that could happen ? | |||
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"Nope never... Iv said great pics on your profile...that's about as far as il go " so if its on here how you go from nice pics to fancy some fun ? | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx " | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx " And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol " hahaha like your style | |||
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"Nope never... Iv said great pics on your profile...that's about as far as il go so if its on here how you go from nice pics to fancy some fun ?Iv never asked anyone to meet lol " ah so your one of the shy ones who dont ask for meets ? | |||
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"I keep my feelings hidden. Bxno way ive seen you before lol " You've seen the act not the real feelings | |||
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them? Or are you a go all out to let them know ? " I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step. Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step. That is a turn on for me in a way | |||
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"I keep my feelings hidden. Bxno way ive seen you before lol You've seen the act not the real feelings" lol ah okay | |||
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"Lol Yip " is it fear of rejection or something else? | |||
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them? Or are you a go all out to let them know ? I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step. Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step. That is a turn on for me in a way " Im quite good at the signs and Im just waiting for the ask ...but if it doesnt come il take the bull by the horns so to speak lol ...only so long a girl can wait | |||
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them? Or are you a go all out to let them know ? I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step. Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step. That is a turn on for me in a way Im quite good at the signs and Im just waiting for the ask ...but if it doesnt come il take the bull by the horns so to speak lol ...only so long a girl can wait " Lol | |||
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"I'd defo say fear of rejection lol But I'm a if it happens it happens if the dosnt I'm not that bothered kinda chick Lol" ah right Im no I need to know kind girl if I know there is an attraction for more and I want it to happen then il go for it | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol hahaha like your style " You would like my nibbles even more lol | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol hahaha like your style You would like my nibbles even more lol " bottle of prosecco and some cherub nibbles ...mmmmm how can a girl refuse ..btw do you fancy me ? | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol hahaha like your style You would like my nibbles even more lol bottle of prosecco and some cherub nibbles ...mmmmm how can a girl refuse ..btw do you fancy me ? " Ohhh yes of course I do I only share my cherub nibbles with people I really like lol | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol hahaha like your style You would like my nibbles even more lol bottle of prosecco and some cherub nibbles ...mmmmm how can a girl refuse ..btw do you fancy me ? Ohhh yes of course I do I only share my cherub nibbles with people I really like lol " awww shucks dunno what to say now ...ive gone all shy | |||
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"I just compliment and ask if they would like to chat see how we get on xx And then I say fancy sharing a bottle of wine and some cherub nibbles lol hahaha like your style You would like my nibbles even more lol bottle of prosecco and some cherub nibbles ...mmmmm how can a girl refuse ..btw do you fancy me ? Ohhh yes of course I do I only share my cherub nibbles with people I really like lol awww shucks dunno what to say now ...ive gone all shy " Aww that's ok I'm a shy too lol | |||
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"Ok I'll take the plunge too. I fancy oldie but goody Made a clumsy attempt to chat but crashed and burned " Feel your pain bud | |||
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them? Or are you a go all out to let them know ? I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step. Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step. That is a turn on for me in a way " Max, très bon, vous êtes le mien | |||
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"Ok I'll take the plunge too. I fancy oldie but goody Made a clumsy attempt to chat but crashed and burned " | |||
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"Personally found being honest but adult about it is fine . Happily tell someone and fully accept their response as an adult would even if it crushes your soul ! Failing that a d*unken pm at 4am telling them you love them is the answer " you know its bad when the first thing you do after a night out is look back your messages to make sure u havent declared your love of someone...and yep i have done that a couple times | |||
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"Has anyone actually said they fancy anyone yet???? Ok I fancy Sweet " I had a message from a guy, as this thread is running in the lounge too. Which confused me a bit as he's in England lol | |||
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"Personally found being honest but adult about it is fine . Happily tell someone and fully accept their response as an adult would even if it crushes your soul ! Failing that a d*unken pm at 4am telling them you love them is the answer you know its bad when the first thing you do after a night out is look back your messages to make sure u havent declared your love of someone...and yep i have done that a couple times " Sure we all have at sometime . After a night out the fear as you check all social media to make sure you haven't told the boss you want to stick your tongue in her dirt box or the hottest lass in the gym that you've paid her numerous tributes on her Instagram is real | |||
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"errmmm nope lol Failing that a d*unken pm at 4am telling them you love them is the answer " | |||
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"Has anyone actually said they fancy anyone yet???? Ok I fancy Sweet I had a message from a guy, as this thread is running in the lounge too. Which confused me a bit as he's in England lol" And you know we both fancy you V | |||
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"I usually try and make it obvious that I like someone and just hope they make the first move. My real struggle is knowing when someone is interested in me...... I don't pick up signals very well lol Mrs x" Every man is interested in you K Trust me | |||
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"Has anyone actually said they fancy anyone yet???? Ok I fancy Sweet I had a message from a guy, as this thread is running in the lounge too. Which confused me a bit as he's in England lol" Fancy V too | |||
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"I never have a problem asking anyone for a coffee then saying yes or no to taking it further for playing. Still a bit wary of getting too involved with anyone I think. " Can't tell you I fancy you | |||
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"I never have a problem asking anyone for a coffee then saying yes or no to taking it further for playing. Still a bit wary of getting too involved with anyone I think. Can't tell you I fancy you " think you just did | |||
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"Ok I'll take the plunge too. I fancy oldie but goody Made a clumsy attempt to chat but crashed and burned " It was the nicest crash'n'burn I'd had in a while though | |||
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"I just wouldn't. I'd be terrified of rejection and as soon as I decided I liked someone, I'd already be convincing myself they wouldn't be interested in me" I thought it was just me that did that | |||
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"I just wouldn't. I'd be terrified of rejection and as soon as I decided I liked someone, I'd already be convincing myself they wouldn't be interested in me" Hi there | |||
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief " Dates make me extremely nervous only way I can do them is if I drink for Dutch courage. However meets on here I'm totally fine with them. Which makes no sense to me | |||
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"I agree, no words needed . It's all in the body language and actions " how do you show body language on fab ? | |||
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"I agree, no words needed . It's all in the body language and actions how do you show body language on fab ? " That's called a 'Fancy a Fuck? ' message | |||
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"I agree, no words needed . It's all in the body language and actions how do you show body language on fab ? That's called a 'Fancy a Fuck? ' message " hahaha possibly | |||
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