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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?"
I think the best way is for someone to simply tell you your sexy,amazing & gorgeous

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?I think the best way is for someone to simply tell you your sexy,amazing & gorgeous

You're sexy, amazing and gorgeous

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?I think the best way is for someone to simply tell you your sexy,amazing & gorgeous

You're sexy, amazing and gorgeous

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lol thank you ..cheques on its way

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?I think the best way is for someone to simply tell you your sexy,amazing & gorgeous

You're sexy, amazing and gorgeous

lol thank you ..cheques on its way

Delivery in person we said

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?I think the best way is for someone to simply tell you your sexy,amazing & gorgeous

You're sexy, amazing and gorgeous

lol thank you ..cheques on its way

Delivery in person we said

"
lol cost yava coffee and cream bun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I get a compliment, I'll let you know how it feels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my pics got fabbed in the fabathon. That made me feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get compliments all the time at work, the norm of working in a pub in guess!!

But I'm really rubbish at accepting them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of my pics got fabbed in the fabathon. That made me feel good.

This.

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Beauty comes from within, and it's also definitely in the eye of the beholder. However, many girls don't see this in themselves.

There are so many amazing and attractive girls on here, and sometimes it's just the smallest of things. So, yes, I'm all for calling out the even the slightest things that stop us in our tracks, and makes think, wow!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some of my pics got fabbed in the fabathon. That made me feel good.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Some time ago, a lovely gentleman came into my house and proclaimed 'you're gorgeous!'

Now, whether I am or not is subjective and there was an element of 'here and now' - of course.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that this made me feel amazing, and sexy and gorgeous.

So what works for you? Maybe we can pass on some tips?I think the best way is for someone to simply tell you your sexy,amazing & gorgeous

You're sexy, amazing and gorgeous

lol thank you ..cheques on its way

Delivery in person we said

lol cost yava coffee and cream bun lol

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my pics got fabbed in the fabathon. That made me feel good.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

When you chat to someone ..finally meet in person socially and they still want to meet again for fun ..def gives you a boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you chat to someone ..finally meet in person socially and they still want to meet again for fun ..def gives you a boost

Mars Bar?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"When you chat to someone ..finally meet in person socially and they still want to meet again for fun ..def gives you a boost

Mars Bar?

Or a bounty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Bunkie said... But it can be harsh if the person gives you a knock back. A real dent to the confidence.

I only really am learning to accept and believe compliments from C just recently, as I have confidence issues and find compliments so hard to accept.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"When you chat to someone ..finally meet in person socially and they still want to meet again for fun ..def gives you a boost

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Absoloutley !!

If your good at picking up the signals which many on here struggle at times to do unless being told outright

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ive learned to take the knock backs on the chin ..in the early days on the scene it would knock my confidence but now i realise and accept it for what it is ..i wont be most ladies cup of tea ..maybe im just getting old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take most compliments on here with a huge dose of salt

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"I take most compliments on here with a huge dose of salt

But that discounts the genuine compliment along with those trying to blow smoke up your arse to get your knickers off

That is poor. And not by you. Because of here

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I take most compliments on here with a huge dose of salt

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Its nice to get a compliment but know what you mean on here.

Only compliments I pay any notice to are from friends ive met before .

But wouldnt be rude and always thank everyone who pays me a compliment anyway

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

I don't

Cause I don't get any

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never be rude

But usually I reply with a lol

Real friends are diffrent obviously

But when you start out and have no pics and you get 10 messages saying..you look hot babe ..ermmmm

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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago

happy lil world

"I take most compliments on here with a huge dose of salt

Snap

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"I'd never be rude

But usually I reply with a lol

Real friends are diffrent obviously

But when you start out and have no pics and you get 10 messages saying..you look hot babe ..ermmmm

Now that I understand. Or maybe psychic

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Relaxed manner visual really dosnt do much Iknow alot of apparent gorgeous people who in my view are ugly due to their need for admiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take most compliments on here with a huge dose of salt

Snap

Snap again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never be rude

But usually I reply with a lol

Real friends are diffrent obviously

But when you start out and have no pics and you get 10 messages saying..you look hot babe ..ermmmm

Is it maybe a menopause reference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive learned to take the knock backs on the chin ..in the early days on the scene it would knock my confidence but now i realise and accept it for what it is ..i wont be most ladies cup of tea ..maybe im just getting old lol

who wants to be everyones cup of tea?.....i would rather be someones shot of tequila any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at my first party through this site and at the start as we were all meeting the hostess just came up to me and whispered in my ear hi sexy it filled me with confidence i dont think i am what people would call handsome but i have had sexy a few times i like that i feel that strange as it may seem so i guess as it always is what a person perceives you to be do you jave to be brad pitt to be sexy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone likes a compliment it makes you feel good about yourself esp for ppl with confidence issuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but strangely i dont have confidence issues but i know i am not everyone's cup of tea i am happy in myself is that okay ? Is that confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have confidence issues and find it very hard to take a compliment!

Any time, I get a wink, a messgae or a good chat helps with this!

Thanks to those who have and thanks to those in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree but strangely i dont have confidence issues but i know i am not everyone's cup of tea i am happy in myself is that okay ? Is that confidence

Well if your happy im sure thats fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get compliments all the time at work, the norm of working in a pub in guess!!

But I'm really rubbish at accepting them

Enjoy all the compliments you get... it's when they stop that we should worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever really had one, well I took it as a complement

"Your photos don't do you justice"

I blamed the crap photographer, oh wait it was me

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Like a few other posts, I find it hard to accept compliments, it does feel good though when you get a fab on your pictures or a wink or even a message lol

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's human nature I think to not know what do do with a compliment.

I generally get a bit blushy don't know where to look and let out a very quiet uh thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's nice to be modest but it's taken a long time for me to learn to accept a compliment but much better than I used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very hard to accept compliments

Am more of a giver than taker

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